I can only really afford a nice visit (i.e. get some LDs) once a month, so that would be the max. But I also have three different clubs I go to regularly as well and there's never a guarantee whoever it is at the club I go to that one particular time will be there when I go the next time.
Furthermore, I've noticed with my ATFs that they start seeing me as an easy mark if I see them too much. I'll get a dance from them and they'll act like dancing with me is some sort of a 10-minute break from all the other guys. The dance suffers accordingly.
The last time I went to Scores, one girl I do have a liking for was disappointing because she seemingly went on cruise control for every song. I could tell she had a sequence of moves she simply had on a loop, regardless of the song or my mood. I was kinda ticked.
Sometimes, particularly if the ATF didn't give me good dances the last time I went or if I'm just not feeling in the mood for her that night, I'll make a point to let her approach me (not seek her out), only get one dance, then call it quits. It's kind of a message -- hey, I like you, but you still have to give me your best effort if you want my regular business.
gmd, once you got the OTC routine set up, why did she end it? I'd think that regular cash infusion would have been an incentive to maintain the relationship.
Jim, I have sent the same single dance message and I do think that it is effective. Conversely, I have had a couple of disappointing nights when I had to apologize for junior's lack of enthusiasm even though she was giving it the old college try. Tried to blame it on long hours and travel and had to just call it a night.
I have let all the dancers know that there is a direct correlation between their performance and the money flowing freer. That's why I am somewhat cagey if they ask up front how many dances I think I will end up getting. My ATF started at the beginning by giving dances like each one was critical. Later, she started asking about how many I would get. And I know they have to juggle regulars and schedule their time, but it did seem like she would pace herself if she knew that she'd be there with me for 7 dances. So, I stopped giving direct answers.
Since I only want to keep nice visit (2-5 LDs + half to one hour VIP), I can manage only twice a week. I would rather go less frequent to keep nice visit than make her established expectation on me disappoint.
@GoVikings: I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it. I guess it's my perspective. I usually only get to see my GF (non-dancer) three nights a week. But, about once a month, I like a change-up. [shrug]
If you can't go without seeing a dancer atleast twice a week and the thought of going only once a week is too hard to bare. Take a long look in the mirror and fucking slap yourself!!!
Ween yourself off her tits man. Unless you're fucking there's no reason to be seeing her so often, just MHO
I would like to see my favorite girl once a week but that isn't always possible because of schedule or finances.
A quick tip about the girl not being there when you show up - I wondered how the hell my Chinese buddy was always getting phone numbers from dancers until my ATF actually offered hers to me when I said I came in one day and was disappointed to not see her there. She said "call me if you want to check that I'm going to work on the day you plan to visit". Now I have asked other girls for their numbers on that same premise and, I'll be damned, it works!
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Furthermore, I've noticed with my ATFs that they start seeing me as an easy mark if I see them too much. I'll get a dance from them and they'll act like dancing with me is some sort of a 10-minute break from all the other guys. The dance suffers accordingly.
The last time I went to Scores, one girl I do have a liking for was disappointing because she seemingly went on cruise control for every song. I could tell she had a sequence of moves she simply had on a loop, regardless of the song or my mood. I was kinda ticked.
Sometimes, particularly if the ATF didn't give me good dances the last time I went or if I'm just not feeling in the mood for her that night, I'll make a point to let her approach me (not seek her out), only get one dance, then call it quits. It's kind of a message -- hey, I like you, but you still have to give me your best effort if you want my regular business.
Uh oh! :0
I have let all the dancers know that there is a direct correlation between their performance and the money flowing freer. That's why I am somewhat cagey if they ask up front how many dances I think I will end up getting. My ATF started at the beginning by giving dances like each one was critical. Later, she started asking about how many I would get. And I know they have to juggle regulars and schedule their time, but it did seem like she would pace herself if she knew that she'd be there with me for 7 dances. So, I stopped giving direct answers.
I hope I could see her once a week!
Ween yourself off her tits man. Unless you're fucking there's no reason to be seeing her so often, just MHO
A quick tip about the girl not being there when you show up - I wondered how the hell my Chinese buddy was always getting phone numbers from dancers until my ATF actually offered hers to me when I said I came in one day and was disappointed to not see her there. She said "call me if you want to check that I'm going to work on the day you plan to visit". Now I have asked other girls for their numbers on that same premise and, I'll be damned, it works!