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5 years ago
This is funny to me, because within mere days of joining, I learned what the ignore button was (and rejoiced!) solely based on being exposed to SJG.
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5 years ago
That title had SO much promise...🤪🥴😋
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5 years ago
@FishHawk At my club, we offer full contact private dances... we can dance a few feet away fully nude, or remain scantily clad and rub ourselves all over a willing victim...er, patron...😏
I don't think I've ever had a request to keep my distance (especially since we're nude on stage)... consequently, it's easier to say where my feet AREN'T... and that's on the floor. 🌞
@twentyfive Only if you promise to be my personal lifeguard! 😉
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5 years ago
So elaborately well done! Lol
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5 years ago
I ❤ all the ❤ on this thread!
And you're all making my point for me exactly... each guy and gal can communicate (or not) in a way that's comfortable for them.
I had another experience early on where a random unknown reached out to me regarding my DC club. I thought he meant to come by the club for a drink, but it quickly devolved into an invitation I wasn't comfortable accepting. I was able to politely decline from the comfort of my own phone, and therefore, saved us both a lot of time. And we all know... time is money! 🤑
Ya know, I'd always thought "unicorn" was reserved to describe the fairer sex exclusively. But, I was wrong...I found one of my very own! 🦄
I really appreciate all the great feedback here and I'm definitely doing what I can to spread the word in my little corner of the world...🌞
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5 years ago
@nicespice Thank you so much for sharing your experience...a couple of girls from my club recently joined and one of them asked me how long it took me to start generating biz from the site. I shared my story of being contacted out of the blue by a gentleman who lived elsewhere but knew he'd be traveling through my area. Within a week and after a handful of PMs between us, we met at Lust for an extremely enjoyable, mutually beneficial, and soon to be repeated afternoon. (I feel like I'm not doing the experience justice with that description, but I don't wanna gush too much!)
The initial contact was days after I joined. I believed I'd gotten extremely lucky right out of the gate, and was worried about creating an unrealistic expectation for others, but being able to point them toward this particular post (which gives me an idea for a dressing room thread...) is really helpful.
I think it's great that there are ways to interact here without actually having to interact... lurking sounds so creepy. Maybe browsing...? 🤔
But the point is that this is a forum that many different types can use for whatever works for them and I hope the good experiences keep rollin in!
And those unicorns? They really DO exist!
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5 years ago
^ Useless for most purposes... indeed.
However, I choose to use it as a marketing opportunity. The eyes of those gentlemen light up like Christmas trees when I mention the wonders of my WV club...
If you tempt them, they will come! 🌞
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5 years ago
This is not surprising at all... After all, we're talking about a city that RE-elected a mayor after he got caught doing crack with a hooker...
And yet we're not allowed to give lap dances in the clubs??? 🥴🤪🙃
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5 years ago
Oh, I guess I should've mentioned that I always take my boots off (and shoes too) in a private dance, because I figure most gentleman would rather feel my skin against them than the material of my footwear. Of course, I have left them on by request, but that's been very seldom.
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5 years ago
@SirLapdancealot Aww... flattery will get you everywhere, my dear! 😉
But, yeah... I was super bummed to learn that flotation device theory is totally a myth! Here I thought I could give up that very fashionable vest that hundreds have worn before me, but, nope...I still sink like a stone. On the plus side, I fill out the vest a little better and don't get mistaken for a 12 year old boy! 🌞
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5 years ago
I know I'm in the minority here, but I wear heels in and out of the club all the time. If I wear flat heeled shoes for too long, my calves and shins hurt.
I also mostly wear boots in the club... I have a couple of pairs that I adore and replace continually with the same style. When I do wear shoes, I prefer less of a platform and more of a heel... I definitely feel as sexy as you guys must think they look.
I do recognize that most girls hate them and will take them off every chance they get... For those girls, the guys should be thanking you all the time for the efforts you make! 🌞
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5 years ago
Oh, this one cuts very close to the bone for me! I say it all the time, I'm shy and have a huge fear of rejection... So, it doesn't make sense that I I'm in the biz at all. However, sex sells! So that makes it easier!
It's especially difficult for some of us girls because it's such a counterintuitive thing, right? Usually, we're used to the man approaching, so there's no chance of rejection. Over time, I've grown more comfortable in my own skin and the fear has lessened, but it's still there.
To answer the question as to what to do to conquer it, alcohol helps!! I don't need booze to get naked in front of people, or to dance on the stage, but it definitely helps when I'm talking to strangers. The best thing a guy can do on approach is simply walk up and ask if I'd like a drink.
The other thing I don't like is asking for anything... Including a drink. That's why I will sometimes sit with a regular of the club who will always keep my glass full if I want, without me even asking.
The other thing that helps me avoid the fear of rejection is coloring... yep, that's right, coloring! ( I should probably mention that I'm strictly a day shift girl, and I don't think I would do this on a night shift.) But, it's amazing what a conversation starter it is. This way, I don't have my head in my phone, but I'm doing something that relieves stress and is a creative outlet, and that others feel comfortable walking up to me and commenting on.
I should also mention that my fear isn't a crippling one... I will approach a gentleman if he's sitting by himself and no one else has talked to him. I don't want anyone walking away feeling like they could have gone to just any bar instead of walking into my strip club. )
Also, I applaud the author for starting this thread... great, real topic! 👏 🌞
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5 years ago
@twentyfive I'd never even heard of the movie! I'll add it to my list though...
With a stage name like Summer, I had to get creative with the SN, so no real significance.
I will say, that is much as I've always wanted to learn how to swim, I've really gotten by remarkably well without it... They give you a life jacket when you go snorkeling or swim with dolphins...Guess I've been enabled my whole life! 🌞
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5 years ago
'Fraid not twentyfive...I just never met a beach I didn't like and can adorn the bow of a boat like nobody's business.
Sadly, I don't even know how to swim! 😮
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5 years ago
Btw, Juice...I just noticed some of your clubs (still learning my way around), and I tried working at a couple of them while I was visiting a friend in NC earlier this year. It was like trying to break into Fort Knox! They must be well stocked down there and don't take too kindly to strangers...🤔
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5 years ago
^ I may or may not be posting while drinking at work...
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5 years ago
Used panties? 😏😋😌😇😈
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5 years ago
Just be nice to the gentlemen Fancy, they'll be nice to you...😊
Okay, in all seriousness... though it really is that simple. Men are fairly easy to please... As these guys have already demonstrated. Show em the goodies and they're happy!
Beyond that, just watch the other girls and emulates the ones that seem to be the most successful. And you can always ask questions, the nicer girls will be happy to answer them, and the ones who aren't... probably see you as competition so don't worry about them anyway.
Feel free to PM me if you have any other specific questions, or even on this thread... Good luck!
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5 years ago
You think it's easy?? You try having to be the reason the sex is always good!
Tee hee 😇
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5 years ago
Oooh...pick me, pick me! (Raises well-manicured hand)
I'll be your favorite girl! 😏💋😘
Oh wait, what was that saying mama always told me... if it seems to good to be true... you're probably selling your soul to the devil? 😋
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5 years ago
They say timing is everything... Why am I never in the right place at the right time when these people want to lavishly spend?????
😜
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5 years ago
That does make sense... in my experience, those who subscribe to a particular type of kink (BDSM or otherwise) are typically all too happy to pay handsomely to indulge their fetishes.
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5 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
You guys should try out a day shift sometime!!
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5 years ago
Maybe that was just her way of politely saying, no thank you?
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5 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
We all know what happens when we a-s-s-u-m-e things...