I could be wrong, but seems like there is a tone of pent up anger and frustration at times on this board. With all the current and future TATAS to behold, why be frustrated? NIPPLES are great attached assets to perk up all the fantastic future TATAS. Not to mention the endless opportunity for hot ASS grinding upon the tents we sport. Life is good. Play HARD!
I think when you get to people who have resigned themselves to getting their sexual needs met in strip clubs, that you are dealing with people who have had hard times.
Long ago a dancer told me not to "use strip clubs for sexual gratification" because "that's perverted".
^^^^^^ Lots of sexual frustration in this world, and so guys who have few options try to get by with what they can get.
Remember Nina Hartley, porn star, often spokes person for women in porn. She had worked at MBOT. Of LDKing she has written something like, "Well if they can cum through two layers of clothing, then they must have really needed it." And then talking about sexual frustration.
I don't think strip clubs are fun for most men. Men who depend on finding hookers in them or pay women to cum in their pants have deficiencies that come through in other aspects of their lives.
@Nidan well that's cool, but why start a thread about there being pent up frustration and anger then if you don't want to talk about it?
If that's the case, just make a thread plainly saying you wanna see tatas, nipples, and ass. That's something we can all get behind with no discussion of anything else.
Two pair of boobs would be fantastic. One girl with a pair in front and a pair in back. Fondle the nipples in the back while pressing the front boobies to my face. My fantasy world would be all kinds of kinky weird stuff!
Nidan is 100 % correct and I have also found it to be baffling, which I have voiced from time to time over the years. Strip clubs are supposed to be entertainment, not to serve as a substitute for something else. Unfortunately there are guys around here who have lost sight of this and take silly dancer behavior way too personally.
This very much includes some elderly dudes who struggle to accept that their time for spring time romance has come and gone. It's their turn now and they would be best served accepting the role of elder statesmen, but some can't accept it so they still chase the dragon with paid girls. Sad but there it is.
To add to what I said above, I think that some of those old dudes are still seeking some feeling of romance because they feel cheated by life somehow. Maybe they never had it. Maybe they thought they did but now are divorced and lonely. I am sure that each one has a different story.
But that doesn't change the fact that they are old and that this kind of romance is for the young, but just their ability to accept it. So they pivot back and forth between being angry at women and making asses of themselves when dealing much younger ones.
Ricky Douchebag: “Nidan is 100 % correct and I have also found it to be baffling,”. That’s pretty funny coming from the guy who has posted about wanting to physically assault a patron for smoking a cigar and wanting to ambush another patron in the restroom for some perceived slight. Not to mention posting about “fucking me up” in a parking lot. Sorry I can’t post the links because the Douchebag has blocked me https://www.tuscl.net/app/discussion.php… but they are there. Those are your examples TFP.
@Meatless wrote: "...if you want an example look at how Randumbmember ...blah blah blah" ____________________________ I was just making fun of your spelling mistake @Meatless, and making fun of your semi-literate stupidity in general. Don't take it personally!
If the above examples are the kind of pent up anger and frustration that Nidan is talking about then what's the big deal? That shit is all around us everywhere in the real world, nevermind just this board.
At least here the worst that happens is you get in arguments or trolled. I'd rather deal with that then some fucktard throwing a kid over a balcony because he kept getting rejected by women in his everyday life.
We all know there is a difference between going to strip clubs to have fun, and going coz your sex life depends on trolling them for hookers... Of course guys who have to resort to that won't be the happiest.
I guess I choose to live my real world differently. Because that shit is not all around my world. Either that or I choose to ignore it and not give it a second thought. Play hard have fun.
Once again, that's good for you that life is good. But realize that might not be the case for everyone else. And simply telling them to go to a strip club and feel on some ass and tits isn't gonna make their problems go away. If that was the case, the members of this forum would be the jolliest bunch of assholes this side of the nut house.
@twentyfive I wasn't necessarily talking about us when I was saying that everyone might not be able to say they have a good life. On the contrary I think plenty of us on these forums must have a good life to be able to afford to blow money on strip clubs.
I was just responding to Nidan's comment "Because that shit is not all around my world. Either that or I choose to ignore it and not give it a second thought. Play hard have fun.". I strongly disagree with his first sentence and agree with his second and third sentence. And like I said, it's fine that he chooses to ignore it. But because he ignores it doesn't mean there's still not people with pent up frustration and anger that he might pass by in his day to day life.
Hey Randumbfag, keep me out of your homoerotic, pissing sword fights with the dudes that your in love with. As my tag line states, you and SJG and IceyLoco all fit the same mold so keep me out of your faggitry. I love chics, not dicks, faggit!
OK, I misread the beginning. I thought this was referring to dudes who are specifically mad at women, but now I see this is a general "Don't Worry - Be Happy" thread aimed at everyone.
rick said “ I think that some of those old dudes are still seeking some feeling of romance because they feel cheated by life somehow. Maybe they never had it. Maybe they thought they did but now are divorced and lonely.“ in my case divorce set me free to enjoy the delight of interacting with beautiful young ladies! stripclubs are a convenient venue!
I think for the most part that most members are here to have fun any way they choose with strippers.
Unfortunately there is a vocal minority here that would rather judge and comment on how others have fun with strippers rather than just state what they like. For example look at IceyDodo's condescending post in this thread. Rather than just focus on the fun she has with strippers, she focused on what other PLs do with them instead. She's a classic example of the angry and bitter vocal minority here that focuses on how others are having their fun rather than just posting about her own fun.
In my own world, last Friday I got to see my ATF DS again because my wife had another girl's night out with her BFF. And wow was it a great time. Since she has been missing my massages she has been VERY accommodating for them. For this visit she removed her top and just wore her black thong. I had completed access to her body without any straps or clothing constraints. It was almost as if she was naked. And even more than usual than in the past she wiggled her ass as I spooned her from behind and also I got to massage my hard boner with her ass cheeks hanging off the edge of her bar chair. If at any point I started to go soft, I would simply massage her ass and lower back and also grind my own hips discreetly to stimulate my cock until I was rock hard again and even edging on cumming. I sat like that with a raging boner for an hour and so by the time we went to go get dances I was already very excited. The resulting LDK was awesome.
But this is only MY way of having the most fun with strippers that I WANT. For others, YMMV...
Not having a sex life and having to resort to P4P, or cheating, etc aren't "fun." They're things people do because they feel they lack other options. Big difference.
^ LOL an example of pent up frustration by IceyDodo over what someone else does for fun with a stripper.
LMFAO at her false assumptions. LOL she has no idea what options PLs have but she'll make an ASSUMPTION so that she has something to be bitter about LOL.
In my world, last Friday I think I found a new favorite. "Rain", 5'4", blonde hair that can just cover her tits, athletic squirm, perfect B cups, sweet ass, was smiling at me gently caressing her nipples.
I reach for top button of shirt, she assists, in moments my shirt is pulled out and opened, her perfect boobs up against me. She leans back a second, I gently twist her left nipple while looking at mine. She gets it, we go into full hug mode, playing a wonderful mutual nipple twisting game while she slow rocks her soft spot against my not soft place, for like half a song.
LOL @Nidan111 you nailed it with this thread. IceyDodo is obsessed about what others are doing with strippers for THEIR fun. Even though you called it out she couldn't help but be the example of exactly who this thread is about. LOL every post by her supports this!
@gSteph I always unbutton my shirt with my faves! The feeling of bare boobs pressing onto my bare chest is highly erotic. My ATF DS has huge and firm DDDs and smooth and tight skin and she feels so good when she's rubbing her chest on me. And yeah if I forget to unbutton my shirt, she does it herself. Love it!
@Icey, not fun, lacking options, no sex life? Wrong X 3. This last weekend my wife and I made love, went dancing, enjoyed a toke on hilltop during hike in park, along with other pleasures/tasks done together.
Perhaps you're projecting.
Oh, and I told her of my club visit. Part of our understanding. Hope I'm not doing it wrong.
LOL @gSteph my wife and I still have an active sex life too. And my wife knows I go to the club and supports it so long as it doesn't affect our sex life.
LOL IceyDodo and her FALSE ASSUMPTIONS. Again it's clear she creates them as a strawwoman argument in order to have something to be bitter about. LMFAO at how obsessed she is about it rather than just focusing on her own fun with strippers.
Your ATF sounds like fun, I guess that's why she's your ATF.
I think familiarity and relative compatibility is worth pursuing, I tried the too hump everything that walks but I have a much better time trying to find some one and cultivating a CF.
-->"rather than just focusing on her own fun with strippers.:
On the other hand, maybe it's better for all concerned if icey focuses more on PLs than on strippers, given what his "own fun" consists of:
"Its in your best interest to take control of her drug use from the start. Make sure she does the minimum to get fucked up." "Never ask her to do shit. Tell her to do it." "Its about control." "Don’t be afraid to discipline her. Eventually you’ll have to. Be manipulative with her feelings." "She’s not happy with herself and never satisfied, she’s always looking for a quick fix and fast satisfaction." "The number one thing you need to do to fulfill her needs is to make her dependent on you for as much as possible. You basically have to manage her life. Its what these bitches crave" "If she fucks with your main bitch keys your car gets violent with you, then slap the shit out of her. "
@Cristobal my ATF DS is so much fun! But also a big part of it is simply her body. For example her backup (at a different club) is even more aggressive and slutty with me during our spooning and massage time than my ATF DS. Backup will stick shift me and rub on my balls with my pants on, and she'll even give me mini-LDs as we sit, but honestly I prefer my ATF DS over her because seriously nothing feels as good just sitting with ATF DS because of her body and skin texture.
But yes, both of their familiarity and comfort and trust with me is key to my mongering happiness. When I am with either of them, I don't have to stress whatsoever about whether or not I'm going to get a good dick tease and LDK. I just have to enjoy the moment with them and relax and have a good time. And because if my regularity and massages it's super cheap! I low ball tip them all the time, and they don't care! For example my ATF DS stripper visit Friday cost me $60 for two dances! The hour I sat at the bar massaging her was completely free. I did not buy her a drink, nor did she want any tip! LOL all she wanted was my massage and she didn't mind me pleasuring my hard boner with her ass cheeks. Her backup fave is the same too. Neither ever expects tips and they ALWAYS appreciate and thank me for the massages.
Every now and then I will strike gold like this with a new stripper but it's never a guarantee. I much prefer the consistency and low price for very high mileage with a fave.
@Subra LOL when I read IceyDodo's methods on how she has fun with strippers I completely don't relate. To me she puts in A LOT of work, money, AND drugs just to get a GFE from a stripper whore. More than your average RIL trick. Plus I don't care to have any relationship OTC with any stripper, so I can't relate at all to her ways and methods. I don't have any issue with it either, I just can't relate and it doesn't sound like fun at all. But that's just me.
^ No shit @IceyDodo. We ALL have a lot of fun with strippers. The point of this thread is that YOU'RE the type that is putting down how others have THEIR fun. LMFAO your first two posts were about how others are not happy and not fun, but only ACCORDING TO YOU.
LMAO @IceyDodo, notice how in both of these posts by you that your focus is how OTHERS are not happy and not having fun? LMFAO you're projecting! (Like a dumbass you don't even see it.)
"I don't think strip clubs are fun for most men. Men who depend on finding hookers in them or pay women to cum in their pants have deficiencies that come through in other aspects of their lives."
"We all know there is a difference between going to strip clubs to have fun, and going coz your sex life depends on trolling them for hookers... Of course guys who have to resort to that won't be the happiest."
@Cristobal After being away from my ATF DS and backup CF for over 6 months, apparently they both view the massage as part of the routine. Both were immediate in "assuming the position" by straddling a chair backwards and hanging their ass cheeks over the edge and both went to teasing and grinding on my hard cock right away. LOL it was clear that both missed my massages as much as I did. They both also told me stories that others have tried and failed because they weren't as good as mine. And hearing "ooooh that feels so good, as good as sex" and "you're giving me goose bumps" (and actually feeling them as they say it) NEVER gets old.
I'm glad it helps your mongering experience. That's what TUSCL *should* be about. Just sharing your good times with strippers!
@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
@Cristobal After being away from my ATF DS and backup CF for over 6 months, apparently they both view the massage as part of the routine. Both were immediate in "assuming the position" by straddling a chair backwards and hanging their ass cheeks over the edge and both went to teasing and grinding on my hard cock right away. LOL it was clear that both missed my massages as much as I did. They both also told me stories that others have tried and failed because they weren't as good as mine. And hearing "ooooh that feels so good, as good as sex" and "you're giving me goose bumps" (and actually feeling them as they say it) NEVER gets old.
I'm glad it helps your mongering experience. That's what TUSCL *should* be about. Just sharing your good times with strippers!
@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
Wow, my bad for the multiple posts. I was hitting post but it wasn't loading like it was about to post. So I hit it a couple more times. ...nothing. I guess now I know once I hit post and it freezes up, just don't hit it again. Lol.
Sircumsinhispantsalot, You're telling me that you honestly believe that men who cheat on their wives, or who have no opportunity to have sex other than to pay for it, are truly happy????
Can you respond by saying something other than that any interaction with a woman is really just paying for a GFE? Or are you just sticking to the trolling cut and paste job and limited vocabulary?
LOL @TFP I did the same thing. Site was locked up for a bit.
Anyway, if there's been any TUSCLer that I relate a lot to the most, it's probably you because of the common stories we've shared. I still don't consider myself an ass and thong fetish freak like you, but I certainly can relate to the enjoyment of having my hard cock in between some stripper's PHAT ass cheeks in a thong.
On Friday my ATF DS had on some Daisy Duke denim "shorts" which get in the way of good boner stimulation because of the thick denim, and LMFAO as a "professional courtesy" she took them off and her bra to give me maximum massage access to her body and thus maximum boner time for me. And OMFG it was just so pleasurable to just look at the top of her ass and her thong "whale tail" as I massaged my own boner in parallel to rubbing her. I swear I was on edge for half an hour where I literally had to stop massaging every now and then because it felt so good. And I was doing everything - slow and sensual rubbing to quick and hard - to stimulate my cock multiple ways. I know from your posts that if you did the same, it would be awesome times for you too. Again, this is what TUSCL *should* be about - sharing and enjoying tales with strippers!
^ loco , who do think you are that you think you know who’s happy and what have you ever accomplished in your short life that qualifies you to judge anyone else, let alone folks you’ve never met.
^Icey, what in the world does side sex have to do with marital happiness? You come across as either (1) a female; or (2) a guy who has never been in a LTR.
LMFAO IceyDodo clearly you are still missing the point. You pay for your stripper whore GFE for YOUR happiness and others pay strippers for THEIRS. The point is NOT to judge others and ASSUME that they aren't having fun like YOU.
LMFAO this concept is clearly LOST on you to the point that you're still trying to make an argument about it as if it justifies YOUR RIL trick bitch methods. LMAO that you're still trying to even argue with me. LMFAO clearly you're obsessed about how others have THEIR fun.
Sircumsinhispantsalot, You're telling me that you honestly believe that men who cheat on their wives, or who have no opportunity to have sex other than to pay for it, are truly happy????
Can you respond by saying something other than that any interaction with a woman is really just paying for a GFE? Or are you just sticking to the trolling cut and paste job and limited vocabulary?
LMFAO IceyDodo you are still sticking to your tired ASSUMPTIONS so of course I'll cut and paste the same responses. LMFAO you keep doing the same thing... repeating your RIL trick bitch mantra. So we don't agree and we both repeat ourselves. Move on. That's the point.
LMFAO IceyDodo clearly you are still missing the point. You pay for your stripper whore GFE for YOUR happiness and others pay strippers for THEIRS. The point is NOT to judge others and ASSUME that they aren't having fun like YOU.
LMFAO this concept is clearly LOST on you to the point that you're still trying to make an argument about it as if it justifies YOUR RIL trick bitch methods. LMAO that you're still trying to even argue with me. LMFAO clearly you're obsessed about how others have THEIR fun
@trick boi Not only does it make you look stupid it makes you look like a woman, if you knew anything about man at all, you’d know that sex does not correlate with how they did about their wive, most men are as faithful as their options, doesn’t mean that they are unhappy Or unhappily married. You can generalize till the cows come home it’s not going to change make behavior, the only folks here that seem to be genuinely unhappy are those idiots that think they knywhats best for everyone else.
^ that’s you just because that’s the way you want it doesn’t mean any of us are obligated to follow you. Especially since you’ve proven to be full of shit.
That's the point. It's not about what you *THINK* makes a married man happy or not. You have no clue on that but yet you post as if you know. LMAO from the perspective of a woman that hasn't been married.
-->"That's the point. It's not about what you *THINK* makes a married man happy or not. You have no clue on that but yet you post as if you know. LMAO from the perspective of a woman that hasn't been married."
Ya, that complete lack of understanding of male behavior and motivation, might move me from "it's obviously Dougster, you dummies" to "maybe you douchebags are right, it's female".
>Ya, that complete lack of understanding of male behavior and motivation, might move me from "it's obviously Dougster, you dummies" to "maybe you douchebags are right, it's female".< I was thinking exactly that if you read my post above the last one I wrote that’s exactly what I said
LOL the point is to talk about our happy stripper experiences but yet IceyDodo continues to obsess about what other PLs do for their happiness rather than just talk about hers. LMFAO so clueless.
But just to keep the speculation going, then why be such a hater of stripperweb, and referring to the strippers on there as delusional aged hoes?
I guess there is the possibility it’s a female who either resents or feels superior to sex workers period (like Nicole1994, who Icey goes out of his way to prop up).
Yo, Icey, to repeat, I've been married > 38 years, tell her I love her every day, cuddle and spoon to sleep every night, go dancing most weekends, fondle in the hot tub most days, share the house work, etc etc. And a few times a year go out and marvel at beauty and sexiness of dancers, and get a couple of laps dances for thrills. And tell her when I've done so.
LOL the point is to talk about our happy stripper experiences but yet IceyDodo continues to obsess about what other PLs do for their happiness rather than just talk about hers. LMFAO so clueless.
===> "So I'm being vilified for not supporting cheating on your wives and coz I said guys who have to resort to P4P aren't happy.... okay"
No, you're being chided for making stupid assumptions that we know, through ample life experience, not to be universally true. What you choose to support is entirely up to you.
Exceptions don't disprove the general rules.... Whatever causes men to cheat or for others makes P4P the only option for them to have sex, is obviously not a cause of happiness.
===> "Exceptions don't disprove the general rules.... Whatever causes men to cheat or for others makes P4P the only option for them to have sex, is obviously not a cause of happiness."
Who says it's "the general rules?" You, with your vast life experiences? ;)
Also, why are you lumping in cheaters with those who use p4p as their only sexual outlet? Those are two very different animals with different motivations.
Look kid, I get it. You definitely have views on these things. But you are obviously having trouble understanding nuanced human behaviors. it feels like the only way you're capable of processing it is by trying to put it in some neat little box. Do you have trouble looking other people in the eye? Do tight clothes and loud noises bother you? Do you find yourself dependent on routines to stay calm? Just curious. ;)
RIL tricks like IceyDodo are so unhappy with their pathetic lives that they resort to paying stripper whores for GFE and also calling them bitches in order to feel some sense of "happiness". They will also mock other men that don't pay stripper whores the same way they do.
LMFAO poor IceyDodo is so unhappy with herself based on the way she posts but she wants to deflect this as if everyone else is unhappy the way they pay strippers. She fails to see that at the end of the day...
LMFAO clearly IceyDodo can't get laid unless he pays a stripper whore. Here's a bunch of her past posts. LMFAO that she claims other men are unhappy doing the same thing... paying for sex/GFE.
"I don't mind spending money in the club."
"If I fuck a stripper...... "
"I offer to pay the house fee, tip out and fine for leaving early) and smoke some weed."
"I don't mind doing normal things like giving her weed, alcohol if she can't buy it, or some money to get her eyebrows or nails done... a bill here and there..."
"Yeah, Im fine with the sugar daddy aspect. Im not naive to think she'd be with me if I were broke."
"Don't care where I met her and have no problem spending the money, its not an issue."
"And I agree, its really weird that she would cut off the $$$. You'd think she'd want to push it. And at this stage while I know itll hurt in the long run, Id be down with it. She knows I'll spend it on her.It was pretty much like we were living in a hip hop video...materialistically, it was there for her. Designer shoes, bags, clothes, the best weed, expensive restaurants. She grew up poor and likes fast money..."
"Im hoping if nothing else, she misses the money. She won't find this elsewhere...it was a lot. A few hundred a day, some days over a thousand."
"... I'd even be fine with it just being about money if she just stays and acts normal."
LMFAO I mimic the same thing as IceyDodo's first two post in his thread and then she calls me defensive.
LMFAO @IceyDodo hey dumbass, that post was a MOCKERY of your first two posts in this thread...you did the exact same thing.
LMAO I told you that you were too stupid to see it.
And LMAO your own quoted posts prove my point that you are an RIL trick bitch paying for sex just like all those unhappy men you accuse for doing the same thing.
LOL you're such a dumbass hypocrite. And you still don't see it!
PLs like IceyDodo are on another level of unhappy. They stay in denial that the only way to have a relationship is to pay a stripper money and drugs for GFE and then they pretend that it's not about the money. They also pretend that they're not any different than a guy paying a hooker for sex but they are exactly the same. LMFAO.
Icey, there you go again stating opinions as if they're statements of fact, despite everything you've heard to the contrary. You're not very bright, are you? ;)
IceyDodo has become so unhappy that she'll troll TUSCL obsessively about the issues she's in denial about (being a trick that is P4P with stripper whores), even doing it in threads where the whole point is to have fun with strippers and not worry about what other PLs are doing.
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Long ago a dancer told me not to "use strip clubs for sexual gratification" because "that's perverted".
SJG
Remember Nina Hartley, porn star, often spokes person for women in porn. She had worked at MBOT. Of LDKing she has written something like, "Well if they can cum through two layers of clothing, then they must have really needed it." And then talking about sexual frustration.
SJG
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If that's the case, just make a thread plainly saying you wanna see tatas, nipples, and ass. That's something we can all get behind with no discussion of anything else.
Being an anonymous site and talking behind a keyboard makes it a fairly-easy venue for some to vent.
This very much includes some elderly dudes who struggle to accept that their time for spring time romance has come and gone. It's their turn now and they would be best served accepting the role of elder statesmen, but some can't accept it so they still chase the dragon with paid girls. Sad but there it is.
That should sum up some vile hatred as a prime specified example of someone with extreme pent up anger and hostility.
https://www.tuscl.net/app/discussion.php…
But that doesn't change the fact that they are old and that this kind of romance is for the young, but just their ability to accept it. So they pivot back and forth between being angry at women and making asses of themselves when dealing much younger ones.
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I was just making fun of your spelling mistake @Meatless, and making fun of your semi-literate stupidity in general. Don't take it personally!
At least here the worst that happens is you get in arguments or trolled. I'd rather deal with that then some fucktard throwing a kid over a balcony because he kept getting rejected by women in his everyday life.
I was just responding to Nidan's comment "Because that shit is not all around my world. Either that or I choose to ignore it and not give it a second thought. Play hard have fun.". I strongly disagree with his first sentence and agree with his second and third sentence. And like I said, it's fine that he chooses to ignore it. But because he ignores it doesn't mean there's still not people with pent up frustration and anger that he might pass by in his day to day life.
Stfu Nidan.
in my case divorce set me free to enjoy the delight of interacting with beautiful young ladies! stripclubs are a convenient venue!
Unfortunately there is a vocal minority here that would rather judge and comment on how others have fun with strippers rather than just state what they like. For example look at IceyDodo's condescending post in this thread. Rather than just focus on the fun she has with strippers, she focused on what other PLs do with them instead. She's a classic example of the angry and bitter vocal minority here that focuses on how others are having their fun rather than just posting about her own fun.
In my own world, last Friday I got to see my ATF DS again because my wife had another girl's night out with her BFF. And wow was it a great time. Since she has been missing my massages she has been VERY accommodating for them. For this visit she removed her top and just wore her black thong. I had completed access to her body without any straps or clothing constraints. It was almost as if she was naked. And even more than usual than in the past she wiggled her ass as I spooned her from behind and also I got to massage my hard boner with her ass cheeks hanging off the edge of her bar chair. If at any point I started to go soft, I would simply massage her ass and lower back and also grind my own hips discreetly to stimulate my cock until I was rock hard again and even edging on cumming. I sat like that with a raging boner for an hour and so by the time we went to go get dances I was already very excited. The resulting LDK was awesome.
But this is only MY way of having the most fun with strippers that I WANT. For others, YMMV...
LMFAO at her false assumptions. LOL she has no idea what options PLs have but she'll make an ASSUMPTION so that she has something to be bitter about LOL.
In my world, last Friday I think I found a new favorite. "Rain", 5'4", blonde hair that can just cover her tits, athletic squirm, perfect B cups, sweet ass, was smiling at me gently caressing her nipples.
I reach for top button of shirt, she assists, in moments my shirt is pulled out and opened, her perfect boobs up against me. She leans back a second, I gently twist her left nipple while looking at mine. She gets it, we go into full hug mode, playing a wonderful mutual nipple twisting game while she slow rocks her soft spot against my not soft place, for like half a song.
That rocked my boat. YMMV.
Wrong X 3. This last weekend my wife and I made love, went dancing, enjoyed a toke on hilltop during hike in park, along with other pleasures/tasks done together.
Perhaps you're projecting.
Oh, and I told her of my club visit. Part of our understanding. Hope I'm not doing it wrong.
LOL IceyDodo and her FALSE ASSUMPTIONS. Again it's clear she creates them as a strawwoman argument in order to have something to be bitter about. LMFAO at how obsessed she is about it rather than just focusing on her own fun with strippers.
Your ATF sounds like fun, I guess that's why she's your ATF.
I think familiarity and relative compatibility is worth pursuing, I tried the too hump everything that walks but I have a much better time trying to find some one and cultivating a CF.
On the other hand, maybe it's better for all concerned if icey focuses more on PLs than on strippers, given what his "own fun" consists of:
"Its in your best interest to take control of her drug use from the start. Make sure she does the minimum to get fucked up."
"Never ask her to do shit. Tell her to do it."
"Its about control."
"Don’t be afraid to discipline her. Eventually you’ll have to. Be manipulative with her feelings."
"She’s not happy with herself and never satisfied, she’s always looking for a quick fix and fast satisfaction."
"The number one thing you need to do to fulfill her needs is to make her dependent on you for as much as possible. You basically have to manage her life. Its what these bitches crave"
"If she fucks with your main bitch keys your car gets violent with you, then slap the shit out of her. "
But yes, both of their familiarity and comfort and trust with me is key to my mongering happiness. When I am with either of them, I don't have to stress whatsoever about whether or not I'm going to get a good dick tease and LDK. I just have to enjoy the moment with them and relax and have a good time. And because if my regularity and massages it's super cheap! I low ball tip them all the time, and they don't care! For example my ATF DS stripper visit Friday cost me $60 for two dances! The hour I sat at the bar massaging her was completely free. I did not buy her a drink, nor did she want any tip! LOL all she wanted was my massage and she didn't mind me pleasuring my hard boner with her ass cheeks. Her backup fave is the same too. Neither ever expects tips and they ALWAYS appreciate and thank me for the massages.
Every now and then I will strike gold like this with a new stripper but it's never a guarantee. I much prefer the consistency and low price for very high mileage with a fave.
Your advice on the massages really works, it's fun too hear the reaction when you get the right spot.
I do the massage at the club or at the hotel room, it's part of the routine.
ROFLMAO you don't even recognize it!
"I don't think strip clubs are fun for most men. Men who depend on finding hookers in them or pay women to cum in their pants have deficiencies that come through in other aspects of their lives."
"We all know there is a difference between going to strip clubs to have fun, and going coz your sex life depends on trolling them for hookers... Of course guys who have to resort to that won't be the happiest."
I'm glad it helps your mongering experience. That's what TUSCL *should* be about. Just sharing your good times with strippers!
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
I'm glad it helps your mongering experience. That's what TUSCL *should* be about. Just sharing your good times with strippers!
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
Can you respond by saying something other than that any interaction with a woman is really just paying for a GFE? Or are you just sticking to the trolling cut and paste job and limited vocabulary?
Anyway, if there's been any TUSCLer that I relate a lot to the most, it's probably you because of the common stories we've shared. I still don't consider myself an ass and thong fetish freak like you, but I certainly can relate to the enjoyment of having my hard cock in between some stripper's PHAT ass cheeks in a thong.
On Friday my ATF DS had on some Daisy Duke denim "shorts" which get in the way of good boner stimulation because of the thick denim, and LMFAO as a "professional courtesy" she took them off and her bra to give me maximum massage access to her body and thus maximum boner time for me. And OMFG it was just so pleasurable to just look at the top of her ass and her thong "whale tail" as I massaged my own boner in parallel to rubbing her. I swear I was on edge for half an hour where I literally had to stop massaging every now and then because it felt so good. And I was doing everything - slow and sensual rubbing to quick and hard - to stimulate my cock multiple ways. I know from your posts that if you did the same, it would be awesome times for you too. Again, this is what TUSCL *should* be about - sharing and enjoying tales with strippers!
LMFAO this concept is clearly LOST on you to the point that you're still trying to make an argument about it as if it justifies YOUR RIL trick bitch methods. LMAO that you're still trying to even argue with me. LMFAO clearly you're obsessed about how others have THEIR fun.
Can you respond by saying something other than that any interaction with a woman is really just paying for a GFE? Or are you just sticking to the trolling cut and paste job and limited vocabulary?
LMFAO this concept is clearly LOST on you to the point that you're still trying to make an argument about it as if it justifies YOUR RIL trick bitch methods. LMAO that you're still trying to even argue with me. LMFAO clearly you're obsessed about how others have THEIR fun
When you say stupid things like they're statements of fact, it doesn't make your comment look any less stupid, just you. ;)
There are lots of reasons seek side pussy that have nothing to do with marital happiness. You obviously don't have much life experience.
You can generalize till the cows come home it’s not going to change make behavior, the only folks here that seem to be genuinely unhappy are those idiots that think they knywhats best for everyone else.
That' exactly what I'm telling you. Or if I was being more charitable, I might say just naive and/or lacking life experience.
Really? You think being married makes the 25 year old girl with a beautiful face and perfect bubble ass any less hot? ;)
Go back up and read what 25 wrote - slowly if you need to. He summed it up perfectly.
That's the point. It's not about what you *THINK* makes a married man happy or not. You have no clue on that but yet you post as if you know. LMAO from the perspective of a woman that hasn't been married.
Ya, that complete lack of understanding of male behavior and motivation, might move me from "it's obviously Dougster, you dummies" to "maybe you douchebags are right, it's female".
I was thinking exactly that if you read my post above the last one I wrote that’s exactly what I said
Now you're saying that I don't understand men coz I consider marital infidelity and using family money on hookers, wrong LMFAO
LMFAO even when it's in your face and in ALL CAPS you still don't get it.
I guess there is the possibility it’s a female who either resents or feels superior to sex workers period (like Nicole1994, who Icey goes out of his way to prop up).
But even still
^ that's EXACTLY the perspective of IceyDodo's posts.
LMFAO she's obsessed about it!
I've been married > 38 years, tell her I love her every day, cuddle and spoon to sleep every night, go dancing most weekends, fondle in the hot tub most days, share the house work, etc etc.
And a few times a year go out and marvel at beauty and sexiness of dancers, and get a couple of laps dances for thrills.
And tell her when I've done so.
All without side "bitches".
So, how exactly am I doing it wrong?
LMFAO you're not married and you pay stripper whores for your own GFE but yet you define what makes a married man happy or not?
Being married does not apply to you, dumbass.
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For myself, there is no dichotomy between work and play, the two are the same. And I have worked long and hard to eliminate any need for escapism.
Lots of responses to this, and so quickly.
SJG.
No, you're being chided for making stupid assumptions that we know, through ample life experience, not to be universally true. What you choose to support is entirely up to you.
Who says it's "the general rules?" You, with your vast life experiences? ;)
Also, why are you lumping in cheaters with those who use p4p as their only sexual outlet? Those are two very different animals with different motivations.
Look kid, I get it. You definitely have views on these things. But you are obviously having trouble understanding nuanced human behaviors. it feels like the only way you're capable of processing it is by trying to put it in some neat little box. Do you have trouble looking other people in the eye? Do tight clothes and loud noises bother you? Do you find yourself dependent on routines to stay calm? Just curious. ;)
LMFAO poor IceyDodo is so unhappy with herself based on the way she posts but she wants to deflect this as if everyone else is unhappy the way they pay strippers. She fails to see that at the end of the day...
...WE ALL PAY STRIPPERS FOR OUR FUN
^ this includes IceyDodo!!!
"I don't mind spending money in the club."
"If I fuck a stripper...... "
"I offer to pay the house fee, tip out and fine for leaving early) and smoke some weed."
"I don't mind doing normal things like giving her weed, alcohol if she can't buy it, or some money to get her eyebrows or nails done... a bill here and there..."
"Yeah, Im fine with the sugar daddy aspect. Im not naive to think she'd be with me if I were broke."
"Don't care where I met her and have no problem spending the money, its not an issue."
"And I agree, its really weird that she would cut off the $$$. You'd think she'd want to push it. And at this stage while I know itll hurt in the long run, Id be down with it. She knows I'll spend it on her.It was pretty much like we were living in a hip hop video...materialistically, it was there for her. Designer shoes, bags, clothes, the best weed, expensive restaurants. She grew up poor and likes fast money..."
"Im hoping if nothing else, she misses the money. She won't find this elsewhere...it was a lot. A few hundred a day, some days over a thousand."
"... I'd even be fine with it just being about money if she just stays and acts normal."
LMFAO @IceyDodo hey dumbass, that post was a MOCKERY of your first two posts in this thread...you did the exact same thing.
LMAO I told you that you were too stupid to see it.
And LMAO your own quoted posts prove my point that you are an RIL trick bitch paying for sex just like all those unhappy men you accuse for doing the same thing.
LOL you're such a dumbass hypocrite. And you still don't see it!
"So I'm being vilified..."
"Now you're saying that I don't understand men..."
^ LOL clearly IceyDodo is on the defensive coz she's a triggered RIL trick bitch in denial about paying her stripper whores! LMFAO!!!
^ this includes IceyDodo!!!
Men for whom P4P is the only way of getting sex, cannot be happy. As whatever makes them unable to get laid is a pervasive problem for them.
and
Men who cheat on their wives aren't fully fulfilled in their marriages.
IceyDodo is P4P in denial, so by her own logic, she cannot get laid without a stripper whore and this is a pervasive problem for her.
She can't get a GFE IRL without paying a stripper whore because she's unfulfilled in life.
LMFAO!!!