Comments by mantown13

Looks do not just provide opportunity, they can sustain it. Witness sociologic research confirming that rates of promotion are significantly higher for taller men than shorter. It is perception of looks, attributing competence/excellence with looks. Also means you can take advantage of it by standing straighter and buying shoes with heels... As for Cuban dancers, I've found them aggressive, not fat, quick to offer OTC, but eager to lower price & chase you if you play alpha male. But my n=2 for clubs with lots of cubans since I so infrequently go to SCs.

IceyLoco is correct that public shaming works... until the shaming becomes meaningless due to tolerance and enough exposure to it. Part of the judicial sentence in the MA colony was shaming. It worked then. May not not be as effective now, but you can bet it works from the # of 3%'ers who would object. That is why blackmail is a crime... and why so many people still fall prey to internet blackmailer scams demanding bitcoin for not exposing webcam videos....

Strippercutie, I actually agree with the concensus that if you can function in your professional and personal life fine, and don't end up hurting anyone - especially yourself -- then you have a rare superpower! Of course, it does take the right mindset, and everyone is different, so for other ladies, it may be a curse... Now I'm really curious... does the hypersexuality extend to a desire to explore the limits of your sexuality and try new experiences, situations, fetishes? And if you were in the middle of a wave, would seeing something normally disgusting, like a picture of your grandparent nude or a dead puppy, kill the wave for a short while? Or what about being interrupted in the middle of enjoying a wave by your mother suddenly barging into your space! I'll bet those things would kill the hard-on of 99.9% of all the mongers on here... maybe even require some to have intensive psychotherapy for a year...

Wow, Strippercutie that's quite a story you have there... and very well articulated. When you feel a "wave", does that mean your threshold for being stimulated is lowered (easier to get you excited)? Does it take less effort to achieve orgasm? Are you able to achieve orgasms more quickly? Is the refractory period between orgasms (time it takes to recover before the next one) less? When you say you cannot "control it", it almost sounds like the thoughts of needing to have sex are intrusive - even compulsive. It does give a new avenue to obsessive-compulsive. Have you ever sought medical attention? An imbalance in your endocrine system might be contributing. Before you or others say, "so what?" keep in mind that there is always more than one side to a medical condition, ie., it's possible you might have another condition you are not aware of that is accompanying your hypersexuality. Lastly, I am very surprised, none of the women mentioned that there are classes, and a movement in this country that is over 6 years old that involves teaching men and women to help women achieve clitoral orgasms through touch stimulation without the context of sex/intercourse. There are sites/groups that have people registered in this so women can feel safe finding men or women willing to help them achieve orgasm without the need for reciprocation (that's why the context is non-sexual, strange as it sounds). The concept is called therapeutic female orgasms; the movement is OM (orgasmic meditation) - you can google it. It's most popular in SF and Austin. Maybe that might help you with your waves when you're not able to find your regulars.

Or if you prefer low-volume and be able to trust the guy more, an arrangement (SugarDaddy/SugarBaby) would be the way to go. There are plenty of sites for that and you can see what your competition charges, some sites even have blogs with tips on how to start... So, that's the homework lesson for the day...

Strippercutie, didn't you already check out the escort sites listing ads for your area? If you wanna see how you stack up vs the competition on price and what you offer, that's an easy way to do it. Or am I missing something??

Having lived in MA for over 2 decades, I can say with confidence that... just because the average IQ is higher, doesn't mean there are fewer idiots there!

Some STDs are easier to treat than others. But a major factor with risk is appearances: visible warts have a higher chance of spreading HPV; visible herpes lesions yield a much higher risk of transmission than no lesions and on Valtrex; HIV thru hetero sex is much more likely to transmit if the victim has an open wound or compromised skin/mucosal surface - much worse if you both have one - but you have to look hard to find a small mouth ulcer (easier if you have them drink something sour or spicy and watch their face betray the stinging sensation). Let's put all this in perspective. Current research shows risk of HIV transmission from infected blood to intact skin to be 0. Yes zero. If you have a cut, the risk is roughly 1 in 313 or 0.32%. Here are my stats: http://www.aidsmap.com/Risk-of-infection/page/1324549 So if the sex is rough BB, you just went from 0 to 1 in 313. If your skin is fine walking out of the dance booth, you can sleep that nite without worries. Does that help put fear mongering in perspective? And yes, washing out an open wound with alcohol or bleach will reduce the odds... but remember that a sunburn is considered an open wound...

If you can trust her, that sounds like a great deal. Geography makes a big difference. I haven't any experience with West coast clubs but in SoFL, north of Miami I've seen from 500/2 hrs to 600/hr. That's before negotiating. In central MA, 150-300/hr is typical which is crazy cuz cost of living is about the same between the 2 places!

Don't know if you're reading this still, but if you're feeling rejected at your club, you need to really ask yourself what you're hoping to get out of dancing there. Is it just the $? Is it interacting with the clients? Is it the ability to please others? understanding your own motivation is perhaps more important than all the advice on how to get more attention. Why am I saying this? You mention getting unwanted attention at a non-strip club job... and not getting enough attention at a strip club. With your natural beauty, you expected things to be the same at both places? Since they are not, it's obvious that natural beauty has very little to do with what attracts men at strip clubs!

Thanks for the tip on parking. I must have remembered incorrectly about dance prices - got it confused with another club I visited a few weeks later in TX. I did remember the floor dances did not seem worthwhile cuz you could see and get an idea from chatting the girls onstage and when they come sit with you. The dance booths are definitely where you can get extras and the girls definitely don't waste time dancing -- out with the condom and wipes soon as curtain closes.

Came across this discussion and want to help with some observations (am a physician who works with translational research, ie., applying research to clinical use): 1) OTC (over the counter) medications from a Mexican pharmacy are less regulated than health supplements in the US. So the amount of sildenafil in the Mexican Viagra is variable and will depend on the exact company producing it. Published studies exist showing the variability. So saving 98% on costs gambles the content of the pill you buy -- do you feel lucky? 2) Recreational use is one thing. However, many guys actually have some heart disease, peripheral vascular disease, and/or diabetes/pre-diabetes, so they may actually need Vitamin V or find it helpful. Getting a surprise low dose can really be a nasty (embarassing) surprise when you're counting on it. Also, if you really need it, you might find that it only lasts for 1-2 cups (ejaculations), not the full time. 3) Fluoxetine (Prozac) has been a standard for treating premature ejaculation for several decades. When I took it for depression 20 years ago, I was warned that it could prolong ejaculation. Oh yeah - there are side effects, but if you're depressed, it can be a godsend. 4) Dapoxetine is a short acting SSRI. Not useful for depression cuz you'd have to take it 4+ times/day. Good for premature ejaculation. Not so good if you have insomnia cuz it will kill your REM sleep. So if you take it, make sure it's as early as possible during the day. BTW, shortening your REM sleep may significantly reduce your testosterone production - you do make more when you get a good nite's rest. 5) Trazadone, an extremely sedating anti-depressant, has priapism listed as a major side effect. And no, it doesn't happen to everyone -- I tried it a couple times but no effect :-( 6) Priapism is defined by an erection lasting 4 hours or more continuously. If your erection lasts 3 hours continuously, it will likely start to hurt. Some tissue ischemic damage may start after 3 hrs, definitely after 4. If not drained of blood in timely fashion -- yes, it does require a needle at the penile base - permanent damage is possible. By that, we mean necrosis or gangrene. Yup, as bad as it sounds. 7) Common side effects are more common with Viagra than Levitra (vardenafil) or Cialis (tadalafil). Typical are: headache, feeling flushed, blurred vision, upset stomach, nasal congestion. I've personally had 3-4 of these with Viagra, but only one with the others. And with Cialis, just as the potential for spontaneous sex is there since it lasts for 24-36 hrs, so is the potential for long duration of side effects. 8) Mainly with Viagra, be careful of what you eat before/while taking it (within 30 mins before eating to 2 hrs after food). Fatty meals may delay absorption and effects by up to 3 hrs. So plan your meals if you don't want your boner to be missing when you get lap dances 1-4, and show up just after you exit the club... - Ed

Wow, sir - you are quite the inspiration! 72 and having fun with the 21 crowd and looking for your ATF. The sugar daddy/sugar baby route is fraught with similar perils as the stripper route. Have found about the same rate of reliability overall, and even some crossovers. You could definitely have done better on SA although hitting multiple sites would have been easier: AF, WYP, etc. I've found that you see the personalities come out faster with an SB, and the looks/chemistry faster with the strippers. Your insights are much appreciated since we all have different experiences, and you communicate well. Hope we see more wisdom imparted from you online.

Nice job there! The Europeans do have interesting theme porn that sound like a reality show - some look convincing enough to be real: Fake taxi driver (Brits and Germany/Czech Republic/Hungary) Truck stop hunting for hookers (Czech Republic/Hungary) Hitchhiker pickups (European ones seem more real than US ones cuz they look more amateurish)