"What are you getting for your special stripper?
Here is mine:"
So, by the last antecedent rule of grammar, that would mean that the link was shadow cat's favorite stripper.....hmmm.😜😂🤣
I asked a dancer once if she got Valentine's Day gifts from customers. She said that she did from some, and certainly didn't mind if it was a gift she could spend, etc. But she also thought it was a little weird (especially when there was a greeting card), because Valentine's Day is about romance, and that's not what her customer interactions were about.
That’s a very important clarification Ishmael. Dancers don’t get emotionally involved with customers - or at least not to the level some PL’s get involved with dancers.
I am not sure if it would be considered a credit to the dancer? As she’s created a facade that the customer seems to believe is a real relationship (with the emotions experienced in a real relationship). Or if it’s a desire on the part of the customer to believe the strip club experience is more than a financial transaction?
It's another one of those days where you might get a gift for a long time ATF, along with her birthday and Christmas. Doing all three can add up though. I've typically done gift cards, or some extra cash. For V-day there is no illusion of romance on either side, just a reminder that they are special. She got me something last year too, or rather, agreed to do something special.
I only got a Valentine's gift one time and that was for a long time ATF. She seemed happy but who knows how much of that was acting. I would normally feel a little uncomfortable giving a Valentine's Day gift to someone who didn't fall into that ATF category, so I don't do it. The holiday is connected to romance. I don't see my regulars as girlfriends. At the same time, I don't see it as strictly a business relationship because in addition to going to buy the lap dances I'm also going to see the girl selling me the lap dances. It's like going to the restaurant where you talk and joke around with the cute waitress while she's waiting on you.
Years ago I went to a club not realizing it was Valentines Day. A day shift girl asked if I wanted to be her Valentine for 30 minutes in VIP. She said on Valentines Day she got the "pick where you stick your dick". Two outta three ain't bad.
I bought my AtF, aka my wife a two hour massage. My masseuse was the hottest woman I have ever seen. Nothing sexier than a cut off t-shirt on a beautiful woman.
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