OT: Domestic Violence
i've always found women hard to understand (and irrational), but this takes the cake
today, ray mcdonald, a now FORMER chicago bears player, was released because he allegedly hit/struck a woman. this isn't the first time either, he's been involved in domestic violence incidents before.
now obviously its a terrible thing that some guys are guilty of beating up and raping women. women are NATURALLY smaller than men. they can't defend themselves....which is why putting your hands on a woman is a terrible, terrible thing to do.
but some women will WILLINGLY stay with men who are physically abusive to them. and then they've got the nerve to complain that there are "no gentleman" lol unbelievable
the ray rice incident is PROOF that some women stay with men who beat them up and strike them. a while back, ray rice punched and dragged his fiance and now wife in a casino and it was all caught on camera. she publicly defended him and to this day they're still together.
so all i want to know is...........why on EARTH do some women stay with men who are physically abusive towards them.
i'm not smart enough to understand this. it boggles my mind. but i consider a number of the ppl who post on TUSCL to be very smart. so please, explain.
today, ray mcdonald, a now FORMER chicago bears player, was released because he allegedly hit/struck a woman. this isn't the first time either, he's been involved in domestic violence incidents before.
now obviously its a terrible thing that some guys are guilty of beating up and raping women. women are NATURALLY smaller than men. they can't defend themselves....which is why putting your hands on a woman is a terrible, terrible thing to do.
but some women will WILLINGLY stay with men who are physically abusive to them. and then they've got the nerve to complain that there are "no gentleman" lol unbelievable
the ray rice incident is PROOF that some women stay with men who beat them up and strike them. a while back, ray rice punched and dragged his fiance and now wife in a casino and it was all caught on camera. she publicly defended him and to this day they're still together.
so all i want to know is...........why on EARTH do some women stay with men who are physically abusive towards them.
i'm not smart enough to understand this. it boggles my mind. but i consider a number of the ppl who post on TUSCL to be very smart. so please, explain.
Got something to say?
Start your own discussion
28 comments
I do not know if this information is true or if I read it or dreamed of being told the info by some AI but I remember hearing females bond more easily to men. Men on the other hand need to have vaginal sex with the girl and the vaginal Juices need to soak into his skin to create the bonding effect in men. Wear a condom and the guy won't feel very much bonded. It's chemical. Using intellect to overcome a chemical bond is difficult to do in my opinion. I imagine it's like addicted smokers trying to quit especially if they do not know of a support group.
Why do so many men beat their female spouses? Is it upbringing? not sure about that one. Maybe it's a power thing.
In the case of these football players, the women might stick with them because they have more money than the average joe out there. Maybe Ray Rice's lady publicly defended him because she feared that he would track her down and give her a beating ten times worse if she did not.
they're re women....so perhaps they can explain or shed some light on this??
Within 4 months, she was back together with him. I don't understand it. But she had told me that her father beat her mother and continues to beat her today. The dancer probably thinks beatings are normal.
dougster-- i looked up what you said and did some reading about it......thanks a lot for your reply
The one and only time a man raised his hand to me, I put him in the hospital with a broken jaw. Nuff said.
don't mess around with ms lopaw! :-)
I will tell you one thing you never want to happen. Be stuck in Grand Jury duty for 6 months after breaking up from a long term relationship. 2 months into it, I was tired of the abuse cases, (this was Gwinnett Co, GA). I would say 75% of those cases the abused was there bailing him out within a couple of days. Really, does a number on your head. Next jury letter I get I am going to ask for counseling. Yeah, I am due in a few more months for the letter. I get one about every 2.5 years.
Appparently there is a big difference in the law though, a man can get 5 years in prison for hurting a dog but only 30 days for beating his wife. Obviously the punishment for harming dogs is way too harsh, just kidding.
Men will do anything for sex – and women will do anything for love.
I imagine some also might feel that no one will believe them if they press charges. If a woman doesn't have a strong support group I would imagine it would be difficult to leave.