OTC ... Not all is cracked up to be.
m99999
I had been seeing the girl at the club for about a month. She was a 31 year old mom who was trying to get her life back together. She told me how her roommate stole the rent money and most of her stuff and she got kicked out of the place she was staying.
I got a text message on Monday afternoon saying the landlord would let her back in if she could come up with the rent. She was working that day but was about a $100 short and she did not know what to do. Being the nice guy I am, I stopped by the club after work and got some dancers from her. Normally we spend time together before and after the dances. That day, as soon as the dances were over, she said her ride was waiting for her and ran off.
The next day I get a text saying she was not working that day and would love to hang out. Thinking she felt bad for running off, I was able to get away for a couple hours and meet her. We talked for a bit and then the conversation turned to how she needed just a little $$ to get her by until she was working again.
We went back to her place and she proceeded to give me a lap dance. About 15 minutes into it she ran off panicking that her boy friend just texted her he was on his way over.
That Saturday afternoon I get a text saying she was so sorry for the other night and was on the way to the club. When she got there, she asked me to come outside to talk. She was not feeling like working and if she could get just $$ we could hang out. (boy friend would not be a problem). We went back to her place. I had other plans that evening so got just a short dance and had to leave.
On Wednesday, she said she was off and could spend time with me after I got out of work. I contacted her when I was ready to leave and she said she was stranded about 45 minutes away. Still wanting to spend time with her, I went and picked her up. When we get back to her place, the landlord had locked her out because she still owed some rent. Feeling sorry for her, I paid the rent balance so she could get back in. By the time this was all straightened out, I needed to leave without even getting a dance. She promised next time no money would be involved.
Met her Saturday morning. Went out for coffee. When we got back, she spotted boy friends car in lot. Told me he never said he was coming over, but needed to be in work in 20 minutes. She would contact me when he was gone.
Three hours later I finally got call. Boy friend and her broke up. Supposedly her phone dies and she had to get a new charger before she could call. Spent about an hour of intimate time before she informed me of her daughter birthday party that afternoon and needed just a little $$ to get her a gift.
The definition of a fool is "someone that does the same thing over and over, but expects different results."
It took me two weeks and a bunch of $$ to realize OTC with this girl was just a bunch of stress and drama. From now on, I'll stick to ITC.
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Your problem wasn't ITC versus OTC. The problem was you forget it was a business transaction.
As to disappointing real OTC meetings with dancers - well we all have them.
Meeting her at a hotel is more relaxed. We generally aren't watching the clock. I love being naked with her and the sex is marvelous. There's a great deal of drama being her "sugar daddy", and I rethink whether its worth it frequently, but usually my little head outvotes my big head.(last week her car got repossessed - two and a half days later and $1600 later she had her Maxima back so she could rear- end a car the next day). Every case is different and trust, fidelity, and cost varies greatly.in a text to me last week asking for money she said "the next time we meet it'll be no holes barred". I always thought the saying was "no holds barred" but I prefer her definition.
Her stories are part and parcel of the ROB game many of these unstable chicks with unstable life circumstances run. She probably never broke up w/ her bf and he may have even been the one putting her up to it or egging her on to squeeze you for all you had.
From what I have seen/read via TUSCL and from personal experience; feeling sorry for a dancer and in particular their financial situation more often than not leads to the PL getting fooled; lied to every which way; and just plain ole taken advantage off.
When a dancer fucks her own money by being oblivious to how much she is aggravating you and that she is not doing what she said she would, it's almost always because of her narcissism.
i think you are much better finding a good club where you can get what you want in the club. Outside the club it gets too nutty.
If/when a stripper starts her "I can't pay rent" SS, I'm gonna cut them loose. My new CF and OTC partner is low maintenance (so far). She rarely texts me, and usually only if I've initiated the conversation. I haven't been hounded for money. She's so far just about the perfect OTC companion. If she ever turns into what you have described above, it's adios. Thanks for this article! It has helped me work out a new rule LOL.
The conversation usually takes a sharp twist at this point.