SC etiquette/ contacting dancer
neon44
Sort of a long story. Ive had a favorite dancer the last 4 months but its shes sometimes hard to find. Its a 20mile mile ride with lots of traffic on return trip. The Last two times I called the club before going and was told she was working, waited a few hrs and she didnt show. I asked her schedule before and realize it varies.
I got a dance from another girl who was nice/good but much smaller. (other one is pretty strong/athletic) I mentioned the other dancer and talked about how its hard to find her and I'd like to maybe contact her. I asked if I could leave my email for the other girl. She spoke to a bouncer and said ok, she'll leave it in the office. I tipped her nicely for the help. The note had the other girls name, my email and "wrestler" written on it because I talk to her about women wrestlers. (sort of a fetish).
Do you think I crossed the line? Don't want to get her in trouble or myself banned.
thanks
I got a dance from another girl who was nice/good but much smaller. (other one is pretty strong/athletic) I mentioned the other dancer and talked about how its hard to find her and I'd like to maybe contact her. I asked if I could leave my email for the other girl. She spoke to a bouncer and said ok, she'll leave it in the office. I tipped her nicely for the help. The note had the other girls name, my email and "wrestler" written on it because I talk to her about women wrestlers. (sort of a fetish).
Do you think I crossed the line? Don't want to get her in trouble or myself banned.
thanks
Comments
last commentDoubt it if she’ll get the info – most SC employees really don’t give a shit IME. They are not there to be messengers b/w PLs and dancers and for the most part they just care about making their $$$ and that’s it – IMO.
The best way to keep in touch w/ a dancer is to ask her if she will give you her # so you are able to meet up w/ her when she is there. Many dancers do not mind this b/c they want their regulars coming to the club and spending $$$ on them – some dancers *do* mind but is like anything else; you won’t know unless you ask.
As long as you let the dancer know that your intention for wanting her # is to be able to meet up w/ her at the club (and not asking her for dates and wanting to talk about other crap on the phone); many will give it.
ty for the tip
Shit, strippers lose shit even when you give it to them.
Remember what your paying them for. Hell of a first date.
Now I don't mean to be harsh when I say this. Most have us have been there at one point or another. But as we all eventually learn from moments like this, getting attached to any one dancer is pointless. They are transient by nature and most of them disappear sooner or later.