How much cash do you carry?
gotoguy
Florida
Even in the main room where it is brighter, I’ll admit to having once given a dancer a stage tip of $50 instead of a $5. Dancers think I’m a fumbling old man, and unfortunately they are correct.
More recently, I’ve tried to reduce the need to ever use my wallet. I put a stack of low denominations in my left pocket for tipping, with larger bills in my right pocket for dances. I still carry a wallet to replenish both pockets. Covers go in the shirt pocket.
I usually expect to spend about 250 and carry about 500. I don't remember ever running out of cash, but i have often left clubs unsatisfied.
Has anyone solved the problem?
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I bring what I intend to spend, whether it's $200 or $1,000.
I used to like 50's at the club, but the ATM's near here all moved up to 100's so I don't carry them as much as I used to.
Me, too. And others. I remember one time when I was paying my tab, and I had a bunch of bills of assorted denominations in my pocket, so I used them. But before I handed them over to the bartender, I sorted them so they were all same side up and facing the same way. She was watching me do it, and I thought she was getting pissed because I was taking too long. But when I handed them over, she smiled and said "thanks for doing that."
$5, $10, $20s sorted in my wallet. $100s in separate section of wallet or sometimes will fold in half and place behind the $20s.
I too insist on presidents facing forward so I can verify denomination more quickly. I don't care if they are upside down though.
Got off my routine at least twice that I know of. Once tipped a $20 when it was intended to be $1. Once tipped a hostess $100 when it was intended to be a $20. Hostess asked me twice if I wanted change, knew my routine was $20, so situation was rectified and she earned an extra tip.
That said, I eventually made a standard-sized wallet for kicks. So, the biker wallet has become a club wallet.
You obviously don't need to make your own. There are good ones on Amazon and Etsy.
I have fucked up however a few times. just lately when I checked out of the hotel I put my deposit refund in my pocket with the singles because I was leaving Tijuana and later on when I stopped for coffee I went to tip the cute server a $1 bill forgetting that I still had the 20 and a five in my singles pocket. after tipping her and pulling my hand away, I realized that I tipped her the 20. oh well...
at least it wasn't as bad as I did overtip a girl one time in lil darlings vegas three one hundred dollar bills thinking that I had tipped her three dollars. I wasn't watching what bills. I was tucking under her g-string but I found out later when I got to sapphire and realized I didn't have my $100 bills! (that was back when I first started clubbing 11 years ago.) on a later visit to that club, the girl
saw me and ran up and thanked me with kisses...
When clubbing I put singles in my left front pocket, fives in my right front pocket and twenties and hundreds in my wallet which has a divider that keeps them separate. I rarely carry any tens or fifties but if I do get them as change the tens would go in with the fives and fifties would go with the hundreds.
If I run out of little bills I break a hundred. If I want to let a dancer know I'm there to spend I'll pay for a round drinks with a hundred. If I want management to understand how to cater to my visit at a new club I'll pay the cover with a hundred. You get the point. And if I'm not sure how long I'll be in a club I'll keep other hundreds in reserve away from the rest. When I get into my backup cash (which doesn't happen often but for a reason when it does) then I'll start tracking the spend to make sure I close the deal on what I'm looking for. I'm usually only into backup cash for a VIP I didn't plan on or I want to throw more money at a new dancer in case I'd like to put her in the lineup.
When a dancer thinks you've shortchanged her because the stack is light, then realizes you paid in hundreds, that's an error in your favor.
I mostly hit $5/dance small-black-clubs in Miami; and at times the $25/dance mixed-clubs – so having smaller denominations helps – my M.O. is similar to others in that I’ll put smaller denominations ($1s/$5s) in my right-pocket and $20s in my left and that’s pretty-much-it – since I mostly hit low-cost-clubs, and I’m not a big VIP/extras guy; I’ve never taken $50s or $100s into the club.
I bank w/ Wells-Fargo and their ATMs as far as I can recall only dispense $20s and $50s – but many Wells Fargo branches near-me will have a separate ATM inside that will dispense $1s and $5s (in addition to $20s and $50s) and I often will use that inside-ATM for my small SCing-denominations (assuming I can hit a branch b/f closing time) – I once used a Chase Bank ATM near my house and noticed it had options for denominations smaller than $20s.
I'm seriously considering moving there. Not because of clubs. But your info on the city is the best I've seen online
I haven’t clubbed since late-2021 but traditionally the SoFlo/Miami clubs have been pretty-segregated – i.e. IME it’s rare to vey-rare to find a non-black-dancer in a black Miami/SoFlo club – and w.r.t. the “mixed” Miami clubs, IME most of them either have very-few or none (black-dancers) – i.e. the SoFlo mixed-clubs; especially the top/popular ones; IME are not the clubs if someone is looking for ebony-dancers.
I bring what I expect to spend. I separate my singles from my $5’s, $10’s and $20’s. I never bring anything above a $20, as it’s not helpful to bring those bigger bills.
I keep my cash separated by denomination. A wad of singles goes in my shirt pocket for tipping, and everything else is in my wallet. Like other OCD PLs, I line the bills up so they’re all oriented in the same direction, then I put them in my wallet so the *back* of the bills are facing me, and the *bottom* of the bills are most readily visible.
Why do I do this? When reaching for cash in a very dark club, whether on the main floor, in the lap dance area, or in a VIP, it’s easy to make mistakes, so now there’s a method to my OCD. With the exception of singles, there is a *very large number* in the lower right corner on the *back* of every U.S. bill – 5, 10, 20, etc. It’s easier to see this in the dark, and since that corner is now readily visible to me, I only have to pull out the corner of the bill to see what I’m pulling from the stack.
Back left pocket, ID and car key. I never bring a credit or debit card inside the club.