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8 years ago
LOL at warhawks. Yeah...I've been whining about no edit feature for a while.
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8 years ago
When a dancer wants to exchange digits in my club, they almost always ask me to write it on a dollar bill. I don't like this method at all as I don't want my # circulating; especially ITC. But it's never come back to bite me.
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8 years ago
I hate pierced nipples but it's not my place to offer advice to any woman in this matter. Unless she asks.
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8 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
She was an underage victim of sex trafficking; she wasn't 'late teens or early 20's". It's a PITA to get involved but hopefully someone does.
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8 years ago
Sounds like my kind of girl...
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8 years ago
You may be right. I'm seeing her Sat so I'll enjoy it while it lasts.
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8 years ago
txt dot - That seems to happen a lot here....
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8 years ago
Desert, what prompted THAT outburst??
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8 years ago
Good story microdong! LOL
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8 years ago
Ha! Sorry you got tagged. Obviously i know her name, address and even family members. She's a sweet girl but I'm sure this will be a short term thing for me despite my fantasy expectations while I was stalking her. My soul mate lives 1500 miles away but we are both discussing how to change that.
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8 years ago
Well, she hasn't moved yet and I'm going down to meet her this weekend. I better enjoy her while I can.
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8 years ago
Old4Young...what a hustle. Spending money like that ITC has nothing to do with later getting OTC sex and I have zero confidence on what she'll actually do in VIP for any price. Take lots of dancers to VIP, and you'll find some will give you what you want for a mild tip, and some won't no matter how much you're led to believe they will if you drop a bunch of Benjamines.
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8 years ago
Arnies in Harvey IL will do the "Arnies handshake", give you a tour and be quite explicit about service and price. My club is a bikini/topless affair and much more subtle. Location, location as Papi said.
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8 years ago
lowpaw, the intel is pointless. A girl who gives you extras will not reliably give them to me...and my extras girl may not play for both teams...
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8 years ago
You don't. You dance with girls who already have your pleasure as their job. For every regular I've had, 20 girls didn't make the cut. At least.
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8 years ago
K - same with me. OTC is always dinner and maybe a live band somewhere or play or something. I never ask for OTC until I get to know her to be sure I WANT OTC from her; in this case 4 times at the club and numerous in VIP.
Took me a year to get OTC from my ATF, and it was she who suggested it...I was shy!
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8 years ago
Subraman, to be honest, I never get a straight answer on the menu thing...they always say "that depends" which means on how much I spend on them. And even then dancers lie.
OTOH, I never ask plainly for a specific sexual favor ITC. At least never at my vanilla club. Many dancers would call a bouncer if you just asked right out. When I've gotten the rare extra, it was always the dancer that eased in to it. Or my CF who probably would fit in at Follies I think...
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8 years ago
Just as a serious comment, just because a dancer will give me extras, she may not for you. And you may get extras from a dancer who won't for me.
So you see, you're really on your own.
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8 years ago
Yes, I've used the "menu" phrase too! Very good way to keep it light, but informative.
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8 years ago
NEVER with a dancer. Dancers don't "do extras". Ever. Just ask them!
But some will make you cum in various ways. I consider DFK an extra too because very few will initiate that.
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8 years ago
Papi echos the advice I would give. I like asking, "Are you available for take out?" and it's not been offensive to any dancer yet. When I used to ask directly about OTC I had some pretty harsh replies when just a simple "no" would have been fine. SW girls, no doubt.
On the issue of money, the more you spend ITC the more she'll expect for OTC, so it depends on your budget. My OTC budget is $200 to the dancer for anything from a quickie to over night, and in my club for the usual talent that's a decent offer for the quickie; beyond that depends on if she "likes" me as I leave it up to her. But my usual $180 to the house for a dancer ITC and a $200 OTC bonus seems to be enough to get some action. I wouldn't spend $1k on anyone!
My CF "loves" me, but I didn't ask about take out until my last (4th) visit, and she was quick to confirm we will make arrangements next visit. I considered she was a sure thing due to the level of extras I get from her; complete GFE. This broke a streak of maybe 10 rejections in a row over the last several years. It's just not an extras or OTC club, but it can happen!
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8 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
flag, I have the opposite problem. My challenge is leaving. I've spent weeks in the club before going home. They let me sleep on the bathroom floor, which is kinda gross but I sneak in to the dancer's shower before they open the place up.
All in all, I've had worse.
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8 years ago
My MO is always the same. I walk in, sit at the bar and greet all the waitresses. I know both shifts and in fact several are FB friends. Then I order a drink, and just keep my eyes open. I know my CF will find me eventually so I just enjoy the show until she does.
If it's a night the CF isn't working, I debate with myself who I might try out, or who I might go again with.
The rare times I go to a new club, I just look for the girl that I can't stop looking at, and if she even comes just close to me, I make eye contact. Unless she has a regular she's walking to, she'll stop by. I make a deal...and the rest is history! LOL
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8 years ago
Ha! There's only a few dancers in my club I would ever suggest that to. It's not an extras club...but yes the occasional HJ is available with the right girl.
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8 years ago
Yeah larry, that was my thought as well.