One key difference between SA girls and OTC strippers
rickdugan
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Wednesday, February 15, 2023 2:00 PM
As I’ve mentioned here before, I’ve found a lot of similarities between (non-pro) OTC strippers and (non-pro) SA girls. IME they are less fixated on time, the sex is more natural and unscripted and neither type of girl views herself with a certain label. There are minor differences too, such as OTC strippers tend to talk a little less about their personal lives and often seem more relaxed in the earlier parts of the date than SA girls, but on the whole it shakes out to be a very similar experience, at least for me.
But one key difference I have found relates to disengagement. When the train pulls into the station, I find strippers to be much easier to disengage with. Just defer from scheduling something for a while and most get the hint without a word needing to be said. That of course assumes that she didn’t already come to the same conclusion and do the same to me first. They make their livings dealing with guys popping in and out of their lives, so they are more accustomed to it.
Some of these SA girls, OTOH, are a completely different kettle of fish. I’ve met up with a handful of girls from the site, two of which I saw regularly for a bit. But in each of the two longer-term cases stuff happened that led to a need to end it. It was definitely not like stripper disengagement, but more like a mini version of a civilian breakup. I ended up having to do the “it’s not you it’s me” type stuff. Seriously now.
I ended one in particular because things were getting a little too heavy. She was probably a little too close to age appropriate to being with (late 30s), but she was hot as hell. We had some great sex to be sure and other fun times out on the town, but I was straight with her from the beginning that I’m not the solution to anyone’s problems – these nights are supposed to be my getaways from a very busy and complicated life. But after a couple of months I guess that the message wasn’t sticking, so I had to hit EJECT. Anyway…
I really hope that I don’t stumble on the wrong SA chick someday and have her suddenly show up outside my house. Thank goodness I have an excuse not to host. Fuck.
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