I usually think that dancers go home by themselves after work. However, a dancer told me that she cannot leave the club with any customer, because the manager will drive them to their home to ensure that no dancers would be taken out by any customers.
definitely not, carolynne. I would pretend to believe her to see how wonderful her story would be. I don't need to pay one cent for listening her story.
I have gone home with quite a few dancers after their shifts. Now I didn't do this right in front of the manager or bouncer. I usually drive to a nearby fast food place, she meets me there and then we drive to her or my place.
In general most strippers go home by themselves or with their stripper friends.
In the clubs I frequent the dancers can not leave with a customer. The bouncer walks all dancers to their car or to a cab. On several occasions I have had a dancer take a cab the 2 miles to meet me at the hotel only to have me drive them home later.
Many clubs frown on allowing customers to be seen loading the stripper in the car for a ride home....or motel.
Most dancers I have taken home or motel, leave the parking lot with another dancer, and we connect down the street at a bar or all-night diner. I'm told it's a ploy to keep LE from filming stripper and customer leaving together for what LE might later claim was for illegal purposes. I think it's so other very PL'ish customers don't assume that the girls are available for take home.
"I'm wondering is this a strategy of that dancer to bargain her price of OTC."
No chair was her way of telling you that she was never, ever going to be leaving the club with you. What concerns me the most, however, was why she thought that you might actually believe that story. ;)
In Manhattan a lot of strippers have drivers or split cabs with each other if going to nearby destinations. In queens many of them actually drive or even use just use the subway (at least on the way there, maybe not always for leaving).
I have noticed even outside of NYC a lot of strippers also just split cabs or drive.
I have taken a stripper out of a club in a cab before. Even right in front of one of the bouncers. Not all clubs actually care much. The thought of the manager driving the stripper sounds like bullshit. It is possible the manager arranges for drivers or cabs though.
1. They drive home.
2. Their fellow strippers give them a ride.
3. Their waitress friends give them a ride.
4. They take a cab.
5. Their boyfriend/husband picks them up.
6. If its date night, they ride home with their date.
7. The manager sometimes will take them he if they are really under the influence.
8. Their other relatives pick them up.
9. The police give them a ride (but not home).
10. I sometimes take them home (to their place, not mine).
I've heard dancers say they can't leave with customers in a club before. I've just met up later on. Apparently the same rule doesn't apply to female customers trying to hook up in a strip club. I just thought that was weird so I have yet to leave with a girl I just met in the strip club who doesn't work there. I do remember a couple of clubs that didn't have a rule about leaving together. They were small clubs.
" Apparently the same rule doesn't apply to female customers trying to hook up in a strip club. I just thought that was weird so I have yet to leave with a girl I just met in the strip club who doesn't work there"
Are you talking about female customers leaving with strippers or are you talking about you leaving with female customers?
My favorite is when I drop a dancer off at the front door for work and then pick her up afterwards down the street so that she won't be caught getting into my car. The bouncer working the front door held my car door open for her when I dropped her off and it wasn't a problem but she was afraid of getting into trouble if the same bouncer saw her getting into my car after she got off of work.
Most strippers either live with other strippers or their boyfriends. A few live with their families but not many. When 2 or more strippers live together they tend to share rides to work, even when they're working at different strip clubs.
Yeah...I still have mixed feelings because there was one night I actually tried to get OTC action and the gal agreed...but after 45 minutes she texted and said she was too drunk to drive so the bouncer was driving her home.
At first it sounded legit...because the club doesn't want drunk strippers driving home...and this was a pretty professionally run club...and she did really, really seem into me that night...we spent like 4 hours sitting together and talking.
But on the other hand...it's always 9-1 that a stripper is telling you the truth...so you kinda expect the lie and are pleasantly surprised if its the rare truth.
I frequently leave a 1/2 hour before my ATF and go to the local Holiday inn, text her the room number and stretch out while waiting for her to drive herself to the hotel.
I've offered dancers rides home before and since I present myself to the bouncers/floaters as a harmless girl just out for a little fun they have no issue with it (this despite alot of camera evidence that I'm sure would prove otherwise).
And I'm sure if LE was indeed watching what would they care about two women walking out of a club together?
Most clubs in my area are very strict about dancers leaving with customers. It's one of the few true firing offenses. Dancers still meet men out of clubs, but they have to be very subtle about it. Some dancers car pool, some get rides from managers, the DJ or bouncers, some of us drive ourselves, some use taxis or jitney services. Most likely, she was politely turning you down. Sidenote: most of my friends are strippers. You can be professionally competitive without taking it personally.
Lol very true, Club_Goer....but one negative thing that I encounter that you guys don't is seeing some of the dancers in the ladies room under the unforgiving fluorescent lighting! Talk about ruining the fantasy at times!
Always a very bad sign when a dancer can't come up with a half-way believable lie. Usually means they are very hostile, and feel a need to think they are vastly smarter than customers.
I think the obvious is that clubs are not getting any of the cut if dancers meet with custies OTC – thus their (club management) strong opposition against it – they don’t want anyone fucking with their money.
True dat Papi. She told me that her apartment was on the largest moon of Upsilon Andromedae d. I tried to do OTC, but she told me the UV flux from Upsilon Andromedae would be problematic for terrestrial life. Although she appeared to share many features of earth life, including an incredible rack and sexy sexy vag, she assured me that she was capable of photoreactivation of UV damage. Plus the ride home through the Andomedan wormhole was unpleasant for the first human she tried to take home with her.
She did, however, let me do some anal probing ITC.
"...but one negative thing that I encounter that you guys don't is seeing some of the dancers in the ladies room under the unforgiving fluorescent lighting!"
LOL Lopaw. A couple of years ago I took a girl out of a club on the Block in Baltimore and had a rude awakening when I saw her under bright lights in the lobby of my hotel. Sometimes those low lights can really make bad look good.
@ lopaw and rickdugan: I've had the a similar misfortune. I've been in a club twice, when the practice, right at closing, was to turn on all the lights. This was to kill the mood and motivate the crowd to exit quickly. It works. My thought was that the dancers look ten years older in bright light!
If they say that management won't let them leave with a customer and you see one leave with a customer you know you're a PL. If they leave with you after telling you that then you know you're just a plain loser...of your $$$.
Um, Chairsky, just about all of my female friends are or were strippers. We tend to travel in packs.
And I usually drive home, unless I'm shitcanned, then one of my friends that work at my club will give me a ride or I'll get whoever I'm seeing at the time to pick me up.
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You obviously don't know any strippers.
Ok maybe if I was Hugh Hefner, but not anyone else.
Although that's just in one club one night.
In general most strippers go home by themselves or with their stripper friends.
Very obviously.
Most dancers I have taken home or motel, leave the parking lot with another dancer, and we connect down the street at a bar or all-night diner. I'm told it's a ploy to keep LE from filming stripper and customer leaving together for what LE might later claim was for illegal purposes. I think it's so other very PL'ish customers don't assume that the girls are available for take home.
No chair was her way of telling you that she was never, ever going to be leaving the club with you. What concerns me the most, however, was why she thought that you might actually believe that story. ;)
I have noticed even outside of NYC a lot of strippers also just split cabs or drive.
I have taken a stripper out of a club in a cab before. Even right in front of one of the bouncers. Not all clubs actually care much. The thought of the manager driving the stripper sounds like bullshit. It is possible the manager arranges for drivers or cabs though.
How Strippers Get Home:
1. They drive home.
2. Their fellow strippers give them a ride.
3. Their waitress friends give them a ride.
4. They take a cab.
5. Their boyfriend/husband picks them up.
6. If its date night, they ride home with their date.
7. The manager sometimes will take them he if they are really under the influence.
8. Their other relatives pick them up.
9. The police give them a ride (but not home).
10. I sometimes take them home (to their place, not mine).
Are you talking about female customers leaving with strippers or are you talking about you leaving with female customers?
Most strippers either live with other strippers or their boyfriends. A few live with their families but not many. When 2 or more strippers live together they tend to share rides to work, even when they're working at different strip clubs.
Most dancers that I know either drive or share a ride with dancers that do drive. A smaller group get rides from bf/husband or a 'paid' driver.
Yeah...I still have mixed feelings because there was one night I actually tried to get OTC action and the gal agreed...but after 45 minutes she texted and said she was too drunk to drive so the bouncer was driving her home.
At first it sounded legit...because the club doesn't want drunk strippers driving home...and this was a pretty professionally run club...and she did really, really seem into me that night...we spent like 4 hours sitting together and talking.
But on the other hand...it's always 9-1 that a stripper is telling you the truth...so you kinda expect the lie and are pleasantly surprised if its the rare truth.
And I'm sure if LE was indeed watching what would they care about two women walking out of a club together?
Heh heh heh
(who am I trying to kid? FRESH after a shift at the club? Yeah, right.)
Pull up chairsky and read more of this fine discussion board and educate yourself :)
LOL - words of wisdom from stripperville!
They ride their bicycle
Who is a bigger dumbass? A person who lies or the one who buys it?
She did, however, let me do some anal probing ITC.
LOL Lopaw. A couple of years ago I took a girl out of a club on the Block in Baltimore and had a rude awakening when I saw her under bright lights in the lobby of my hotel. Sometimes those low lights can really make bad look good.
And I usually drive home, unless I'm shitcanned, then one of my friends that work at my club will give me a ride or I'll get whoever I'm seeing at the time to pick me up.