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10 years ago
a discussion board with the ability to post pictures aka screen shotsYes that would be nice.
However, I understand if that feature doesn't exist. It hugely increases the bandwidth they have to pay for with all those fotos being downloaded all the time.
And thankfully this is, for many, a free site, so many thanks to the guys who run it.
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10 years ago
Hypothetical Blow Job Question #69Holy crap I'm so embarrassed !!!! It's from Seinfeld. Mulva. The girl's name. I've seen that episode so many times, and forgot all about it. Rhymes with part of the female anatomy...
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10 years ago
Hypothetical Blow Job Question #69"PS. Lopaw, you exchange blow job for some mulva munching."
Never heard of mulva munching before. But still it's hilarious.
Is mulva a word?
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10 years ago
KissingHyper....
Detail....
SC ladies....
Appreciation....
What else is new.
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10 years ago
Kissingalabegonz, seriously....
Whatever drugs you're doing, you need to stop it. It's messing with your brain.
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10 years ago
Does it "turn you on" to see a dancer "turned on" ?When having sex with any woman, it certainly enhances the experience if she is at least appearing to enjoy it. Personally, I hate if the woman is faking it. So if you are both really getting off on the experience it's pretty awesome.
But if I'm paying, my goal is NOT for her to get off. That just seems strange to me that someone would set ground rules that a VIP is focused on HER getting off. HUH????
And women in general are pretty much incapable of having a meaningful orgasmic experience with some stranger in a club. Consider that they have an inherent disrespect for customers, and in order to do their job of making believe they enjoy dealing with hundreds of customers on a shift they need to put up an emotional wall between them and everyone else.
So unless the dancer can somehow clear those, and other hurdles, any "getting off" or orgasm she appears to have is fake. And those are VERY tough hurdles to clear.
So it seems to me that believing you will pleasure her in any meaningful way during a VIP is ludicrous. Yeah, I suppose it can happen if the dancer is emotionally fucked up enough, but it's extremely unlikely.
Of course everyone who posts here is the exception I'm sure, and is fully proficient at making dancers have incredible orgasms.
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10 years ago
OT: On the social stigma (or lack thereof) of being a “Sugar Baby”There is a HUGE social stigma to being a stripper or hooker. Anyone who does that is a trashy slut, and any woman would sooner die than have the other soccer moms, or, god forbid, her daughter and her friends, label her as a slut.
Now, that being said, there is also an understanding among women that money rules. Most women spend their lives seeking out a partner with big money. They never say that, but all women know that money rules. Instead, they say they're looking for a "good provider" or some such bullshit. No, they want some basketball player or corporate CEO who can give them a private jet and unlimited credit card.
Therefore, when you're talking about "sugar babies" and their close girlfriends, there is an understanding that the rules of the game are to find some guy who will give them money. Lots of it. And if they have to be sluts in return, well, you gotta do what you gotta do. That's why most women are such fucking hypocrites. They put up an "eminent front", trying to show what pure virgins they are, but in fact as soon as money enters the picture they are sluts for a buck. No different from the girl who just happens to "fall in love" with the multimillion $$ basketball player. Love depends a lot on the amount of money involved.
Therefore, between girlfriends, this chick scored big. Free money, and all you have to give up is your inner slut. Would she announce this to the rest of the world? Hell no. Only to those she has a close understanding with, and who understand that money rules.
Now, as far as the social stigma of some guy who empties his wallet to some stupid stripper just so she'll have sex with him and act like she likes him, well that's pretty clear. The guy who does that is a total loser, and as most women would say, a "perv", and he should get a real girlfriend and stop paying for sex.
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10 years ago
KissingIs it a full moon or something? Geezus, I dont know what the fuck people are talking about lately...
Slaux_pas, seriously, what the fuck are you talking about?
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10 years ago
Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Hands free or hand action ?alabegonz sez: "Like I have the nerve the to tell exactly how she would blow me."
Why the hell not??? If you're paying her, you sure as hell have a right. If she's a girlfriend, then presumably she WANTS to find out the best way to please you, because she, presumably, cares about you.
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10 years ago
Post OTC etiquetteIm visualizing Lopaw strutting into a club wearing a leather jacket, tattoos on her arms, hair slicked back like a 50's biker, cigarette hanging out of her mouth...
"Yo, bitch....ever been fucked while hang gliding...on acid???"
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10 years ago
motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Blackmail?I wonder if she knows the definition of blackmail....
I'm guessing....um....let's see....
NO !!!!
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10 years ago
Kissingalabegonz sez: "I can't believe all the comments are all about the topic Sins of Kissing."
WTF??
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10 years ago
motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Happy Birthday Neil PeartYeah, never been a big fan. In fact I'd be hard pressed to name a Rush song...
Go no, right?
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10 years ago
Post OTC etiquetteThats interesting....
Assuming most women want a strong bad boy, and are more likely to spread their legs for a narcissistic, self centered, manipulative thrill seeker, I wonder if most strippers who are willing to have sex with other women respond the same way. Maybe Lopaw should try some sort of bad boy approach...
Just sayin...
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10 years ago
KissingDude, when people said enforce what they meant was monitor and identify incidents of rule breaking...you're talking about penalties. Any idiot knows what the possible penalties are..geez
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10 years ago
Post OTC etiquetteIm not really addressing this particular scenario, but rather the seemingly unending flow of posts by guys who are so concerned about some silly idea of etiquette. Sure you dont want to fuck up a good thing. But geez guys be a man, not some wimpering pussy who is so concerned that you dont upset the almighty pussy..
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10 years ago
Post OTC etiquetteI just don't understand this desperate concern that so many guys here have with making sure they follow precisely some freaking idea of "etiquette". Are you guys serious?
They're strippers. You pay them for a service. Geezus.
"Do I do this?" "Do I do that?" "What if she gets upset?" "What if my panties get in a bunch?"
Do you think they give a fuck about adhering to some fucking etiquette with you?
I just don't get it.
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10 years ago
Orgasm ResponsibilityLopaw,
Its with the deepest respect that I say this...
HUH ???????
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10 years ago
KissingAnd by the way, the mere presence of an employee rulebook which clearly states the rules, which are in support and compliance with all local state and federal laws, is what the business really needs for its protection. They have limited responsibility for enforcement
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10 years ago
KissingEnforcement is almost irrelevant....there are many mnay general rules for employee conduct and behavior in many businesses that are very difficult to enforce. Drinking or drugs or being under the influence while on duty? Yeah, if you're really blatant it might be obvious if the supervisor is watching you, but how many jobs have supervisors looking over your shoulder your entire shift. Just because it might be difficult to enforce is no reason to throw out the rule
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10 years ago
KissingBy the way, kissing a chick, even a stripper, is awesome. 'Specially if she's got some really excellent tasting lipstick on, and knows how to use her lips and tongue, and smells really good, and gives you nasty talk in between the kisses. Damn...
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10 years ago
Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Hands free or hand action ?Like I said in another thread, I'm an "all senses" kind of guy. So watching the top of a head bobbing up and down during a BJ, while good, isn't all it can be. After she does some sucking, and getting the dick all wet with saliva, if you then look down between your legs and her sexy face is looking back at you with a naughty smile, and your dick is right next to her cheek, and she's stroking it with her hand, and says "you gonna cum for me baby?", then that's when the gloves come off and it's time for blast-off. It's those extras that make the experience. You SEE a hot girl, you HEAR her sexy voice, you FEEL the awesomeness of the sucking and stroking...damn...that's what I'm talkin' bout.
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10 years ago
KissingI was surprised at the thought of club rules against kissing, but based upon some of the responses it sounds like it is, in fact, a legitimate rule in some clubs. Funny though how people with no knowledge of the subject seem so sure that no such rules exist.
What surprises me now is that, if it does exist in the rulebook of some clubs, why not in all clubs? Generally, club rules are a result of local and state and federal laws, and I assume that the end result is widely recognized practices and restrictions in order to comply with those laws. So unless the local legal situation is vastly different, you'd think that most club rules and restrictions are fairly identical.
I'm guessing that a no-kissing rule is the result of state liquor license requirements which restrict nudity and sexual contact, so if kissing can be interpreted as sexual contact (which doesn't seem too much of a stretch) then it seems pretty obvious that a no-kissing rule would exist.
But I'd think that would apply to most or all clubs that serve liquor.
Interesting.
It would be nice if someone who really knew the laws and regulations would answer this...
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10 years ago
Enjoying a Womanalabegonz sez: "We are talking about strippers here. Have you been fucked by a stripper? I would never think of like that one written above."
Dude, what the fuck are you talking about?? No, I wasn't specifically referring to strippers. And I wasn't talking about being fucked by a stripper, whatever the fuck that means. Sounds like you're working thru some issues, huh?
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10 years ago
Orgasm ResponsibilityActually I was referring to real women, not strippers. I don't give a fuck if a stripper has an orgasm. I'm paying, so she should be attentive to me, not the other way around.
I'm talking about real women. Though maybe this isn't the place to discuss since apparently most of the experience seems to be with only strippers?