Post OTC etiquette
So you and a dancer have been meeting outside the club and it's not a business transaction. The two of you definitely aren't a couple but you're not just friends either. Do you continue hanging out at the club she works at? Do you still buy dances from her? Do you get dances with other girls at the same club? I'm not looking for advice just curious to see how others have handled this situation.
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She gives good lapdances ITC, better than the ones I get OTC.
No, I do not buy dances from other girls.
You know the answer to this question, yet you still posted it? Like I'm gonna tell how I got the the other dancer while my CF was busy?
Nope.
SC is to meet her, and to see her only enough to start seeing her outside. Once you have that, stay away from the club. Tell her, "I stay away from there so that you can do your job."
SJG
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You can only do that when you and your girl have something going.
Otherwise, it's all fun, bro.
So if you are fucking her non-P4P – or just seeing each other non-P4P – then I think it’s best not to do other dancers if she will know about it.
Agreed.
They're strippers. You pay them for a service. Geezus.
"Do I do this?" "Do I do that?" "What if she gets upset?" "What if my panties get in a bunch?"
Do you think they give a fuck about adhering to some fucking etiquette with you?
I just don't get it.
I can't speak for anyone else but I won't risk fucking up a perfectly good P4NP situation by visiting her at the club and possibly pissing her off or having one of the other dancers deliberately start some shit with either me or her just because she can. You know that stripclubs are just thinly disguised junior high school's in their mentality and maturity. Why risk it if you don't need to?
Perhaps you have not been in the situation of having a fave and have not experienced the scenario?
Yeah – too much indecisiveness – Rich Moranis would agree w/ you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AW2xyXl2t…
Assuming most women want a strong bad boy, and are more likely to spread their legs for a narcissistic, self centered, manipulative thrill seeker, I wonder if most strippers who are willing to have sex with other women respond the same way. Maybe Lopaw should try some sort of bad boy approach...
Just sayin...
I'll try it jerikson and see what happens. It will be an interesting experiment.
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1. I had OTC with a dancer in a club where extras did not occur. When I would come into town, I would stop in the club have a drink with her and leave. She would later come to my hotel after her shift. I would not tie her up for more than 30 minutes. Usually it was more like 15 minutes. She was a hustler and I didn't want to get in her way. She also didn't want me to get in her way and would rather me save my money and spend time with me outside the club. She OTC'd with me because she liked me not for money. It was always free.
2. I currently have an OTC in another town I visit. This dancer usually works dayshift which I never go to. If she is working a rare night shift I will go visit her in the club. I can get full service here and pay her low rate, which saves from meeting her OTC. If I couldn't get full service with her inside the club then I wouldn't go hang out with her. But with me paying to take her to VIP she's happy to spend the rest of the evening with me for no charge. One time another guy that buys a lot of dances from her came into the club so I left for the night so she could make money. She was very apologetic the next day but I told her I wasn't offended at all, she's there to make money and I never want to get in her way.
Lastly, if I ever have an OTC relationship with a girl I never get dances from another girl in that club. She will be the only girl I will spend money on in that club. If she's not working I will just go to a different club.
I would carry on in the club as I did before, getting dances with my FB and with any other girls I like.
When my ATF and I were seeing each other, my trips to clubs, including ones besides hers, seldom involved anything beyond lap dances and stage tips. Aside from an occasional blow job (I can't think of a single time after the point at which we started going raw, and honestly, even before then, that I had actual coitus with anyone else), there wasn't much between me and other girls. That's primarily because she made it *worth* it to me to not see anyone else. Of course, this wasn't a FWB relationship, it was P4P, but the same principle applies.
As for jerikson40's whine about people pussily following rules of etiquette, it's a Golden Rule thing for me. The fact that they're strippers doesn't automatically exempt me from being polite, considerate and respectful where it's due. If it makes you feel more like a "man" to rub her face in the fact that you're fucking around, go for it. Best of luck with that.
On the other hand, if you only come into town once in a great while, then maybe you do want to go to her club to renew the relationship.
If you are going to do this though, I would suggest that you track her lunar cycle and time your visit to get the best results.
SJG
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