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Over the years, when I go to a club, I try to talk to the girls that are going to dance for me as the more comfortable they are with me, in general, the more mileage I seem to get. One of the questions I usually ask is "What does your boyfriend think about you working here?" Sometimes, that raises a giggle and sometimes the girl says that she doesn't have a boyfriend, and this point, I always respond "what is a great looking girl like you doing without a boyfriend?" Again, play to their egos and your mileage will most likely improve.

So, what does this have to do with swingers? Well, one of the strippers who I have gotten to know over the years replied to my boyfriend question and said that she is married and he doesn't mind as they are into swinging, so it just an extension of the lifestyle.

Of all of the girls that I have met, she seems to have her head on straightest, there doesn't seem to be any drama, and she isn't always high as a kite, as many of them are. More importantly, when in the LD area, it is not uncommon for her to go well beyond the normal rules and in the CR, BBBJ is just part of the price of admission. I do believe that she draws the line at sex in the club but that is more than reasonable. To me, clubs are not the place to get laid but maybe I am old fashioned.

I honestly think that for most of the girls, they know that in order to make money, they have to do extras and this makes them feel like a hooker, even if they draw the line at HJ and BJ. Many of them turn into hustlers and seems more than half either drink or do drugs somewhat extensively. These are turn offs for me.

I know one girl who I have known for quite some time totally ripped me off recently - she said that she did 4 sets of 2 songs each when I know that I was with her no more than 12 minutes. This club doesn't do 1 1/2 minute songs, so there was no question she was taking advantage of the fact that 2 minutes earlier she was stroking my cock through my unzipped fly in the LD booth. While the attention was nice, the girl has lost so much weight recently, she doesn't look well and her dance didn't have any real appeal. I ended up chatting with another guy at the club and he said that she has a bad drug habit which was enough to say that she will never dance for me again.

However, this girl who swings with her husband is totally comfortable with her life. She has never ripped me off and in fact, am positive that there have been days when she has short changed herself in the song count (I guess that is what happens when she is orgasming as I stick my fingers in her wet pussy). She doesn't push for CR but asks if I want and has never seemed insulted when I say not today. But, most important, she is always smiling and she seems to be having a good time working as a stripper.

So, if you have the option, try to find a stripper who also swings. It could be a real nice change of pace.