Comments by Diva1975 (page 8)

Lol Dougster. I think you're pretty cool but most dancers have mental problems;)

I'm a fan. His posts have gotten more concise, not at the pithy stage yet, but definitely shorter

Lol rech. I hope your new kitchen is brilliant 4got;)

That's sweet shailynn I'm having a bad day you cheered me up

Lol subraman. Would def expect a soliloquy from sjg;)

2 million dollars for no sex, after capital gains tax

Dougster got it right, for me at least. I was with an abuser for years. I would take him and his ensuing behavior back time and again. It wasn't about the money. I'm the cliche dancer who dated a bum who didn't work, so I supported him. My self-esteem was really low, so I became codependent (traumatic bonding) on this guy after a short time. I bailed him out of jail for assaulting me I took him back time and again. Even the police were getting tired of the cycle. I told them that every time I took him back I believed with all my heart that that was the last time; it would never happen again. Then it happened again. Eventually, in August of 2011, he punched me in the face and broke my orbital bone and served 9 months for felony assault. AND I TOOK HIM BACK WHEN HE GOT OUT!!! I'm not a dumb woman, but what a dumb thing to do. When you're under the spell if an abuser, as so often the case in women with low self worth (though I really hate to say that) you're under a powerful spell. Ok, circus is over, I'm putting my monkeys away:)

Good points smith and whodey

Scenario

Exactly crazy joe only the most idiotic dancers have to scrounge for rent money at the end of the month. You're getting the bottom of the barrel dancers in this scrnaroi

That's good advice meat not discouraging at all!! And you're brilliant as always 4got!

Good advice rattdog and jest

Thank you for the great advice james, shark hunter, and the rest of you! You have given me the motivation to actually start this thing. I will try to get my hands on a copy of candy girl and the happy hooker. Lopaw, that would be awesome. I think a chapter examining the female customer would be most intriguing! I'll PM you when I get this thing going. I knew I wasn't just killing time on this site lol

Thanks for all the input guys! No pun intended;)

Lol Miley! Damn juice, you DO have sausage fingers;)

Thanks JS. TUSCL will definitely be a chapter. Do I have permission to reprint some of your sexual escapades with the DS?

Lol crazy Joe. Definitely some sort of genetic mutation took place!

Ok I definitely would not sugar coat. It would be as raw as sushi. There, I'm already practicing using metaphors:)

Cameras make a big difference. I feel like I'm walking on a tightrope with no net underneath trying to keep both management and customers happy. I'm a little paranoid to begin with, so a camera in an LD room just makes it worse. I definitely agree with the guy that says that cameras are used against the girls whom management wants to get rid of. Some girls definitely get away with more than others. I wonder if Rickiboy could invent a system for dancers to deal with cameras. I'm sure it would involve a lot of "greasing" and would be just brilliant;)

Thanks ibbi! You're sweet:)

His circus, his monkeys;)

I sponsor a kid from Honduras through Children's international it makes me feel good. I guess I'm doing it for selfish reasons.

Not my circus, not my monkeys;)

Had a brilliant nite tonite! I hope tomorrow is just as good for me. Let the other girls go to the shore, just means more for me;) me me me, gosh we strippers are a self-centered bunch!

Thank goodness not all guys are as smart as you are james. That would like suck;)