My alcohol problem
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
No, I'm not drinking too much and becoming an alcoholic. I'm spending too much on alcohol.
In September I spent over $1000 on drinks in strip clubs. About 2/3 of that amount was for drinks for dancers and the rest was for beer for me. I usually buy a beer bucket of 5 beers, which is $36, and add a 20% tip. Drinks for dancers cost from $10 to $25 to which I also add a 20% tip. Most strippers can drink me under the table and they drink a lot.
Now I don't have to buy drinks for dancers. But I like to. And they like me more when I do and find me much funnier. My own drinking helps loosen me up. Partying in the club is half the fun. I enjoy talking and joking with dancers before going to VIP for sucking and fucking. Call me old fashioned.
It's a conundrum. I don't want to spend that much on alcohol but I don't want to give up any of my fun.
In September I spent over $1000 on drinks in strip clubs. About 2/3 of that amount was for drinks for dancers and the rest was for beer for me. I usually buy a beer bucket of 5 beers, which is $36, and add a 20% tip. Drinks for dancers cost from $10 to $25 to which I also add a 20% tip. Most strippers can drink me under the table and they drink a lot.
Now I don't have to buy drinks for dancers. But I like to. And they like me more when I do and find me much funnier. My own drinking helps loosen me up. Partying in the club is half the fun. I enjoy talking and joking with dancers before going to VIP for sucking and fucking. Call me old fashioned.
It's a conundrum. I don't want to spend that much on alcohol but I don't want to give up any of my fun.
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Yeah, perhaps don't get so caught up in alcohol/non-alchohol and think of it as a combination stripclub budget and decide if you're getting what you want out of all spending.
But then again, byob clubs tend to be way more ratchet than Flight Club.
I have been spending less on alcohol ITC for the last couple years. I don't miss the extra booze, for me, nor for the dancers. Alcohol is only a problem if when you try to set limits, then find that you can't stay under those limits, time and time again.
If it is worth it to you and your budget can handle it, then fuxk it and go yee forth. If it bothers you too much or is a budget buster, then that's a different matter.
About 2 years ago at Folliron on a Sunday afternoon I had a young slim-thick ebony approach me and ask me and subsequently ask me for a drink; she was sexy and I had just gotten there so I agreed - she ordered something along with a red-bull which came out to 15-bucks - I had already been SCing for a fee-days in ATL and had spent a whole bunch of $$$ and wasn't in the mood to spend $15 on a drink on dayshift at a midtier club and I told the dancer I wasn't paying for that (the waitress had already brought the drink and that is when I found out how much it was) - I'm not much of a drinker and don't like to spend on overpriced club alcohol whose quality is often dubious - anyway I was in a pissy mood and didn't feel like paying for the expensive drink and kinda felt she should've asked me first if it was alright to order the expensive (for that club) since she asked instead of me offering so I kinda felt she was taking advantage - in retrospect I should have just eaten the drink-cost (which I usually do) but I guess that day I woke up on the wrong side of the bed - I still got a couple of dances from her and she used that to pay for her drink.
Could be. The problem is that this is the excuse du jour nowadays for dancers who turn down a drink, including many who look stone cold sober. So now when I hear this excuse, I assume she's lying and treat her the same way I treat any other girl who leaves me drinking alone.
It’s towards the end of her shift. (When she might be most concerned about drinking)
You offer a drink. She accepts. But when her order to the waitress is an obvious code word for a virgin drink, what is your opinion? Do you accept it as part of the fantasy and making the effort to be closer? Or is that bad?
A bottle of $25 Crown is good for two trips. One trip if dancers stop by for a drink.
However, there are customer drinks and there are dancer drinks. The dancer drinks are usually the expensive ones - but they are either significantly less - or no - alcohol. That might explain why you spend more - and the dancers appear to out-drink you.
Have you checked into buying a bottle? Maybe a decent vodka or bourbon - or a popular dancer booze - patron? Maybe that would be cheaper in the long run? You can still “host” dancers at your table. They can drink a shot, and you don’t need to keep buying dancer drinks.
Idk Papi, but I think you're supposed to use that comment for guys who post about civvie dates with strippers, getting feelings for them, etc., not for a guy who parties with them ITC and then goes home happy after a good finish fuck. Talk about a grade A belly flop with that comment, lol. IMO jacklash is using the clubs as ideally as can be done.
But hey, we get it. You have your anti-septic, alcohol free approach and it works for you. Don't waste money on alcohol and spread out the $$ instead of feeding one girl too much. Don't want to make it too easy for any one girl, in Miami of all places, to get too frisky, now do we? ;)
Your approach reminds me of a stop in an airport bar some years back, where I heard guys talking about their airline rewards and I replied that I spread my flying over too many airlines to get status. One of them looked at me point blank and said, "So in other words, you're every airline's worst customer." He was right and I've since changed that. Well, you're every dancer's worst customer. If you like that approach then so be it, but giving jack ribbing for partying with strippers is kinda' silly in a place like this.
And no dipshit, I was not ribbing Jack, that was obviously a joke - it just seems you've had a hard-on "to get me on something" and this is pathetically what you come up with.
I didn't know you were so sensitive but here we are.
But that aside, I'll admit that I did enjoy that whole "you're every dancer's worst customer" conversation. So sue me. If you need to continue with the dramatic name calling and other girly squeals of outrage, please proceed. ;)