I’ve always liked variety but in the past GPS is often a reason as is jealously over spending time and money with other dancers Or not giving me attention when I want it and I know she isn’t that busy is she does that I’m usually already looking for the next ATF
She can't leave well enough alone. Once in a while we get to a really good place, but it doesn't last. Right now thing are good, so the clock is ticking.
That she got married three years ago and left the strip club (and otc) life behind to start a family. I'd still be seeing her if it wasn't for that and I haven't found anyone near as good since she left.
"I'd still be seeing her if it wasn't for that and I haven't found anyone near as good since she left."
This may sound insensitive, but do you know if she's "happily" married? My ATF is very married, and aside from the occasional flakeout because husband it's working as well as any other OTC has. Actually that's a lie lol but it works well enough to keep it going.
"If my 'All Time Favorite' had some other serious flaw, she wouldn't have the ATF designation."
Perfection is boring. You ever see those rare storylines where the bad guys win? In this case I call her my ATF. She wasn't given the title she straight up took it lol, and her reign has been complicated but very fun. All Time Fun.
@Wall: I hear you, but my ATF got the title because she was hot as hell, fucked me like the love of her life and called me "Daddy" in a kitten voice that gave me a chubby just to hear it. If you need some hair in the ointment I hear that - to each his own. But the only serious fault I had with mine was that her fiancé became her husband and she wanted to transition to a normal life.
My ATF has left the stripping business but when she was here her biggest flaw was an inability to stay in one place. She would get fired or bored where she was at. I ended up doing lap dances with her in four different strip clubs over the years. There were also gaps in my visits with her as she moved to Florida and came back and moved in with a boyfriend and then came back.
"This may sound insensitive, but do you know if she's "happily" married?"
I have actually reached out to her a few times since she got married but each time the response has been along the lines of "don't be silly, you know I don't do that kind of thing anymore" but it doesn't mean I won't keep trying once or twice a year just in case.
Whodey still gets a "don't be silly" reply when he writes his ATF three years after she called it quits from the OTC game? That sounds like a woman keeping her options open. Like the "married" dancers I know who casually drop in a convo how much they've heard a divorce will cost lol. Don't lose the number that she never changed...
I am not monogamous when it comes to the strip club, and I always want to try something new. So even if she’s an ATF, I find it annoying when a stripper locks me down the second I walk in the door and tries to prevent me from checking out any of the other talent.
She never thought she was good enough. Whether it was with regard to herself, or how she cared for the kids, or her job, she always measured herself against impossible standards. She'd improved greatly in the years I knew her, she still often though she fell short.
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This may sound insensitive, but do you know if she's "happily" married? My ATF is very married, and aside from the occasional flakeout because husband it's working as well as any other OTC has. Actually that's a lie lol but it works well enough to keep it going.
Exactly lol. If my "All Time Favorite" had some other serious flaw, she wouldn't have the ATF designation. 😉
Perfection is boring. You ever see those rare storylines where the bad guys win? In this case I call her my ATF. She wasn't given the title she straight up took it lol, and her reign has been complicated but very fun. All Time Fun.
I have actually reached out to her a few times since she got married but each time the response has been along the lines of "don't be silly, you know I don't do that kind of thing anymore" but it doesn't mean I won't keep trying once or twice a year just in case.
My cf on the other hand, occasionally thinks of me as her retirement plan and discusses long term plans involving us.
Of course, that would have meant that she was only three at the time....🫤😂