My Escort G/F - Sometimes Stalking Pays Off - Part 3

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rockstar666
Illinois
Well, as they say, be careful what you wish for as it may come true. Brief review: I stalked an escort for several years (on line, I never called to arrange a date; I wanted to enter her life as a friend), until I managed to find her FB page. She friended me, we chatted and had a good chemistry. Then she moved 1500 miles away before I could meet her. She was working in the show dog industry. Well, the company folded and she moved back to my state, but lives in the boonies and she's working in a pet store. (Yes, she has a pit bull). No car so she can't escort anyway where she lives. Since she's not currently escorting we have BB sex; no issues.

Well, now she's moving back to the Chicago burbs and she told me she wants to start escorting again. She said she's tired of making no money for all the work, and obviously escorting will pay. I'm not sure how I feel about that though. Besides having to use condoms again...somehow it's different than when I dated a dancer....especially since the dancer fucked mostly women.

So, have any of you ever dated an escort as opposed to a dancer? Is there a difference in your mindset? Or should I just quit my job and let her support me? Ha! I bet she would too.

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Call.Me.Ishmael
8 years ago
No, I wouldn't date either. Too much drama and turmoil.

It's just not my way.
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rockstar666
8 years ago
No ES (similar to SS) from her. She's not got any drama now; never cancels a date, not a drug user besides 420 and we drink the same amount. Doesn't ask for money, although I pay for the dates. It's like dating a hot civvie who I have to travel 60 miles for.

But perhaps the drama will change when she starts 'working' again?
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larryfisherman
8 years ago
It's one thing dating a dancer, but dating a escort is a whole another thing. It's basically like dating a pornstar, but the escort isn't getting fucked on camera.

To each his own.
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rockstar666
8 years ago
Yeah larry, that was my thought as well.
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shailynn
8 years ago
Dating a stripper that does extras. Dating an escort. I hate to break it to you guys but it's the same thing, only difference is you know the escort is fucking other guys while the stripper tells you "you're the only one" and you being a PL are naive enough to believe it - mainly to protect your own integrity/ego.

Rockstar, over a decade ago I had a somewhat similar situation. I met an escort who was only a year older than me and we hit it off. We would email each other constantly (this was before texting was the norm) and when I was in town I'd always pay for the first hour through the agency and she'd then spend the night with me for free, sometimes hanging with me the following afternoon for free as well.

I didn't have an issue with it since I didn't think about what she did when she wasn't with me. She was an upscale escort and saw businessmen, not someone who you'd find on a Backpage site.

If you like her and there's zero drama, there shouldn't be new drama if she starts escorting again. If I were you I wouldn't stop seeing her if you like her so much. If you aren't so hot on her anymore then escorting is an easy reason/excuse to stop seeing her
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jackslash
8 years ago
I would date her. I would make her call me "Daddy" and turn over all her earnings to me.
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RandomMember
8 years ago
Just in a practical sense, I would worry about sex with someone who has a dozen new sex partners per month. You can cruise the CDC websites, but condoms are hardly foolproof.
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shailynn
8 years ago
^^^ there goes the official TUSCL conscious fucking everything up with rationale but he's right...
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rockstar666
8 years ago
Well, she hasn't moved yet and I'm going down to meet her this weekend. I better enjoy her while I can.
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RandomMember
8 years ago
Thanks, man. I picked up chlamydia from a dancer, not an escort, about 15 months ago. On the bright side, I learned her true identity when I saw her real name printed on the antibiotics bottle.

I've been a lot more careful ever since.
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rockstar666
8 years ago
Ha! Sorry you got tagged. Obviously i know her name, address and even family members. She's a sweet girl but I'm sure this will be a short term thing for me despite my fantasy expectations while I was stalking her. My soul mate lives 1500 miles away but we are both discussing how to change that.
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gammanu95
8 years ago
The drama will change when she starts escorting again, and change much for the worse.
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rockstar666
8 years ago
You may be right. I'm seeing her Sat so I'll enjoy it while it lasts.
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