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11 years ago
Early morning jogger was stunning..id imagine she was early to avoid gawkers. She had a rockin body and made exhaustion look sexy
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11 years ago
I have had the tough times story from strippers as well..no more than average of just random acquiantances and people I know..but I have to say that their stories are the most entertaining
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11 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Not in the club..but ice does lend some very interesting sensations as long as it isn't left too long on certain areas to make them turn numb or painful lol
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11 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I agree with her. In SD they tend to do it often and you feel pressured to tip even if you didn't necessarily enjoy the show. I can understand why they do it because there are some that enjoy the show freely but don't tip, but high pressure mechanical strip clubs are no fun when u are just looking to relax and enjoy your night.
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11 years ago
I have no illusion of feeling special in a club. i understand a job is a job and some people do their job well. The confusion sets in because my money is like anyone else's. If I am giving it to her for her job..why doesn't she want to take my money. She is not homophobic as we've talked extensively on the subject and on the recent subject of marriage equality. Im just going to ask her and stop wondering.
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11 years ago
@georgemicrodong:direct approach will probably get me the answers instead of wondering. You may be right about her preferring me as a friend and if I think about it perhaps she just isnt attracted to me
@3leggedman:ill start looking at my options for LD replacement.
@clubgoer:I hope to go this weekend..if she is there and I get the courage to flat out ask..I will come back and update..otherwise just assume I am still a PL chasing after her til I get tired or accept that she is just not that into me
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11 years ago
@gsv: What kind of range of girls are in TJ? Ethnicity? I have to admit that I am whitewashed and am mostly attracted to blond white women (I'm not white so hopefully this doesn't come off as racist) . Also what type of pole tricks which is also what I tend to enjoy as well. If it it turns out favorable to what I am looking for, if I decide to venture to TJ, I'll definitely hit you up.
@looneylarry: Yeah you might be right, I know she has tried to sleep with a friend of hers but it did not end successfully
@ibbaicnl: If that was the case, she seemed alright with it all the other times that she gave me dances/contact enthusiastically
@lopaw: Definitely see why everyone has been telling me to look out for your comment. I think about it more and think you are right. She is Bi but hasn't been with a woman yet, I have been respectful because I don't want to come across as only about sexual motives. I think I have been friend zoned, I guess I'll just have to ask. I am almost torn between asking, because i either find out i've been friendzoned, or she'll go back to dancer/money making mode to please me.
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11 years ago
Ive heard a little too much about TJ and am a bit intimidated by going alone.
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11 years ago
Yea SD options aren't so great.
As for me being a chick..could be. She is Bi so she isnt freaked out by that..but maybe she just feels like giving men dances at the moment..I am bi too and go through phases where i only want women so I could see that
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11 years ago
Agreed..I think I need to stop being regular and find another club...I swear its hard find a good SC without running through a bunch of lemons, so I settled for a while..but it is probably time to change it up
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11 years ago
@papi_chulo: I thought that might be what it was, but sometimes we wont even get around to the dance..she'll just chill talking and leaning on me til closing time. Which is nice but when u want a dance its disappointing. I get dances from other girls in the club (once one came to talk to me and she jokingly said..that i was hers, but i looked at her like 'wtf' so she doesn't do that anymore.) So she is my fave but most times I get LDs from multiple dancers.
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11 years ago
@mjx1-ill ask the next time i go in. I would have the last time I saw her, but I didnt realize the trend til I left. Did I get put in some weird stripper friend zone? Money is money so I don't get it. @Jackslash I would but currently in this club, she is the only one I am extremely attracted to..so it kind of sucks..why go to a club when you cant get who you want.
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11 years ago
Best review I have ever read..thanks for bringing it to attention. I'll have to stalk that users profile to read more
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11 years ago
I figure the same..but I dont have your willpower lopaw..hoping someday i'll be immune to their powers
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11 years ago
Lmao gawker nice..yeah wouldnt want to have to tie a board to your ass to keep from falling in..saw your photos ..you are a lucky man.
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11 years ago
Either way...do the naked photos do enough to lure you in? And do you feel like a PL that it was that simple to get you to come in despite not really wanting to? I do..I cant seem to just say no ..but I guess that is the addiction part of SCing
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11 years ago
I have photos if they send it to me..it is nice to jog the memory of the time spent with them and to appreciate their hotness..it is bragging rights as well..you just want to show people how hot they are- just like any other hot women they associated themselves with.
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11 years ago
I don't think you crossed a line.. I'm sure they get it all the time. Usually as long as you are spending money they'll tolerate you.
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11 years ago
It really isn't that much of a difference to me..women are going to see naked impressive physiques..they go for the same reason you go..but if they don't feel comfortable letting it be just that.. they hide behind the fact of it being a group activity with their friends. I wish women were a lot more comfortable with sexuality because it is freeing. It is no more women being treated like crap as seeing the men being stripped and beaten with belts and being ground upon..it may look brutal and silly..but guess what..they are there and put up with it because they are enjoying it
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11 years ago
I club because of the beautiful women with amazing bodies who ooze sensuality and confidence. Its like a drug to be enthralled and interact with each one. Each leave a pleasant memory to grin about in the boredom of they day.
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11 years ago
It was nice of you to come in..but to her she is still at work.. even if your friends come in to visit at work, it doesn't mean you can just stop working..that is how I see it anyway. I've had my CF ask me to come in and get a VIP..after the VIP she told me to wait around for a while cause she had to do a bit more hustling for the night..granted..I didn't feel like waiting..but ultimately you decide whether it is worth the wait. I got dances and sat at perv row til she came and got me but if she hadn't it wouldn't have been horrible..either way..you are looking at beautiful naked women..win win situation
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11 years ago
Most entertaining review I have ever read
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11 years ago
It's always interesting to see the dancers point of view. Often times I'll sit with dancers and they'll tell me reasoning behind who and who they don't approach for dances. The stories and psychological mindfuck they must have to deal with on a daily basis I totally give them props for.
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11 years ago
sorry to hear, I've been there too. When you are too nice, they take advantage. After similar events happening to me, I no longer try to contact dancers OTC if they give me their contacts. I am assuming you did enjoy your time with her, otherwise you wouldn't have kept giving her a chance, and that is the difficult part, weaning ourselves from the small advantages to see the bigger ripoff picture lol.