Entering the mind of a dancer
Monday, April 7, 2014 9:50 AM
is something I wish I could do.
I don't make threads often, but I want to vent about this. Let me first say that I realize these girls have to put up with a lot. They have to talk to dudes they don't want to talk to and get groped during dances. So I'm well aware that to be a dancer you have to be able to tolerate a lot. That said, it's their job and they get compensated VERY well for it. I'd be willing to bet that many of these girls make more $$$ yearly than people with professional jobs without having to have any type of real job skills.
Last night, I'm at this club and as soon as I sit down, this beautiful Latina sits down besides me and introduces herself. We chit-chat a while, but while talking she was constantly on her phone texting/checking facebook WHILE SITTING with me. I understand if a dancer does this while sitting by herself, but constantly texting while sitting with a customer seems very rude and is probably not a good sales technique. To be fair, the club was very slow, but that's still not an excuse.
She sat with me for a while (mainly because the club was dead) and eventually asked for a dance, but I turned it down (although I REALLY did want a dance from her) because I just didn't like the vibe(s) I was getting from her. I can't believe I turned down a hot LATINA, but I didn't like the constant texting and on top of that, clubs in my area have super expensive lap dances (and pasties :( ), so you want to have a good feeling about a dancer before you drop $50 for two, short ass songs just to try her out.
I very rarely think about or ask myself, "Why do dancers do what they do?", but last night had me thinking about that. I don't know, I'm not a dancer, so maybe I don't know what the fuck I'm talking about. But too often I see these girls do things that make me think "Why the fuck would you think that's a good sales technique/way to get a customer to buy dances from you?"
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