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12 years ago
i think you guys missed the main point here. this author is a feminist with an axe to grind about male domination in society in general:
3."The entire analysis of strip clubs is located within the context of men's domination over women." "The strip club elicits and requires direct expressions of male domination and control over women."
that is her real issue, the strip club analysis is just being offered up as evidence that all men in society are pigs, not just those who go to clubs. i don't mind pigs as long as they bring home the bacon!
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12 years ago
btw, are you still married to this fine catch?
one more thing... how come u guys seem to think that bbbjcim is humiliating for the woman, but you always want us to do it? what does that say? and u wonder why we get testy...
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12 years ago
a lot of dancers **think** black guys can be on average more obnoxious, and worse at understanding "no means no" than white guys. whether that's really true or not, i leave up to you. others do like your bigger than average tool!
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12 years ago
yes, but was the "instant steel bar" in your shorts still a "micro bar"???
i've never been into having my nipples hurt, but i do like a real hard f*** from time to time...
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12 years ago
don't u guys find it a little odd that steph's profile says "Just a strip club junkie! LOL Got to support da single mothers ya know!" that sounds more like da juice than a stripper. No where in the article does "she" say she is a stripper. wise up.
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12 years ago
guys complement my stomach all the time, assuming they take the time to bend over and see it.
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12 years ago
both areas of activity have their advantages.
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12 years ago
this sounds more like toysales is a dancer, not a customer.
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12 years ago
i think maybe i'd like to visit that massage parlor
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12 years ago
i do pride myself on being completely customer focused, does that count?
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12 years ago
@george: i had to look up 'conflated' (thanks for the vocab lesson) but i don't agree altogether. i'm not confusing them, it would just be nice if they were together and enough. someone you love can be a great friend, you don't have to marry them; someone you love and love having sex with would be a great spouse. not sure why i feel that way, since i've never come close and like i said, like to keep my options open and exercise them a lot.
PS: is your dong really micro, or was that just a funny name you picked?
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12 years ago
hopefully she does come back, i was going to ask if she does women too...
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12 years ago
brandy, i got to say i agree with most of what the fellas have said, especially about tipping. if a guy does dances with me and is nice about it, i'm happy. if he acts like a jerk then hey - at least tip me for putting up with that.
at the same time, guys, i think what brandy is saying is that if you treat her the way she wants to be treated, she'll treat you the way you want to be treated. so, it really is about improving your experience, too.
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12 years ago
it works for me... does that make me a "black belt"???
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12 years ago
i have always found that treating the customers with respect is the best way to get tips and repeat business! duh!
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12 years ago
LDs do get outsourced... they call it phone sex!
if guys haggle with me over price, sometimes i agree, sometimes i don't. depends on how i feel and whether i like them. but i try to avoid coming down because if a guy gets a deal the first time around he'll always expect it, and if i like him i want him to become a regular. i work hard to keep my regulars happy, don't get many complaints.
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12 years ago
i don't get the whole swinging thing. okay, if you're married and get bored, but don't want to get divorced for other reasons i can see it; but why marry someone in the first place if you like to sleep around? i'm a free spirit and i've never had a bf who didn't get jealous at least some of the time... and i don't need that, so i haven't had anyone serious in a long time.