OTC. Details of making arrangements.
Stognasty
Everywhere. Currently Phoenix
As I'm prepping for my first OTC I've begun to wonder what the normal arrangements are. What kind of hotel do you book? Do you get the cheapest or do you prefer nicer surroundings? Do you do dinner or is it just sex? What time do you prefer and how long are the "dates"? What else should I be considering?
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Make absolutely sure that you know the girl well enough to spend several hours with her. I recommend seeing her ITC a number of times before you see her OTC. I prefer to work out details of payment and services before the date, within reason, to avoid unpleasant surprises.
With the right girl, OTC dates are the best part of the hobby! Have fun and let us know how it goes.
This recent thread has some good information:
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5152…
Just buy what your comfortable with
I strongly suggest dinner beforehand. It helps with the whole GFE.
Length of time varies a lot depending upon what you are paying. But I'd say start with dinner and 1-2 hours in the hotel .
Be careful not to set the bar too high first time, cause that might be where you're stuck.
If you do attempt mid to lower end, add some nice touches to your "OTC bag" that you bring: nice soap or shower gel, lotions, extra towel or two, candles (if she's into that), etc. If you're going to check in before she arrives, air freshener can help reduce the musty smell of some cheap hotel rooms.
I want some type of real world interaction on my dates. Meal, movie, clubbing, go-karts, shooting pool, etc. Sitting across a table from a pretty face and magnificent cleavage is a big reason I do it.
I always propose OTC dates on non-busy days/nights and offer enough so it is easily above what she would make on a slow shift. She's getting out of working an 8 hour shift, should be easy to convince her to spend most of it with me instead. Haven't had a chance in my schedule to do an overnight OTC date and not sure I ever will. Although I am talking to one girl who seems interested in traveling with me when I go on trips for work.
I basically do the assumptive close, just tell her we'll meet at a restaurant ("what kind of food do you like?"), not a bad idea to do a really good restaurant, and then propose doing a little barhopping afterwards -- they always say yes to good food and drinking, except for high-volume strippers who have strict escort-like by-the-hour pricing. So, eat, drink, go back to the hotel and fuck it all off.
A: Just about the cheapest I can get if I am in a home club. Much nicer when I am traveling. However, given that this is your first time, a nicer place might be the safer bet for a number of reasons.
Q: Do you do dinner or is it just sex?
A: I long ago lost count of the number of OTC "dates" I've done yet I can count on one hand the number of dinners involved. Frankly, many of the girls that do OTC are perfectly happy doing the deed and then leaving - things like elaborate dinners just drag things out for them. However, I do find that a couple of rounds of drinks before going up is not a bad thing.
Q: What time do you prefer and how long are the "dates"?
A: Later in the evening for an hour or so. I work for a living and can't be roaming around during daylight hours.
Q: What else should I be considering?
A: Just be sure to bring your own protection and do not pay her upfront.
Good luck!
This is just personal preference, there's not much strategy going on here. Day OTC has the small advantage of, if you go strip clubbing together, it's MUCH more fun to do that on the lower-hustle dayshifts. Night OTC has the advantage that far more restaurants and bars are open, and you get the whole nighttime party energy
I've never known any OTC girls enough to have any trust in them, so I always find a neutral meeting spot.
Unless the company is paying I generally just go with whatever 3.5 star or higher priceline.com has on its express deal. You can usually get a pretty good deal on an above average room that way.
Usually go with middle of the road hotels. Stock the hotel fridge with drinks, maybe some weed if she smokes, bring your own condoms, etc.
Yes. Personal opinion, of course. Many dancers have chaotic lives that are filled with bad decisions and worse friends / associates. Even if her life is stable right now, that could change quickly and without warning. My advice is to air gap (as much as possible) your personal life from hers.
Relaxing that policy in the future as you get to know each other better? Maybe. That's a more debatable topic.
Keep in mind that dancers have their own security / safety concerns with regards to their OTC customers. From her perspective, meeting for OTC in your home poses greater risk for her.
I would recommend a hotel room until you're much more familiar. I've cut the cord with some dancers where, if they knew where I lived, I'm not sure I'd be living there anymore.