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17 years ago
I will try to be brief: NO! :)
There only a few people in my life whose opinion of me that matters to me, and strippers are just not them. LOL!
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17 years ago
Those who wanted my business, called me by my name, both of my ATF did not. I brought the issue up, but it did not seem to help (must have not been the sharpest tools in the shed). Didn't care, it was all good.
Most of the compliments were in reference to my appearance, clothing, and perfume. On one occasion, I was complimented on my Mr. Happy, the best SS ever!
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17 years ago
Wise-up
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17 years ago
Marry X-mas, Fondl! My friends have actually asked me to join them in SC escapade tonight, and though my wife told me that she would not mind me going (imagine that!!), I opted out, and I am having great time with my lovely wife and two children. Lots of good things have happened in the last months which is not a topic for TUSCL discussion...
I have started going to SC exactly a year ago, and it has started by me joining these same guys, and ending up in the club where I have met my future Miss ATF, and my future second ATF. You might remember the hell that I went through falling in love, etc. Taking little time off of SClubbing right now. Life is just too full of surprises, isn't it?
MARRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL YOU TUSCLERS!
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17 years ago
Both of my ATFs (Doug, first is one no longer dances and I do not keep in touch with her - too much luggage, second one is the one I referred to)come from dysfunctional families where one has step dad and half brothers, and the second one has her parents separated. Thus, I do think that the reason girls go into stripping, besides the money, has to do with mental / sexual / physical abuse. Unfortunately, many of them perpetuate the misery having and raising the children on their own and subjecting them to the same abuse that they went through as children / teens.
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17 years ago
In my experience age was not a factor. I had equally great experience with my first ATF who was 23 as well as my current ATF who is 33. The older one allow for more general contact while the younger one and I DFK'ed. It may be due to my age. I just turned 37. I am sure my preference will change as I get older :)
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17 years ago
MIDancer, what is your favorite perfume of the moment? (since this thread had gone off the topic, so is my question :)
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17 years ago
Fondl,
MEGA DITTOS.
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17 years ago
"Dos" = what is actually happening in reality. In this case it is your believe that the dancers have no ethical obligations.
So, Jab, Obligations (1-11, "personal biases") or not Obligations "imo, its better that way (that the dancers, in reality, have no ethical obligations). What exactly are you arguing here for?
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17 years ago
Let me summarize the argument above. "Should haves" 1-11, "Dos": "For the most part I don't think dancers have any ethical obligations", "Should have" again: "and it is [no obligations], imo, better that way."
So, what are you saying? Obligations or no obligations?
Just a little help to keep your writing "on" (as opposed to "off") :)
BTW, thank you for giving my question to David in the thread "SC and the changing role of women" a life of a dedicated thread! :)
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17 years ago
MIDancer,
would you call your best tipping customers greedy for they have money? Would you call yourself greedy for not taking minimum wage job?
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17 years ago
David,
thanks for your reply.
In my profession, it is my job to educate the customer about the products and services my company has to offer, thus, managing the customer's expectation. In your opinion, does a dancer has any level of responsibility to her customer in that regard?
It seems that for every mistake a cutomers can make (jealousy, falling in love, etc) it is always a customer's fault. I was told by a dancer that everyone (customers) has to find out "how it works" on its own.
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17 years ago
I wonder, if we are to make the discussion relative to SCs, if there is a data out there that compares income levels of male and female dancers, just like it does in other areas of labor force. Silly? Self-evident? Perhaps. But closer to the topic.
BTW, half of my life I lived in one of those countries mentioned by David, and if you have not, you have no idea ...that's why I am here :)
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17 years ago
Fondl, as a former GAD victim (took me five years of non-stop search), I know what are you talking about, though I overcame my challenge before I met my ATF. - Congratz!
Bones - ditto, gotta go back to tanning salon though and God help me to keep my six pack visible over the holidays, LOL
David, if you would be willing to elaborate on point #2 (email me?), I'd appreciate it. I am still try to figure that one out...
Numnutz, you ATF being a nurse thing sounds HOT! :)
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17 years ago
Thanks for the link, what is your favorite? Mine is "Closer". What a hot chick she is, ouch!
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17 years ago
Look who is complaining! You are now getting it for free on the SC parking lot, you lucky %^&*$#%*&^%!!! LOL.
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17 years ago
"Societies may change, human nature does not." - Professor, 2007.
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17 years ago
Bones, are you there?
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17 years ago
Haha, good story. How did you know I was black, LOL?..
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17 years ago
David,
it always puzzles me that some clubs may have 10 girls working one shift and almost no customers present. Forget about girls, but how can the club survive with little to no customer patronage? While we may think that some clubs should close thier doors and the natural selection should take its course, those clubs are still open. There are got to be some other forces at play.
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17 years ago
In that case I must self-destruct immediately. It takes about 2 seconds of my planet's time, which translates roughly to 97 years here, on Earth :(
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17 years ago
Jablake, remember I told you not to disclose my true identity on TUSCL? Oh, you ruined it! The signal has been sent and you might be abducted: they always need fresh test material. You might be able to bribe them by buying a few $5 LDs... :)
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17 years ago
"Back when I was young the dancers were so much better!!! Ah, those were the days...", LOL
http://www.archive.org/details/stripper_famous_dancers
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17 years ago
No.2: Put the measuring tape the f*ck down and stop laughing already!!!
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17 years ago
Fondl, thank you for clarification, now I am caught up with the rest of the gang. And I am not going to ask you a stupid question like: " ...then why are you still looking for a quality dancer in SCs?" No, I am not asking that question :), LOL
Bones, the only standard I expect for you to have is the ability to recognize that "she is a she". I would hate for you to go through "Crying Games" experience... just kidding ! :)