Comments by nengneng

@vm: BTW, why you mentioned Asia in a response to me? I didn't get the idea... Also, if you read others' responses to my topic, or other topics (e.g., last topic, which is about dinner proposal from a stripper), you can find that I'm not alone here: there are others who take their ATF to restaurants as well, and some of them are quite experienced/advanced member here, say, shawdowcat. I respect his relationship with gridget very much, and would like to develop something similar with my ATF. Then why you think only I am the PL here? Just because most others are elder than me thus their same behaviors as mine must be better thought of than mine? Or alternatively, maybe you think all of us who take ATF to restaurants are PLs (but happened to just nominate me), or more straightforward, all of us who have developed emotional attachments to strippers are PLs, then I'd love to be. The idea is: different people have different aims to SCs, and to me the emotional satisfaction is definitely better appreciated than sexual satisfaction. To me, since preference is a personal issue that should not be judged by others, people going to SCs hoping to get emotional satisfaction (which could be better met by meeting her socially, that's why I would go) are at most as pathetic as those hoping to get laid, if not less.

I know who Asia is. I really cannot enjoy her dance... and her face does not appeal to me at all. She seems to be everything to the other end of my preference: she's Asian, short, fat with big boobs, and I like tall slim with A-cup Caucasian girl...

@georg, I just assume that other regulars may also take her to restaurants. So I don't want to look cheap (cheaper). A general idea of all you guy's choices help me to get a general sense of the average level! Actually I studied social psychology before, and comparison group was one of my research interests, so maybe I am performing the theory, but that's how my brain works...

@Clubber, Thanks for your idea (and also all others') that I should set the bar not very high in order to save upscale options for special occasions like V-day. BTW, you mean, she quit stripping??

@Steve229 I intended to say in my original post that Hooters should not be an option! It's so easily to be detracted by other girls (and I think it's even unlikely to develop anything with Hooters girls than with you ATF), which is bad.

Looks like I really enjoy eye candy: Among all the nominated eye candy places above, I have been to 3 of them! (I have been to only 7 different clubs in all!)

I met a very pretty blonde girl in Nashville's Crazy horse last August. Don't know whether she's still there. But not too many eye candy. The sure part is not the "candy" part, it's the "eye" part——you have to throw the money on stage since absolutely no touch during stage dance. WTF! And I also hate the bouncers there. They look as if all the girls are their personal properties...

yes, cheetah lounge! Very eye-candy, very upscale, and very low mileage. Actually I'm okay if it is eye-candy+low mileage. However, I think it's overpriced a little bit...

9 months? Sounds more likely just gave birth to her baby.

@DougS: I am also bothered by the "standing next to" and "walking with" part every time she led me to the back couch space...since my ATF is just a little bit shorter than me without the heels. I am 173cm, converted as 5'8". That's another reason why I want to see her OTC. Yes, she seems too tall in the club, you know. lol

gillydon: I have exactly the same preference here. I somehow feel weird if the girl is taller than me without her heels. That's not a match-couple.

clubber: for my ATF, her slim body and pretty face negate them. Actually to me, a clean face is foremost important. As long as no tattoo there (most people don't) and piercing (I hate those piercings on face), I'm fine.

I like tall and slim girl.

Damn it! My ATF has tatoos almost every where!!! Without those, she would be perfect! What a pity.

Since I only want to keep nice visit (2-5 LDs + half to one hour VIP), I can manage only twice a week. I would rather go less frequent to keep nice visit than make her established expectation on me disappoint. I hope I could see her once a week!

@georgmicrodong: I didn't bother to ask her name since I did not tip her... My preference is good-looking (while I find that we Asian males have a lot of disagreements with American males in terms of good-looking Asian females), and as for the body, tall and slim. Also I have no preference for big boobs at all, since most slim and tall girls have only flat boobs, if remains natural.

I like steve229's recent two topics! They are among those I enjoy most in the club. As for the hug, at my very first or the second to my ATF, she asked me to hug her as tight as possible during VIP time. She said she lacked sense of security. I also enjoy hugging her tightly, squeezing her flat tits on to my chest. (I think flat tits make it relatively easier to hug tightly.) However, when we stand, it's really hard for us to hug in a "normal" way, because she is just a little bit shorter than me, thus when she is on her dancer shoes, she is significant taller than me. So most of the gestures listed by Steve229 is beyond me... What a pity!

@Digitech: Did you finally see her again and figure out what happened? I cannot believe how capricious some dancers are, but it happens!

I always share dinner in the club with my ATF (for sure I pay the bill), though most of the time I ate some free buffet before that. I really like her small cute mouth eating the food. Most of the time, she would finish half or 2/3 of the meal and I would finish it. And last time I told her that the food in the club was bad, and we should have some fancy food OTC, and she agreed! Looking forward to my next visit, especially the opportunity to see her in civilian life.

"Brad's Brass Flamingo in Indianapolis had a stunner named Tsunami."??? As far as I know, I have seen only on Asian dancer in BBF who goes by "Asia" as stage name. And I actually find her disgusting... too fat and a not-so-pretty face, if not ugly... But she seems to have good reviews on other sites probably due to her mileage. But I would rather stick to eye candy with low mileage, as is the case for my ATF. As for Asian dancer, I saw one last August in Cheetah lounge in Atlanta, but again, not good-looking, but the body looks hot. Also, there was another one I saw in PT's show club in Louisville. She was slim, and by far the best looking Asian dancer I had ever seen. But I seem to only enjoy slim Caucasian dancers with good looks, though I am from East Asia...

who is the counterpart for kids in the 80s? Britney Spears? Paris Hilton? BTW, I don't think Elizabeth Taylor is the most typical American beauty (though she IS gorgeous), since she is not blonde.

I have a sense that most responses so far to this topic express some emotional attachments, which is not usual for most other topics where sexuality dominates the tone. This reinforces my belief that this industry is not all about getting laid.

The club I go is not that liberal and it is just topless, so never tried pleasure my ATF this way (though I wish I could). But with what we could do, I pleasure her by giving her back massage, which she seems very into. She would almost fall asleep as I do this gently.

I think if she is the only reason I go to a particular club, she's my ATF. For me it is the case now. I go to one and only one club and see her exclusively, which means I only ask LDs and VIP time from her, though I may stage tip a few other girls. And yes... I do hope to build a deeper relationship... Call my PL is anyone would like to :)

about 11 years old. I believe mine is earlier than others' in my country.