Comments by nengneng (page 2)

I think an alternative way to address the gender equality is to open as many male strip clubs...

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To me, part of the strip club fantasy, especially for LD time, is that you own the girl EXCLUSIVELY! You don't want her to mention her boyfriend/husband (her son is okay) since you don't want another mature male in the picture, at least for that short time. Same logic, you also don't want to be reminded that she will leave you soon and serve another (group of) male(s), especially that big turning-off reminder interupted your LD and took the time you pay.

same here!!!

Er... thanks for sharing the experience, which is very illustrative. BTW, I think this is not the worst setup——it's better to have the father show up than husband/boyfriend...

er...that comes from mention of woman's period, which originally comes from a discussion about the smell of pussy...thus nothing to do with "monogamous partner" yet...

If just means "she fucks", I'm totally okay. I understand that here is in the U.S. (not the Confucius culture countries, though even there things are starting change!), and college girls fuck, too! (I know the Duke female student's sex diary.) Thanks for the relieving point that birth-control shot does not necessarily mean unprotected sex!

you scare me...

@lopaw: I'm from earth... not Mars... I didn't know that you are female. However, for my previous post under this topic, I did not intend to offend female. Rather, I mean, at least to me, secret makes women attractive by giving me so many wonders.

Me either! Never ever understand them!' But I also believe that "A secret makes a woman woman". They are born to be women, thus born to keep secrets by telling lies and you'll never know the truth!

@jackslash: I have feeling that they just don't like men's sexually oriented jokes, not too much because of lack of sense of humor. Seems like the same case for women in civilian life.

@pabloantonio: thanks for the "disillusion". I think that may be due to my "take" from going to strip club is a little different. I expect not only visual and physical fantasy, but also some emotional fantasy making me feel as if I have such a (physically) gorgeous girl friend, and I know more likely it is JUST fantasy, and saying "I love you" is part of my fantasy here. However, I do need to understand that since it is fantasy, I should not be into it too much, and it's done when the session is done. Thanks for your points, which are very explanatory!

@Dougster: finally I see another guy also does this, which makes me feel that saying this is not too rare and strange.

I see. Since you have your SO, you draw a clear boundary between "like" zone and "love" zone. I think for singles (like me), such boundary blurs.

Such an advanced topic... no way to jump into the discussion for me here...

once to three times a month

For me, usually it is also late afternoon and early evening. However, I want to try late night (say, arrive at 10 pm) this next time , since usually my ATF still works when I leave, I want to see whether there is OTC opportunity if her leaving time is about the same as mine.

I read about it, and the explanation is that "the smellier the better" actually is due to "the smellier, the healthier the girl is, thus the better mate partner she is to have offspring with". (BTW, this is just one point of view among others)

BTW, I don't think the stripper heel is the best way of presenting beautiful feet (or maybe I have got used to it thus no surprise.). If she wears the usual office lady's high heel, there is more fantasy. As for the hygiene, I really did not think about it while I should have, since it seems that my ATF has many different clothes but only one pair of dancing shoes!

Also, I have fetishism of the used panties of my ATF. Maybe when it is my birthday, I'll ask it from her as my birthday gift.

I never tried blowjob or anything else. To me, at least a footjob is better than a handjob!

I had the same experience as jackslash twice! And the other time, the waitress came by to see whether my ATF or I need any drink...

How could you jerk in your pants? It seems to me that as long as your dude remains in your pants, however hard the grind is, it is really hard to do so!