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6 years ago
I think it’s becoming more common and accepted in a bad way because with so many girls turning to stripping and the way it’s portrayed in the media.. we are still looked down on and now we have to work even harder to make money. Nowadays every other girl wants to be a stripper because they’re in debt and it looks cool in the music videos and ig. With so many girls the competition is tougher and lots of girls have tuned to extras. With club music blaring stuff like “fuck him then I get some money” it’s generally assumed by most people that strippers are ratchet IG hoes who fuck for cash. So it’s not as shocking anymore to say “I’m a stripper”, but people will still judge you. If anything that stigma is worse imo. I can only see it getting worse.. or if it does become completely normalized the money won’t be worth it anymore
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6 years ago
^i know! hopefully when woodstock is back around. we were joking that he should get a cabana and take a pic of our boobs w/our tuscl handles written on them, covered in money. so we could post it here lol
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6 years ago
it sounds like she genuinely means that but wants to make sure you won't expect sex. so if that's what you're going for i wouldn't bother. after enough paid dates (lunch and shopping like you said) sex can sometimes happen with a girl who doesn't normally do that. but the chances are slim and you'll have spent a looot of money before she even thinks about it
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
i used to be really into john grisham and bukowski when i was younger. nowadays my fave is tom robbins which is more light hearted but still philosophical. i was an angry teenager lol
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6 years ago
i'm a light smoker myself but when i have to work at clubs with indoor smoking i get sick. it could definitely be that. i've never understood smoking in buildings or cars- it's pretty gross especially with the cigars. the only smoke i like the smell of is bbq or weed. recently i got a random text about a club opening in LA that will serve weed instead of alcohol. now that would be interesting
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6 years ago
i heard a new stripper joke last night from a customer and immediately thought of you, jackslash. the guy said something along the lines of "why does a stripper have to turn her dollar into the IRS if she gets cum on it?"
"because you have to report gross income"
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6 years ago
meeting woodstock was so much fun :) when i started posting here i never intended to meet customers but it was a really cool experience and i'd do it again for sure. the other member i met was a great time too. it really gives you a lot to talk about.
(i used to be zoey on here but changed my name. i created the account in 2012 so it was pretty old. when me and woodstock met my stage name was april, and the other member met me by a completely different name as well.)
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6 years ago
^crap, speaking of alcohol I posted that in the wrong thread! Smh
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6 years ago
Duh cash is mentioned bc OP specifically asked about meeting in the club. Which is an environment where interactions are supposed to revolve around money, not feelings, and anything otherwise is the exception not the rule.
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6 years ago
Yes I would send whatever $ I could afford to. A guy I used to be friends with got locked up for the same thing. It really freaked me out and made me feel conflicted because driving buzzed or drunk is a selfish stupid thing that is sooo common and people don’t mean any harm by it but that fact, or his being a decent person otherwise.. can never take back what happened. Incredibly sad that families have to lose someone due to the reckless, selfish actions of a complete stranger. Something to always remember
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6 years ago
^i believe more of a personal relationship and an allowance/spoiling with gifts and trips, with an allowance. VS X amount for X meet/fuck/hour
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6 years ago
SA has been going downhill since before those laws passed because being a “sugar baby” has become more talked about and glamorized by society. I would imagine it’s good for the guys because I’ve talked to some seriously clueless girls who go on there and fuck a guy for a purse, concert tickets or a few hundred bucks and call that a sugar daddy. Prostitution is still more looked down upon so that’s their way of doing it without having to feel as “dirty” or bad
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6 years ago
Do guys get the same satisfaction if the girl is already buzzed/drunk whe she sits with you and just hangs out while you drink? Or is about the social interaction that comes with buying the drinks? I’ve noticed that plenty of normal, nice customers (not creepy/rapey) insist that I drink with them after I tell them I’ve already had enough. Seems like a waste of money to me.
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6 years ago
I’ve dated two guys I met at the club. One was a sugar daddy type boyfriend.. he gave me like 1k just for hanging out that night, brought me a new iPhone to our first date (we didn’t have sex until maybe the 5th date) and he paid for my boob job and lots of vacations. So he spoiled me but I genuinely liked him and was attracted to him. He never flat out paid me cash for anything except when I was recovering from the surgery and couldn’t work. We had some drama but mostly good times. He likes strip clubs but doesn’t go that often.
Other guy tipped me like $100 to hang out when we met, and did one dance. He didn’t pay or spoil me. He’s well off but far from rich. We dated for a few years. The relationship turned toxic when he became a regular strip club patron. I feel like those two things are related. There was constant drama often times involving the club. Never again wil I date a guy who is a regular club goer.
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6 years ago
I highly doubt they’d bother posting here
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6 years ago
Hmm pauldrake as a camgirl I have to both agree and disagree. The age range of spending customers on camsites tends to be 30+. Most of the younger generation will just lurk but they scoff at the idea of actually paying for porn bc they never had to.. however there’s lots more lurking about than in clubs
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6 years ago
She looks like she’d do really well on myfreecams which tends to favor the girl next door types and cosplay/gamer girls
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6 years ago
The only time it’s ok to come up or talk to each other is if both people are alone. It’s just as inappropriate for a dancer to do it as a PL. I think if numbers have been exchanged then sending a text is fine and not weird at all
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6 years ago
0_O
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6 years ago
“I talk shit about everything and everyone” ... tbh I see this. Respect
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6 years ago
^^or is the customer is unpleasant
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6 years ago
Totally depends on the girl, the club and the vibe. Woodstock can attest to the fact that I’m happy to hang out for a long time.. on a super dead Monday.. for $5 tips and some drinks. But that’s at a dive club on a slow night and if the customer is cool and I barely did my makeup. Catch me at a busy fancy club on a Friday night more done up and I would expect a lot more to stick around that long.
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6 years ago
^never warched her porn but I did see her as a feature dancer recently and it didn’t give me any desire to do so
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6 years ago
Why did u come to Tuscl just to talk shit about other dancers all the time? I don’t like SW either btw
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6 years ago
yah ima ignore the stalk-y part..... i think many do in hopes they might get famous, but also because you can make a lot more $ in the club, or as an escort, or even as a camgirl if you've done mainstream porn. it really doesn't pay that well itself from what i've heard unless you get big enough to sign with brazzers or something. even those girls do feature dancing, onlyfans, escorting and what not.