OTC ... Not all is cracked up to be.

30 comments

• shadowcat

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  11 years ago

  I hear ya!
• wasted

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  11 years ago

  Wow. I guess most of us have been there at least once. You keep taking one more step, just one more step. Pretty soon you've walked a mile chasing some ass. Your problem wasn't ITC versus OTC. The problem was you forget it was a business transaction.
• jabthehut

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  11 years ago

  Agree with wasted concerning OTC. But business transaction, c'mon. It was all SS from a ROB. A business transaction usually involves tit for tat. You give the stripper money that she wants for something you want for a certain period e.g. $100 for 30 minutes of dancing for you. When we give them the $$ and they don't give us the time, thst is a ripoff.
• rockie

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  11 years ago

  Nobody said OTC was a non paying arrangement. The original OP's narrative only suggests a lack of entertainment one time - Rent Wednesday. In the annals of OTC and ROB's, this was no train wreck! Kudos to m99999 for reconsidering the game so quickly!
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  You were well played by the pity trick. Walking is the best course. As to disappointing real OTC meetings with dancers - well we all have them.
• bang69

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  11 years ago

  this is why I do itc only
• clevelandbrowns69

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  11 years ago

  There are also escorts if you are looking for outside the club fun.
• Estafador

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  11 years ago

  Escorts are liars. Are you new to strip clubbing
• persia30

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  11 years ago

  What does ROB mean?
• Estafador

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  11 years ago

  Rip-Off Bitch
• curiositycat

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  11 years ago

  sorry to hear, I've been there too. When you are too nice, they take advantage. After similar events happening to me, I no longer try to contact dancers OTC if they give me their contacts. I am assuming you did enjoy your time with her, otherwise you wouldn't have kept giving her a chance, and that is the difficult part, weaning ourselves from the small advantages to see the bigger ripoff picture lol.
• gawker

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  11 years ago

  I've had a 4 year OTC relationship with a dancer. It's expensive, exasperating, exhausting, and exquisite. When we do BBBJ and BBFS in the club its rushed, furtive, and just not the same. My dick gets snagged in my zipper, there's a rush to hide every time someone walks by the room, and generally I feel like I did when I was a teenager. Meeting her at a hotel is more relaxed. We generally aren't watching the clock. I love being naked with her and the sex is marvelous. There's a great deal of drama being her "sugar daddy", and I rethink whether its worth it frequently, but usually my little head outvotes my big head.(last week her car got repossessed - two and a half days later and $1600 later she had her Maxima back so she could rear- end a car the next day). Every case is different and trust, fidelity, and cost varies [view link] a text to me last week asking for money she said "the next time we meet it'll be no holes barred". I always thought the saying was "no holds barred" but I prefer her definition.
• jestrite50

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  11 years ago

  You are a victim of SS .....Stripper Shit ! They will tell you anything to desperate you from your money. I have been hearing it from one girl for 2 1/2 years. She thinks I believe her lies but LOL I know the game. I just buy what I want to buy and that's all. She will still give you pussy even if you don't pay for all her emergencies. Just pay for what you want and don't fall for all the SS !
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  Well at least you got it (her game/lies) – for some it takes longer than 2 weeks. Her stories are part and parcel of the ROB game many of these unstable chicks with unstable life circumstances run. She probably never broke up w/ her bf and he may have even been the one putting her up to it or egging her on to squeeze you for all you had. From what I have seen/read via TUSCL and from personal experience; feeling sorry for a dancer and in particular their financial situation more often than not leads to the PL getting fooled; lied to every which way; and just plain ole taken advantage off.
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  Strippers are much more likely to be narcissists than the average person. First of all, good looking people are more likely to be narcissists, because others are more likely to tolerate their narcissism, reducing the pressure to change. Narcissism prevents a person from having true committed relationships. Thus, the biggest drawback to stripping, that it complicates having an SO, is irrelevant to narcissists. With many custies, the best way for a stripper make good money from them is to fake interest in them. A narcissist's lack of empathy is helpful in this situation. When a dancer fucks her own money by being oblivious to how much she is aggravating you and that she is not doing what she said she would, it's almost always because of her narcissism.
• MonacoGP

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  11 years ago

  Heroine
• Haircut

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  11 years ago

  it took me longer than two weeks to figure out the craziness. Recently got friendly with stripper in a town I was working in. I would give her rides to work, take her home. She kept it strictly in the club. We txt often when I was not in town. then for her birthday she asked for braces..... i think you are much better finding a good club where you can get what you want in the club. Outside the club it gets too nutty.
• jabthehut

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  11 years ago

  Monaco, who is the heroine ? Heroine is a female hero.
• tumblingdice

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  11 years ago

  @ Ilbby,couldn't have said it any better.
• Martina

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  11 years ago

  e.he cums back for more the next.time he. Wants to have a blast look me up
• Martina

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  11 years ago

  Are the girls pretty
• Martina

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  11 years ago

  Are the girls pretty
• skibum609

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  11 years ago

  I read these stories and am always amazed at the drama and cost of an OTC relationship with strippers. My solution was to marry a smart, attractive woman who earns more money than I do.
• Vegasbob

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  11 years ago

  Hey, I think I know that chick! LOL
• Alpine

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  11 years ago

  Any guy who thinks marriage to anyone is a solution for anything is a complete idiot!
• SoonerSam

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  11 years ago

  New rule (for me, anyway): If/when a stripper starts her "I can't pay rent" SS, I'm gonna cut them loose. My new CF and OTC partner is low maintenance (so far). She rarely texts me, and usually only if I've initiated the conversation. I haven't been hounded for money. She's so far just about the perfect OTC companion. If she ever turns into what you have described above, it's adios. Thanks for this article! It has helped me work out a new rule LOL.
• skibum609

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  11 years ago

  The minute I hear a sob story from a stripper I stare off into space, silently, until they leave. I charge $275 an hour to hear the same garbage at work.
• iJustWant2no

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  11 years ago

  I love when needy strippers tell me the story about how they can't pay their rent / insurance / bills. I tell them the story about the last time I helped a needy stripper pay her bills. I tell them how much I paid, and what I got in return. The conversation usually takes a sharp twist at this point.
• sofaking87

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  11 years ago

  I've had friends stuck in that position where they pay and don't play, I usually laugh at them. As for myself, when I hear the sob stories I use it as leverage for extras, at an extra low price. Lol!
• Knightline

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  10 years ago

  Indeed, strippers and escorts are not the types of girls you really want to get to know. Take advantage of their great bodies in the club - but forget about hooking up with them. I don't get escorts that advertise dinner dates for 4 or more hours. They are NOT good company!! IF I want a lap dance or an escort for a BBBJTC, an hour is plenty!!! No, I don't want to get to know them - as none are really worth getting to know. IF you want companionship - go to a dating site - you'll meet women there worth knowing for long periods (perhaps). But strippers and escorts - just use them for the professional services and leave!!!!