Would this bother u guys?
strippercutie404
;)
So I just started dancing a couple weeks ago, so far its been great, I like the girls I'm working with a lot. Anyway though, last week I had a guy come in, he seemed around mid-late 30s and I saw a ring on his finger so I asked him if he was married and he said he was and that he had two kids. We talked for a little, he said he loves his wife but that things have grown stale in the bedroom lately and that he is looking for something different. He bought a few dances afterward, said I was really good for someone so young and that he'd be coming back next week. Well he came back last night and told me he wanted to get VIP with me this time. Our VIP is about $250 for 30 minutes. I haven't managed to sell VIP yet but he told me that the VIP room most of the time means sex. So I have very open views about sex in general, I support sex positivity and women's freedom to make their own choices to do whatever they want with their bodies. So I told myself before stripping that I would be okay with sleeping with some of my customers as long as they aren't dangerous and as long as they are willing to use a condom, so I told him that I was fine with that as long as he was willing to use a condom and he told me he had one on him.
So afterward he told me he had had a lot of fun but that we could have a lot more fun outside of the club and that he was willing to pay me $350 to meet him outside the club. Which comes to the main reason why I'm posting this thread. So I told him I was okay with that and we didn't exactly discuss it but I'm guessing he probably will want to have sex since we've already slept together. The problem is I don't really know where to really bring him. He told me he was married with two kids so I can't imagine he wants to be bringing a stripper back to his wife lol. I could bring him to my house, but I still live with my parents. My parents have been pretty chill about me bringing boys back to my room with me and my mom and I talk about almost everything about my sex life. She said she was personally fine with me dancing but said not to tell my father because that would be a little too much for him. I'm 100% certain my dad wouldn't like me bringing a customer in his mid-late 30s back to my room and I'm not entirely sure my mom would be okay with it either. She's completely fine with me having sex with boys my own age but I'm not sure how she'd feel about me sleeping with an older man and I kind of don't want to find out so I'm thinking I'll just sneak him in for now. My room is on the upstairs part of the house and my parents is on the downstairs part and relatively far from my room so they can't really hear anything that goes on up there.
So I guess I was wondering would you guys be bothered by the prospect of sneaking into a stripper's home for sex or would it be kind of exciting? Btw I am 18 so none of this is breaking any laws but I don't know if that would just feel too weird for most older men?
So afterward he told me he had had a lot of fun but that we could have a lot more fun outside of the club and that he was willing to pay me $350 to meet him outside the club. Which comes to the main reason why I'm posting this thread. So I told him I was okay with that and we didn't exactly discuss it but I'm guessing he probably will want to have sex since we've already slept together. The problem is I don't really know where to really bring him. He told me he was married with two kids so I can't imagine he wants to be bringing a stripper back to his wife lol. I could bring him to my house, but I still live with my parents. My parents have been pretty chill about me bringing boys back to my room with me and my mom and I talk about almost everything about my sex life. She said she was personally fine with me dancing but said not to tell my father because that would be a little too much for him. I'm 100% certain my dad wouldn't like me bringing a customer in his mid-late 30s back to my room and I'm not entirely sure my mom would be okay with it either. She's completely fine with me having sex with boys my own age but I'm not sure how she'd feel about me sleeping with an older man and I kind of don't want to find out so I'm thinking I'll just sneak him in for now. My room is on the upstairs part of the house and my parents is on the downstairs part and relatively far from my room so they can't really hear anything that goes on up there.
So I guess I was wondering would you guys be bothered by the prospect of sneaking into a stripper's home for sex or would it be kind of exciting? Btw I am 18 so none of this is breaking any laws but I don't know if that would just feel too weird for most older men?
74 comments
etc - many dancers/experienced-custies will have fake social-media accounts and burn phone #s to communicate with those in the game (someone that has your real phone # can gather a lot of your personal info if they wanted to - in this biz it's best to maintain club life and personal life as separate as possible except with some folks).
If the guy wants to have you outside of the club, then it means he doesn't want to do any sneaking around. Otherwise, he would just do it in VIP again. I like outside the club dates with girls so that I don't have a time limit and I can get comfortable. Let the guy worry about where to go. I'm sure he has a hotel picked out.
I did give him my real phone number. Was that a mistake? You're right I should probably get a burner. I have all my social media accounts on private though so only my friends can see what I post.
I thought it was limited to the champagne room !
;))
You seem young and naive. NEVER give your real personal information to anyone like that. For all you know he will show up and kidnap or stab you. You have no idea what people are actually like who do shit like this (go to strip clubs to cheat on their families.) Don't even give people a real number. You have no idea how easy it is to look people up online then get their real Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, friends list, real day job info, etc.
Of course I know people fuck in hotels I was just worried that they would call the cops because they'd suspect I am a prostitute.
Damn, you’re one expensive ho.
Oh, please stop. I'm laughing so hard I'm actually crying.
I'm just gonna stop talking.
First - don’t go to his house. That could lead to a bizarre encounter with neighbors or his wife or kids.
Second - don’t bring him to your place or your parents place. This guy should know as little about you and your home as possible.
Third - if he’s done otc before - he should know to get a hotel room. Hotel front desks don’t care that he’s checking in with a younger girl to fuck. Hotels only care when hookers work the lobby or on the street outside.
This is a learning experience - so you will learn to give out less personal info to customers. This guy is hopefully cool - so dont sweat it. Get a burner or business only phone. Otc is hotel only - and he pays for the room. Hotels are safer for both of you.
Get a burner phone or app allowing you to use a different texting number on your primary phone.
And send pictures, I might like to see you sometime as well :)
Well the VIP prices were actually determined by the club. I don't really know what prices for sex are considered normal for my region though. How would you suggest I find that out?
What kind of money are you trying to hit every week? If you wanna be paid for sex find a city where you can charge a fuck of a lot higher than $350. Idk I would fucking guess and say go to Manhattan.
I'm trying to hit about $1200-1500 a week. Last Saturday I made about $550, the weekdays before that I made about $260 and $220 after cover charge. Last week was better than my first week.
I don't know if everyone is but I know some of the girls are definitely fucking in VIP cause I sometimes see used condoms in the trash can in the dressing room. My manager seems like he doesn't really give a shit about his job, he didn't tell me whether we do extras or not but some girls definitely are.
If any real dancer is reading this $1200-$1500 a week is easily doable with zero extras in many areas.
It would bother me try to sneak into a 18year old stripper home, risking being shot by someone thinking I am a burglar, or if that call the police etc.
Like other have indicated, he initiated the OTC activity, he should work on the details. If he is really married he probably will want to be discreet.
When I had OTC wit my ATF I would get the room by myself and will ask for two keys. Then I will go get her from the car and we will walk in like we own the place. She always would dress very nice, not trashy or cheap.
From the movie easy A:
Rosemary: Not to mention how you have been dressing these past few days. No judgment, but you kind of look like a stripper.
Olive Penderghast: Mom!
Dill: [to Olive] A high-end stripper, for governors or athletes.
One last thing you should do a background check on the guy. The internet is your friend and google your best friend
If you want to do extras, whatever, do your extras. CHARGE MORE. In my club, everyone pretty much gets along and is friendly but if you are fucking someone for the price of a champagne room?? Girl what the fuck??? As soon as the other dancers find out, and they will find out—you are going to either get beat up or harassed until you quit coming back there. Or both.
In other news my advice to you would be slow tf down. After reading your story I will let you know that the actions you’ve taken with this one person have exposed you to:
Him finding your address
Him learning your real name
Him finding your social media accounts
And all of those things equate to exposure to your friends and family. Maybe you don’t care. You are very inexperienced and you should care that not knowing what you’re doing is going to leave you vulnerable to mistakes or actions that could open the door for you to be arrested, or raped, or harmed by this person you don’t know. His entire story may be a lie, you probably have not considered. Many escorts come across dangerous people who portrayed themselves as otherwise.
Maybe you don’t care about those things either, but being arrested leads to court fees, or paying for an attorney, which I’m certain you can’t afford, not being able to get a job in the future, not being able to go to school for certain professions that closely rely or relate to ethical actions.
At the very least, you are being dumb, sorry for saying so, but you are putting yourself in harm’s way. Please, research this job online, or go get an agency if you want to escort, while you learn the ropes, if that’s what you want to do.
FYI, the laws of many counties forbid you from being allowed to work in a strip club if you have an arrest or conviction related to prostitution.
Please do some goddamn homework about how to safely do this job, for the sake of those who love you. Go on YouTube and search “Forensic Files Stripper” if you don’t believe me.
technically you are ‘selling it’ anyway because you get a portion of the vip fee anyway. you may as well make some good money while you can. just be aware of the risks.
i love girls like you and your innocence!
No money and no sex.
Lower the price until you have built up your client base. Remember, the customer has to pay for the hotel and other things as well.
And customers can be douchebags and thinking nothing of outing one dancer’s to another one. If one is high volume enough, the chances of her shenanigans being discovered shoots way up.
Even non intentionally just in the course of normal conversation you can get outed, and that will cause you problems
“This girl is going to end up with HIV, a pimp, and then dead.”
—pause—
“Only 250 to fuck her?!?!?! HAHA!!!”
But all of us strippers are making jabs at “her.” And the PL on this board are praising her (if they haven’t figured out it’s a troll yet.) So, I’d say the troll was done just right. Ahahaha.
I don't give a fuck what she does, but don't give her advice on how to greatly devalue her "services" damn.
Don't listen to some of these dudes. They look to get the most for the least. As a woman you should look to do the least to get the most.
I actually have a friend who's a sugar baby but where I live, sugar babies don't really make a lot of money. She makes about $600 per week and right now I'm making over double that. I did think that becoming a sugar baby in college could be a good option for me though. I'm really hoping to get into University of Miami and I think I have a good chance of getting in. My dad told me that for college he is willing to cover half of the tuition for wherever I go and half of the rent for wherever I live. University of Miami is crazy expensive though. I'm waiting to hear whether I'll receive an academic scholarship but if I don't, then I'm gonna need $35,000-40,000 a year at least. I thought about stripping in Miami but I imagine clubs there will want me to work weekend shifts and I want to have a normal social life. Most people I know who go to college are super busy even without work so I really want to just work weeknights and then have weekends completely off.
So I thought becoming a sugar baby could work there. I saw something online saying that sugar babies in Miami make $4,000-10,000 per month. The girl in that article didn't want to have sex though and I am comfortable with that so I think I could probably make closer to the $10,000 per month range than the lower end of that. That hopefully could let me keep weekends open while still making good money.
Honestly I'm not really trying to do the least amount possible. I have a ridiculously high sex drive, it kind of drives me crazy sometimes lol, so I thought I might as well get paid good money for it. I more want to see how much money I can make for what I have while keeping as much of my personal freedom as I can.
It’s only been because of transferring schools and having too much credit hours worth of classes that I ended up dealing with nonstop financial aid issues. And so now I gave up fighting and just pay the tuition directly.
That being said, if you go to Miami, there will be lots of TUSCLers who can meet up with you.
And makes sense. I forgot about private university tuition and all.