mantown13

Looks do not just provide opportunity, they can sustain it. Witness sociologic research confirming that rates of promotion are significantly higher for taller men than shorter. It is perception of looks, attributing competence/excellence with looks. Also means you can take advantage of it by standing straighter and buying shoes with heels... As for Cuban dancers, I've found them aggressive, not fat, quick to offer OTC, but eager to lower price & chase you if you play alpha male. But my n=2 for clubs with lots of cubans since I so infrequently go to SCs.

IceyLoco is correct that public shaming works... until the shaming becomes meaningless due to tolerance and enough exposure to it. Part of the judicial sentence in the MA colony was shaming. It worked then. May not not be as effective now, but you can bet it works from the # of 3%'ers who would object. That is why blackmail is a crime... and why so many people still fall prey to internet blackmailer scams demanding bitcoin for not exposing webcam videos....

Strippercutie, I actually agree with the concensus that if you can function in your professional and personal life fine, and don't end up hurting anyone - especially yourself -- then you have a rare superpower! Of course, it does take the right mindset, and everyone is different, so for other ladies, it may be a curse... Now I'm really curious... does the hypersexuality extend to a desire to explore the limits of your sexuality and try new experiences, situations, fetishes? And if you were in the middle of a wave, would seeing something normally disgusting, like a picture of your grandparent nude or a dead puppy, kill the wave for a short while? Or what about being interrupted in the middle of enjoying a wave by your mother suddenly barging into your space! I'll bet those things would kill the hard-on of 99.9% of all the mongers on here... maybe even require some to have intensive psychotherapy for a year...

Wow, Strippercutie that's quite a story you have there... and very well articulated. When you feel a "wave", does that mean your threshold for being stimulated is lowered (easier to get you excited)? Does it take less effort to achieve orgasm? Are you able to achieve orgasms more quickly? Is the refractory period between orgasms (time it takes to recover before the next one) less? When you say you cannot "control it", it almost sounds like the thoughts of needing to have sex are intrusive - even compulsive. It does give a new avenue to obsessive-compulsive. Have you ever sought medical attention? An imbalance in your endocrine system might be contributing. Before you or others say, "so what?" keep in mind that there is always more than one side to a medical condition, ie., it's possible you might have another condition you are not aware of that is accompanying your hypersexuality. Lastly, I am very surprised, none of the women mentioned that there are classes, and a movement in this country that is over 6 years old that involves teaching men and women to help women achieve clitoral orgasms through touch stimulation without the context of sex/intercourse. There are sites/groups that have people registered in this so women can feel safe finding men or women willing to help them achieve orgasm without the need for reciprocation (that's why the context is non-sexual, strange as it sounds). The concept is called therapeutic female orgasms; the movement is OM (orgasmic meditation) - you can google it. It's most popular in SF and Austin. Maybe that might help you with your waves when you're not able to find your regulars.

Or if you prefer low-volume and be able to trust the guy more, an arrangement (SugarDaddy/SugarBaby) would be the way to go. There are plenty of sites for that and you can see what your competition charges, some sites even have blogs with tips on how to start... So, that's the homework lesson for the day...