Comments by dirtysecrets

Outside the club.

I was in a club in El Paso, enjoying some time in VIP with a Hispanic stripper who spoke good English. Things got pretty hot and heavy and I ended up bringing her to an orgasm. She was surprised, said she never came inside the club and then asked, "How did you do that?" I smiled and said, "Well, I'm magic..." Her eyes got super-big and with awe and a bit of fear, she said, "REEEEALLLLYYY?" I back-pedaled furiously and told her I did not have any supernatural powers, but I'm still not sure she believed me.

It's not new. I've used it for years, since it had its original name, aspd.net. It's been very useful to me for nearly 20 years, but the year of COVID and new sex-focused legislation has really taken a toll on the site and its usefulness. Texas has tons of reviews for escorts, strip clubs, massage parlors, etc., but other regions of the country (and world) don't have nearly as much user participation. Like TUSCL, there's a premium level which gives much more info on individual experiences, but you have to pay or submit a review to gain access to that.

Yeah, I stopped by the Palace a couple of weeks ago and the door girl wanted to scan my drivers license "for your protection." I asked how that protected me, and she said, "Well, that's our policy." I said, "My policy is not to spend any money at places that want to scan my ID," and down the road I went.

For the past couple of weeks, I've been seeing a 25-year-old stripper OTC. Since I'm 67, this is quite a treat, but I'm having a hard time getting to know her. When I met her for the first time — inside the club — she knew several of the women I'd played with there, including the one I saw OTC for over a year...but she said none of the other dancers liked her. I couldn't figure it out, because she's friendly, chatty, upbeat. This week I was in her bed for the second time and I was still trying to get to know her. I asked if she liked girls and she said she wasn't attracted to them. I figured she must have at least had to do doubles inside the club with other girls, but she again said the other girls don't like her. As Raylan Givens once said, "If everybody you meet is an asshole, guess what? YOU'RE the asshole." I'll continue to try to find out more why she feels so isolated at work. It doesn't jibe with the part of her personality I've seen.

No idea. I only go on Mondays around noon. Plus, I don't drink.

It's not a buffet; that would be impossible to keep safe. It's a list of food that you choose from and then they bring it out from the kitchen. I paid, but did not eat...so in effect, it is a $20 door fee. There were indeed some very hot women there, along with some more average ones. And yes, extras have always been available here. If you pay $60 for one of the cabanas in the back, you can get just about anything you desire.

San Antonio has at least four clubs on the same highway as the airport hotels, plus a couple more a few blocks off that road. Haven't been to all of them post-COVID, but plenteous extras were available at all of them in the past.

"Unmarried nipples?" Thanks, auto-correct. Should have been unMARRED nipples.

No. Both clubs today, the girls did not take off their tops onstage, so no need for the latex. Therefore, private dances featured beautiful, unmarried nipples.

I’m 67 and own my own business, oh wise ones. I didn’t do anything differently at the second club I visited today, but every dancer there stopped by to say hello.

At Rick's in San Antonio, I've seen lots of women who don't wear the latex because they keep their tops on while onstage. Back in the VIP area, it's a whole different story.

It was not my destination, but since I was in the neighborhood...

Only happened once to me, and it was after probably a dozen visits to the club's VIP section with this gal. We also kept in touch via email/text and quite out of the blue, she said, "You could just come by my house, if you want..." There followed a year or two of great, great sessions, fully naked, sometimes in bed, sometimes on the couch, and it was still cheaper than the same number of club visits would have been. Time = trust for me—and for her, too, I think. I was still on guard that first visit to her place, but after that it was pure fun.

Great info to have; thanks to you all!

I like eye contact. To me, it's just another element in good communication. If she can't look me in the eyes, she's probably not gonna be a good conversationalist...and for me, feeling some sort of connection is much more important than the simple friction of grinding.

You CAN do text messages in Google Voice. Other than that, I do the same things you mentioned, always using incognito mode. It's a very small price to pay when compared to a divorce.

Wow, lockable doors? That's pretty amazing!

You see the bad news: they don't take off their tops onstage. I see the good news: they DO take 'em off in VIP and there's none of that shitty latex covering up the good stuff. I guess the difference is in whether you just wanna look or you wanna participate.

Yes, all you guys please stay out of Texas...heh-heh-heh. I've had the highest mileage you could ever want at San Antonio clubs. They only wear latex if they expose their tits onstage. If they keep their lingerie on, that means you won't have to deal with vulcanized nipples back in the VIP. Given the choice between nude breasts onstage and nude breasts in my hands, I'll always go with the latter; I'm not there to watch dancing.

Yeah, El Paso has some easy-access fun, especially in the Red Parrot. I visited a couple of clubs in Scottsdale and didn't find much play available.

My day off does not correspond with my wife's day off. As soon as she leaves for work, I hop in the shower and then drive directly to my OTC girl's apartment, where I spend an hour or two getting naked and playing before she need to get ready to head to her club for work. If my wife is not going in to work at the usual time, I'll wait a couple of hours and just go to the strip club and catch up with my dancer gal there.

I haven't noticed any bush in a club in years, but I'm hoping you're right — I miss pubic hair on women.

Glitter In Your Pubes is a great album title.

I take Mondays off for the sole purpose of doing whatever the fuck I want. I like to visit strip clubs at lunchtime when there are few customers, less frantic atmosphere. True, there are fewer dancers, but I can usually find one that I like...and the VIP areas are much more deserted, which allows for more play. I'd be fine with being the only guy in the joint, but noon visits are about as close to that as I can get...and I HAVE been the only guy on quite a few occasions...at least for an hour or two.