Life is good, play HARD!

I think when you get to people who have resigned themselves to getting their sexual needs met in strip clubs, that you are dealing with people who have had hard times.

Long ago a dancer told me not to "use strip clubs for sexual gratification" because "that's perverted".

SJG

^^^^^^ Lots of sexual frustration in this world, and so guys who have few options try to get by with what they can get.

Remember Nina Hartley, porn star, often spokes person for women in porn. She had worked at MBOT. Of LDKing she has written something like, "Well if they can cum through two layers of clothing, then they must have really needed it." And then talking about sexual frustration.

SJG

@Nidan care to cite some specific instances of what you're talking about?

^^^^^^ see, making it hard to just talk already.

SJG

I hit my local club yesterday, and I agree with all your capitalized words.

@TFP. Nope, I don’t care too. Just wanna see tatas, nipples and ass.

@Nidan well that's cool, but why start a thread about there being pent up frustration and anger then if you don't want to talk about it?

If that's the case, just make a thread plainly saying you wanna see tatas, nipples, and ass. That's something we can all get behind with no discussion of anything else.

I see Nidan's point - and singling out specific posters would probably not be productive.

Being an anonymous site and talking behind a keyboard makes it a fairly-easy venue for some to vent.

Nothing like a pair of boobs in your face to take your mind off your troubles, unless it’s two pair of boobs.

Two pair of boobs would be fantastic. One girl with a pair in front and a pair in back. Fondle the nipples in the back while pressing the front boobies to my face. My fantasy world would be all kinds of kinky weird stuff!

@gsteph. I too shall CAPITALIZE on those traits cum Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday this CUMing week. Gonna hit 2 of my favorite SCs, maybe 3.

Nidan is 100 % correct and I have also found it to be baffling, which I have voiced from time to time over the years. Strip clubs are supposed to be entertainment, not to serve as a substitute for something else. Unfortunately there are guys around here who have lost sight of this and take silly dancer behavior way too personally.

This very much includes some elderly dudes who struggle to accept that their time for spring time romance has come and gone. It's their turn now and they would be best served accepting the role of elder statesmen, but some can't accept it so they still chase the dragon with paid girls. Sad but there it is.

TFP, if you want an example look at how Randumbmember responds to the exact same post I created during Mother’s Day.

That should sum up some vile hatred as a prime specified example of someone with extreme pent up anger and hostility. tuscl.net

Reading some of the racist dumbass posts my eyes get raped with sometimes leads to me feeling anger and frustration.

To add to what I said above, I think that some of those old dudes are still seeking some feeling of romance because they feel cheated by life somehow. Maybe they never had it. Maybe they thought they did but now are divorced and lonely. I am sure that each one has a different story.

But that doesn't change the fact that they are old and that this kind of romance is for the young, but just their ability to accept it. So they pivot back and forth between being angry at women and making asses of themselves when dealing much younger ones.

Ricky Douchebag: “Nidan is 100 % correct and I have also found it to be baffling,”. That’s pretty funny coming from the guy who has posted about wanting to physically assault a patron for smoking a cigar and wanting to ambush another patron in the restroom for some perceived slight. Not to mention posting about “fucking me up” in a parking lot. Sorry I can’t post the links because the Douchebag has blocked me tuscl.net but they are there. Those are your examples TFP.

We all monger differently and for different reasons but agree with @nidan111, play hard and have fun

@Meatless wrote: "...if you want an example look at how Randumbmember ...blah blah blah"

I was just making fun of your spelling mistake @Meatless, and making fun of your semi-literate stupidity in general. Don't take it personally!

If the above examples are the kind of pent up anger and frustration that Nidan is talking about then what's the big deal? That shit is all around us everywhere in the real world, nevermind just this board.

At least here the worst that happens is you get in arguments or trolled. I'd rather deal with that then some fucktard throwing a kid over a balcony because he kept getting rejected by women in his everyday life.

I guess I choose to live my real world differently. Because that shit is not all around my world. Either that or I choose to ignore it and not give it a second thought. Play hard have fun.

Once again, that's good for you that life is good. But realize that might not be the case for everyone else. And simply telling them to go to a strip club and feel on some ass and tits isn't gonna make their problems go away. If that was the case, the members of this forum would be the jolliest bunch of assholes this side of the nut house.

^ hey I’m a happy camper;)

@twentyfive I wasn't necessarily talking about us when I was saying that everyone might not be able to say they have a good life. On the contrary I think plenty of us on these forums must have a good life to be able to afford to blow money on strip clubs.

I was just responding to Nidan's comment "Because that shit is not all around my world. Either that or I choose to ignore it and not give it a second thought. Play hard have fun.". I strongly disagree with his first sentence and agree with his second and third sentence. And like I said, it's fine that he chooses to ignore it. But because he ignores it doesn't mean there's still not people with pent up frustration and anger that he might pass by in his day to day life.

^ I don’t disagree with you at all I was just being a smart Alec is all. ;)

Hey Randumbfag, keep me out of your homoerotic, pissing sword fights with the dudes that your in love with. As my tag line states, you and SJG and IceyLoco all fit the same mold so keep me out of your faggitry. I love chics, not dicks, faggit!

OK, I misread the beginning. I thought this was referring to dudes who are specifically mad at women, but now I see this is a general "Don't Worry - Be Happy" thread aimed at everyone.

Stfu Nidan.

Lol!

More shit n shit from IceyFagboi. Why don’t you go noodle SJGs cock some more?

rick said “ I think that some of those old dudes are still seeking some feeling of romance because they feel cheated by life somehow. Maybe they never had it. Maybe they thought they did but now are divorced and lonely.“ in my case divorce set me free to enjoy the delight of interacting with beautiful young ladies! stripclubs are a convenient venue!

as a young man I was very much an introvert and insecure around the young lovelies.

As Spock might say: "that sounds acceptable".

In my world, last Friday I think I found a new favorite. "Rain", 5'4", blonde hair that can just cover her tits, athletic squirm, perfect B cups, sweet ass, was smiling at me gently caressing her nipples.

I reach for top button of shirt, she assists, in moments my shirt is pulled out and opened, her perfect boobs up against me. She leans back a second, I gently twist her left nipple while looking at mine. She gets it, we go into full hug mode, playing a wonderful mutual nipple twisting game while she slow rocks her soft spot against my not soft place, for like half a song.

That rocked my boat. YMMV.

@Icey, not fun, lacking options, no sex life? Wrong X 3. This last weekend my wife and I made love, went dancing, enjoyed a toke on hilltop during hike in park, along with other pleasures/tasks done together.

Perhaps you're projecting.

Oh, and I told her of my club visit. Part of our understanding. Hope I'm not doing it wrong.

@SirLapdancealot

Your ATF sounds like fun, I guess that's why she's your ATF.

I think familiarity and relative compatibility is worth pursuing, I tried the too hump everything that walks but I have a much better time trying to find some one and cultivating a CF.

-->"rather than just focusing on her own fun with strippers.:

On the other hand, maybe it's better for all concerned if icey focuses more on PLs than on strippers, given what his "own fun" consists of:

"Its in your best interest to take control of her drug use from the start. Make sure she does the minimum to get fucked up." "Never ask her to do shit. Tell her to do it." "Its about control." "Don’t be afraid to discipline her. Eventually you’ll have to. Be manipulative with her feelings." "She’s not happy with herself and never satisfied, she’s always looking for a quick fix and fast satisfaction."   "The number one thing you need to do to fulfill her needs is to make her dependent on you for as much as possible. You basically have to manage her life. Its what these bitches crave" "If she fucks with your main bitch keys your car gets violent with you, then slap the shit out of her. "

@SirLapdancealot

Your advice on the massages really works, it's fun too hear the reaction when you get the right spot.

I do the massage at the club or at the hotel room, it's part of the routine.

Yes, it seems @iceyloco has it all figured out for everybody else... Lol

@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.

If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.

Yes, it seems @iceyloco has it all figured out for everybody else... Lol

@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.

If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.

@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.

If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.

@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.

If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.

@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.

If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.

@SLD I didn't get that this was the theme of the thread but hey, maybe you're right. Nidan's title and first post is so vague that I didn't have any idea of what he was talking about. I thought the same thing as Rick initially, that this was a 'dont worry, just go feel some tits and ass, and be happy' thread.

If worrying about how other PL's have their fun is the premise, then there's a famous other person that needs to be included in the conversation. But I can tell Nidan right now, those two aren't going anywhere anytime soon.

Wow, my bad for the multiple posts. I was hitting post but it wasn't loading like it was about to post. So I hit it a couple more times. ...nothing. I guess now I know once I hit post and it freezes up, just don't hit it again. Lol.

^ loco , who do think you are that you think you know who’s happy and what have you ever accomplished in your short life that qualifies you to judge anyone else, let alone folks you’ve never met.

^Icey, what in the world does side sex have to do with marital happiness? You come across as either (1) a female; or (2) a guy who has never been in a LTR.

===> "Infidelity has a lot to do with marital happiness or lack of."

When you say stupid things like they're statements of fact, it doesn't make your comment look any less stupid, just you. ;)

There are lots of reasons seek side pussy that have nothing to do with marital happiness. You obviously don't have much life experience.

That should have finished with "it just makes you look more stupid." lol

@trick boi Not only does it make you look stupid it makes you look like a woman, if you knew anything about man at all, you’d know that sex does not correlate with how they did about their wive, most men are as faithful as their options, doesn’t mean that they are unhappy Or unhappily married. You can generalize till the cows come home it’s not going to change make behavior, the only folks here that seem to be genuinely unhappy are those idiots that think they knywhats best for everyone else.

===> "You're telling me I'm stupid for stating that married men who are completely happy with their marriages don't cheat.... okay."

That' exactly what I'm telling you. Or if I was being more charitable, I might say just naive and/or lacking life experience.

Happy thugs don’t keep side bitches either xD

Nobody attacked you for having side bitches, they attack you for being a liar and a fucktard.

===> "There's a difference between having side bitches, which some of you have attacked me for.... and cheating while married."

Really? You think being married makes the 25 year old girl with a beautiful face and perfect bubble ass any less hot? ;)

Go back up and read what 25 wrote - slowly if you need to. He summed it up perfectly.

^ that’s you just because that’s the way you want it doesn’t mean any of us are obligated to follow you. Especially since you’ve proven to be full of shit.

-->"That's the point. It's not about what you THINK makes a married man happy or not. You have no clue on that but yet you post as if you know. LMAO from the perspective of a woman that hasn't been married."

Ya, that complete lack of understanding of male behavior and motivation, might move me from "it's obviously Dougster, you dummies" to "maybe you douchebags are right, it's female".

Ya, that complete lack of understanding of male behavior and motivation, might move me from "it's obviously Dougster, you dummies" to "maybe you douchebags are right, it's female".< I was thinking exactly that if you read my post above the last one I wrote that’s exactly what I said

^ doubleing down on a loser is absolutely absurd. What do you know about family money you simpleton

But just to keep the speculation going, then why be such a hater of stripperweb, and referring to the strippers on there as delusional aged hoes?

I guess there is the possibility it’s a female who either resents or feels superior to sex workers period (like Nicole1994, who Icey goes out of his way to prop up).

But even still

Yo, Icey, to repeat,
I've been married > 38 years, tell her I love her every day, cuddle and spoon to sleep every night, go dancing most weekends, fondle in the hot tub most days, share the house work, etc etc. And a few times a year go out and marvel at beauty and sexiness of dancers, and get a couple of laps dances for thrills. And tell her when I've done so.

All without side "bitches".

So, how exactly am I doing it wrong?

I’m still looking to see what phat bois list of accomplishments looks like I’m sure it can be summed up with a single word NONE

Nidian, people have different kinds of responsibilities which they have taken on.

For myself, there is no dichotomy between work and play, the two are the same. And I have worked long and hard to eliminate any need for escapism.

Lots of responses to this, and so quickly.

SJG.

===> "So I'm being vilified for not supporting cheating on your wives and coz I said guys who have to resort to P4P aren't happy.... okay"

No, you're being chided for making stupid assumptions that we know, through ample life experience, not to be universally true. What you choose to support is entirely up to you.

===> "Exceptions don't disprove the general rules.... Whatever causes men to cheat or for others makes P4P the only option for them to have sex, is obviously not a cause of happiness."

Who says it's "the general rules?" You, with your vast life experiences? ;)

Also, why are you lumping in cheaters with those who use p4p as their only sexual outlet? Those are two very different animals with different motivations.

Look kid, I get it. You definitely have views on these things. But you are obviously having trouble understanding nuanced human behaviors. it feels like the only way you're capable of processing it is by trying to put it in some neat little box. Do you have trouble looking other people in the eye? Do tight clothes and loud noises bother you? Do you find yourself dependent on routines to stay calm? Just curious. ;)

ivey. i’m still offended by you calling them bitches.

^^ plus 1

^^plus 2

^The only one being defensive here is you

I'm guessing it's not worth taking @IceyDildo off ignore to read his comments.

@flagooner your not rong idiot hasn’t made a coherent comment yet.

Relax SLD, lol. It's not worth all that effort. :)

Icey, there you go again stating opinions as if they're statements of fact, despite everything you've heard to the contrary. You're not very bright, are you? ;)

He’s all ears Rick, can’t you tell lol.