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5 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I need to cogitate on this treatise a bit more, but I think I agree. With the exception, of course, that sometimes I offer my management services to her. Life changing.
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5 years ago
What attracts me the first time is her looks, how fun she is at the table (e.g., she drinks, she's charming), and that she's at least relatively fun in the VIP
What gets me coming back just for her (aka, what gets her to be my CF) is:
1. She honors the sacred covenant of the appointment. She gives me her number, we set up appointments, she either shows or texts me in advance that she's not going to make it in to work, etc.
2. She progressively increases mileage as we see each other. YMMV treatment is one of the benefits of being a regular. In an all-extras-available club, this might not be as important; but in my no-extras low-touch club, progressively moving to higher and higher touch is de rigueur for regulars
3. She's immediately or eventually open to OTC
A few months ago I met a stripper I was wildly attracted to, and wanted to transition her to CF. I gave up and moved on because she wouldn't give me a phone number to make appointments. "I work Tue, Wed, Sat. Come see me then!" I suggested she get a google voice line so she could give her # safely, but she didn't/wouldn't. If I can't make appointments, I have no interest in a stripper, I don't do dances with her anymore. This by itself is always enough for me to move on, no matter how much I otherwise like a stripper. I enjoy the progressive YMMV of a CF much more than any one-time experience with a hottie.
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5 years ago
"Which of these two thongs do you like better?" *sends pics* = We both know you're already out the door to come see me. Bitch better have my benjamins
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5 years ago
"I made so much money last night" = I am in need of your management services
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5 years ago
"Sorry I didn't text you back, I broke my phone" = I was on a multi-day drug binge, but now I need money
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5 years ago
"Let's go have drinks!" = I'm definitely not showing up for drinks
"Text me if you want to hang out" = I'll be ignoring all your texts
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5 years ago
lol sorry, blew your cover!
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5 years ago
Oh yeah, like we believe you have something better to do
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5 years ago
Jon Snow: You plan to save the north from the white walkers, by doing what again?
SirLDK: I plan to have the Stark sisters sit on my lap, and then I shall arrive in my own pantaloons!
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5 years ago
Final season it morphed to a by-rote basic-bitch TV fantasy show, alas.
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5 years ago
-->"That's the point. It's not about what you *THINK* makes a married man happy or not. You have no clue on that but yet you post as if you know. LMAO from the perspective of a woman that hasn't been married."
Ya, that complete lack of understanding of male behavior and motivation, might move me from "it's obviously Dougster, you dummies" to "maybe you douchebags are right, it's female".
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5 years ago
-->"rather than just focusing on her own fun with strippers.:
On the other hand, maybe it's better for all concerned if icey focuses more on PLs than on strippers, given what his "own fun" consists of:
"Its in your best interest to take control of her drug use from the start. Make sure she does the minimum to get fucked up."
"Never ask her to do shit. Tell her to do it."
"Its about control."
"Don’t be afraid to discipline her. Eventually you’ll have to. Be manipulative with her feelings."
"She’s not happy with herself and never satisfied, she’s always looking for a quick fix and fast satisfaction."
"The number one thing you need to do to fulfill her needs is to make her dependent on you for as much as possible. You basically have to manage her life. Its what these bitches crave"
"If she fucks with your main bitch keys your car gets violent with you, then slap the shit out of her. "
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5 years ago
To put it another way: the only ways in which dayshift isn't superior to nightshift is: nightshift generally has bigger hotter lineups, and nightshift generally has more of a party atmosphere (for those who like party atmospheres -- I imagine that this is actually a negative for more than half of tuscl). Everything else -- mileage, level of hustle, girls willingness to develop and YMMV regulars, prices of nearly everything, socialization time, ability to be discrete (that is, fewer customers), number of ROBs, etc., goes to dayshift
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5 years ago
Paps, I have one FWB (my now-retired ATATF moved there), some of her friends are strippers but most are... I don't quite know what to call them, Vegas hot chick hustlers, maybe. I don't pay anyone, but obviously am the walking wallet for fancy dinners, drinks, etc., but I love being surrounded by sizzling hot chicks and good booze anyway, so that's all extra bonus for me. I did a few trips with the girls to the SCs, they all tend to like going, but pretty much have stopped that, we have way more fun at Vegas's regular bars and restaurants, and that's where I'd rather spend the $. If I didn't have that, I think I'd be looking for a hot SA chick to re-creat it.
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5 years ago
In general, I think of Vegas as a good place to avoid the sex industry. Lots of fun things to do away from the SCs, etc. If you do want to hit the SCs, Spearmint Rhino and Sapphire are relentless hustle tourist traps but the sight of so many gorgeous women in one place can make you practically giddy, plus there's drinks. And there's Palomino, nude with alcohol which is a pretty fun combination. Just set your expectations low, and you might be pleasantly surprised. Or if "set your expectations low" doesn't make sense to you as motivation to go SCing, then find something else fun to do.
I already have a girl(s) in Vegas, but if I didn't, I'd probably try the SA route ala desertscrub. Having a hot chick for non-sex-industry fun (hit a great restaurant, go to a great bar or speakeasy, some light gambling together, etc) topped off with sex in the room, is always a winning combination
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5 years ago
The seven girls are all star trek fans? That's kind of a weird plus, no? even though it's dumb
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5 years ago
-->"Jeez - you are green and gullible AF"
I realize it could be genuine, but the pattern of: just signed up and did two reviews on the same day, then started threads that are obvious push-button topics for us... is sometimes a little suspicious
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5 years ago
Note that aside from the guys here who indulge the trolls, even some of the regular members reply to all her angsty banality
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5 years ago
Her posts are a never-ending stream of vapid thoughts and banal discussions, but a lot of the members enjoy banality, based on the number of responses everything she posts get. So that's that.
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5 years ago
(those are the kinds of places known amongst locals here. The other hotel bars known amongst locals, there's no rhyme or reason, you just have to know about them)
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5 years ago
Eh, I just checked reviews for some hotel bars where there's known to be some escort presence (not to mention lots of strippers party there off-hours), but a search didn't yield the word "escort" anywhere.
So, with that, sounds somewhat fruitless, but the best strategy might be: Go to upper-mid-range and lower-high-end hotel bars, particularly the ones nearest your city's convention center, particularly when there are conventions in town. If there are escorts or strippers "freestyling", that's one of the types of places they'll be.
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5 years ago
It's a joke. See, he's not *really* asking for a friend *wink*
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5 years ago
A couple of years back, I'd know where to send you: see if you have local forums that cater to the sex industry -- local escort forums -- there will be discussion of such places there, if they exist in your city. There were a few places that existed here, that were known as places where escorts went. I just don't know how you'd get g-2 about them anymore, since most local escort forums have folded due to fosta/sesta. There's a chance escorts might be mentioned in yelp reviews. Try searching through the yelp reviews of hotel bars in mid to high end (but not ultra high end) bars
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5 years ago
Oh shit. Well if she's pregnant, perfectly understandable for you to tell her you're not comfortable getting dances with someone who is pregnant, without ever referencing her being fat. I dunno, I'm all for keeping that door open instead of just ghosting; it might pay dividends for you down the line. A CF of mine got pregnant and I stopped doing dances with her, but on good terms, as she gained weight. Two years later she was back to looking amazing, re-connected, and became one of my best ATFs.
I mean, if you two don't have much history and you give few fucks about her, then sure, just stop texting her and that's that. But otherwise, why burn those bridges, or be scared of telling her you're uncomfortable doing dances with preggos but otherwise wish her well?
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5 years ago
One month and she put on that much weight? Or was she already teetering on being to thick, and 7 pounds (or whatever) was enough to push her over the edge? Are you sure it's not medical, if it's that fast? Medicines like prednisone make people gain a ton of weight super fast -- but it falls back off very quickly when they're done with the 3 week cycle. Someone with any kind of inflammatory disease, like crohn's, might have to do that.
If it were my ATF -- not CF, ATF -- I'd likely talk to her. By the time she makes ATF status, we're pretty tight, and I usually genuinely like her enough to at least explain that she's still gorgeous but a little voluptuous for me, but I'd still like to have drinks with her. And because you say it's just a month, I can't let this go -- I want to know if it's medical and possibly short-term weight gain that will quickly disappear. If she's just a CF, I might be more likely to just move on.