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7 years ago
Nothing bad could happen. Just bust that load while she's on top and she can't get pregnant. Also, scrub the little guys head with a Brillo pad before and after so you don't get an STI.
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7 years ago
Ishmael, thanks for the link. I have been looking through some old forum posts and articles. However, I prefer interacting with people in "real time" discussions over reading dead threads.
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7 years ago
I definitely prefer nicer hotels and have platinum status with SPG Hotels. So I can book there least expensive room and be upgraded to their best available room for free at check in. I don't want to look like a chump that paid more for a hotel room than for the date. Lol. I was thinking of proposing lunch or dinner at the hotel restaurant then retire upstairs.
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7 years ago
Not quite. If you have trouble reading that much you can post your phone number up here and I'll read it to you.
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7 years ago
Yeah, Joc. It's a similar feeling to anticipating the first time. Except I feel that I'm more likely to actually shit myself in anxiety now
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7 years ago
Front. Then back. Then front and back!
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7 years ago
Yeah. I know that's a possibility but I'm pretty confident she'll be reliable. If not I'll move on.
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7 years ago
Is BJ99 from Phoenix?
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7 years ago
I don't really have much interest in a threesome. But I would love two women blowing me at the same time. Kinda like this.
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph584c3ec8369e8
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7 years ago
I'm thinking about just being honest with her. I'm pretty sure I'm going to do it at least once because I've been anticipating it for a while. Maybe I just let her know that at that price it'll be a one time thing and then I'm moving on but if we can cum to more reasonable terms it'll be a few times a month thing. For VIP fee and another $150 I'd be doing that shit every week. As long as it's as good as I'm predicting.
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7 years ago
Golden pussy syndrome I believe. Lol
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7 years ago
Did she do it though?
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7 years ago
Oh. I'll see myself out. Lol
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7 years ago
JS69-Also, I have no real life connection to any one here so if I had impotence problems why would I care if a bunch of nameless people on a strip club forum knew? I've also tried jerking off with a finger up my ass. It's on the internet now and no one but you people will ever know! That's the freedom of anonymity on the internet! I can tell you anything! Just get that shit right off my chest!
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7 years ago
Jackslash- I work a shit ton of hours. I'm in the medical field and often pull 60 hour weeks and call on top of that. Then with family obligations and what have you I'm left with little to no time for OTC interactions. If I did I would be trying to pull civie women instead. ITC is not only a convenience factor but also part of the excitement for me.
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7 years ago
JS69-I'm definitely not a troll. I AM a newbie. As far as not having a boner in a strip club, lol, she was a fall back because the girl I wanted was busy, and I'm picky about my pussy. I HAD a boner but there was no way stinky was gonna make me cum. I'm still young and I get wood when the wind changes direction, lol. Thanks for the advice though, and I've already realized SJG is full of shit lol.
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7 years ago
Exactly Papi. I'm sure some people here may think that's weird as shit. I know I'm paying for it. You know I'm paying for it. SHE knows I'm paying for it. But I want it to FEEL like she's dancing for me and then then decides,"I really want to fuck right now." I'm sure I'm probably just going to spend a lot of money and end up only fucking myself but I won't be able to really enjoy it if I have to negotiate for it. That's what wives are for.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Addendum to my above comment: I couldn't see the chairs or tables because the Phoenix sun was so bright outside and the club is dark as homemade sin.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I almost ended up in some unhappy guys lap a couple weeks ago. I don't think he would have tipped, lol!
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7 years ago
I've seen other reviews for the club that verify $250 is the rate for the private rooms. It's not that I don't know what's up. It's that I'm trying to achieve a more GFE. I'm willing to spend the extra time and money if it would mean I get to pretend it's a stripper wanting to fuck me and happens to get paid for her time.
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7 years ago
Sorry I keep writing novels, LMFAO. This should also probably be a review. If anyone wants me to post a version up on the club let me know.
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7 years ago
Update: since posting last I've been back twice. The first of those two visits was on a fairly busy Friday afternoon. I fumbled around in the dark looking for an empty seat, ordered a drink, and enjoyed the stage show for a few minutes. I saw the blonde I've got a thing for with another customer, bummer. She went on stage and saw me, smiled and waved. I did likewise. I was then approached by another dancer I've did VIP with before. We ordered drinks and talked for a few minutes. Then she asked if I'd like to go back for some more privacy. Paid the VIP fee and went back for about 20 minutes. She went down on me after a song or two and gave it a good effort. The sensation was great but oral doesn't always get me there and sometimes actually makes it almost impossible. While my dick was in her mouth I realized I'm not really that into her and call it quits. I guess the fact that fake tits aren't really my thing and her snatch, while not stinky, didn't exactly smell like roses either, turned me off. I thanked her and payed up, with a decent tip, because I'm a gentleman after all. I still had about $150 I'd planned on spending but needed to step away from the stage area to check a message on my phone. As I'm walking toward the exit the blonde runs up to me and gently grabs my arm.
"You aren't leaving me are you?" She asks coyly.
"No," I reply. "I just needed to check on something."
She offers to find us a seat and I agree.
When I joined her she she draped her legs over mine and stroked my thigh. We made small talk for a few minutes which isn't my thing but whatever. Then she asks if I know the dancer I was in VIP with to which I replied not really. She introduced me to her friend and introduced the idea of doing doubles. He friend had really nice big tits but her face and ass were lacking. She asks if I'd like some dances or to just talk some more. I'm not a big talker so we go to VIP for about five songs. I let her know how much I had left to spend for the day and I know she was disappointed lol. She was very sensual and did some decent grinding and a little stick shifting. About two songs in I notice she's clock watching or either interested in something going on the main club area. This kills the vibe and mood for me and my boner was gone. Still, I'm hooked from our first encounter. I asked about her schedule which she gave me. I left after and promised to see her again soon.
I Went again today with the intention of only getting dances from her. She was on stage when I arrived and immediately came to my seat when she was done. We talk for a minute and I order a drink and offer to buy her one because I know that's a thing people do, lol. She replies, "I don't drink and I don't want you to pay $5 for a water I can get for $1." We hung out for a while and she doesn't bring up dances at all. Finally I say, "I've done VIP with you. What's the deal with the private rooms?"
She explains, "That's where you go if you want more privacy and intimacy."
I ask her where she prefers to go.
"That depends on what you want to do," she replies. "But, for the time we spent together last time the private room is a better deal. You get 30 minutes for $250, which includes two drinks, and then tip."
My plan was to get the private room anyway so that's where we went. I ordered my drinks and away we went.
She instructs me to sit in the corner and I comply. Apparently, I wasn't reclined enough so she pulls me down a little. She then straddles me and slowly removes her top. Dances were hot with lots of two way contact, nipple sucking, and ass grabbing. I was a little handsy myself lol.
She turned around and slowly grinds on me, arching her back and nibbleing my ear. Then she takes my hand and puts it on her pussy over her thong. I oblige and begin softly rubbing. She moved my hand a little then pulled he panties away and put my hand in. She was very wet. I rub a little and then slip a finger in. Holy shit! I had forgotten how tight her pussy is. One finger and no room for wiggling it! Still I work on it. Hitting her g-spot. She begins moaning and really grinding on me then reaches in and starts stroking with a nice rhythm. She changes positions. Bent over on the couch with her ass facing me. She guides my hand back to her tight little hole and I go at it again. Stroking on her g-spot and gently thumbing her clit. Kind of like when you grab a six pack.
At this point I realize it's been a while. She grabs our drinks to refresh us and I lightheartedly ask if they forgot about us. She checks and it's been 40 minutes.
"Bummer," I say.
"Are you done?" she asks.
To which I reply,"I don't want to spend another $250."
She informed me that They can't charge me more unless they notify us that the 30 minutes is up. I couldn't help but feel like I would be stealing her time if we kept going though so I decline. After a killer more light petting we make an exit and I promise to see her again soon.
I had a lot of fun with her. I can't wait to go back. But, I want to fuck. In the club. Trouble is I need it to feel organic. I'm not saying I don't want to pay for it. I just don't want to negotiate or do anything else that kills the fantasy of mutual wanting to fuck each other. I've been reading theough the forums a lot and checking out the articles as well. I still haven't found a method of making it happen that feels like we're just LETTING it happen. I'm really enjoying the slow build but I'm ready to close the deal now. Any advice on how to make this progress in a natural feeling way?
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7 years ago
I agree. I was raised in GA. We say Coke or Miuntain Dew. The only two choices.
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7 years ago
It also depends on whether you are circumcised or not. Being uncircumcised comes with an increased chance of catching STIs.
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7 years ago
Thanks everyone for the good advice. All of you have been very helpful. I've had some time to wrap my head around these new experiences I realize I started playing a game I don't even understand the basic rules of. I'll be reading plenty of articles and following the discussions. I just don't want to pigeon hole myself into being a guy they expect to unload $300-$400 every time I walk through the door. I know I don't know what the hell im doing I just don't want them to know it!