Comments by snakeguy

exactly, also the girls and the club don't get as many patrons so they have to make the ones they do get count. I feel sorry for them because they just want to earn a living, while the right wing Religious nuts keep trying to legislate them out of business.

Glad for the intel, just go in today was going to check it out, now I know to avoid the place. Too ad used to be a great place.

Your experience is not uncommon, If this is your first time you are doing great. Don't let it get you down. Anyone who has spent much time in a strip club has had this happen to them. I never take it personally, as it really does not surprise me any longer. I still occasionally exchange contact information because sometimes you strike gold. But to do that you will interact with a lot of hustlers like the one you describe.

Always remember that these girls are professionals at getting money from customers any way they can. The majority of them only see you as a life support system for a wallet. Please note I am saying most but not all, as I am sure there are exceptions. Look at it as a game, you want to get as much as you can for as cheaply as you can, while they want to get as much as they can, for as little as they have to do. You seem to have that figured out and are avoiding this girl, I wouldn't be too disappointed, there are plenty of other strippers if you have the cash.

LOL, I think I will pass, but I am sure she appeals to some guys.

I usually only have one in each city or area I travel to frequently.

I always am hesitant to kiss or suck breasts unless it is early and I am the first one to get a dance, I always wonder how many other guys has she been kissing and let suck her nipples. The quality of the dance for me is always how much she is willing to let me touch her, and if she is just going through the motions and staring off into space looking bored, or if she is a good enough actress to make me think she is is having some fun.

"I was told that the new owners owned another club closer to Philadelphia in a similar area and ran it into the ground. I was also told they are currently running two other clubs in Philadelphia." Anytime a new owner takes over any business and makes changes it tends to annoy some people. The statement I quoted above is probably hear say and I wouldn't consider it to be that reliable. I believe that they make a lot of money from Dancer fees, there are places that do not sell alcohol and they survive off of cover, mixers and dancer fees. I do understand that sometimes a club atmosphere changes dramatically when it is taken over by a new owner, but for everyone that likes it less, there will be some that like it more. There are several clubs I have seen change ownership, some I liked better, some I chose to avoid, it will eventually settle down.

You just have to decide if the sex is worth the hassle and embarrassment.

I had a neck licker, it was new, and interesting, but I needed atowel in the mens room after.

These kind of "relationships" are always somewhat temporary, I am sure there are many other dancers who would appreciate getting to know you. That is in fact one of the advantages to strip clubs, you get variety. Move on and don't take it personally.

1 we weren't sitting that close 2 It didn't get really bad until I was literally having my face ground between her breasts (c cups) 3 I have allergies and my head was stuffed up She is very attractive, what if I brought her some perfume and asked her to wear it? Don't strippers have classes on freshening up?

You are absolutely correct, A apologize and will try and rectify the problem. I have only been to this midnight express once.

Best Club in Nashville? There are only two clubs left in Nashville.

Sugarslover- yeah right, remember what it was like? There were so many hot girls you had trouble making up your mind.

good points, Dancers are salesman of a sort and have to promote themselves without being too pushy.

LOL the deep voice comment was a giveaway, and I was waiting for the, "that was a guy" Remark. Great Story!

I would have bailed long before you did, criminal boyfriends, felons, Narcotics, too much drama for me. Sounds to me like you wanted to save her. I hope you weren't barebacking her through all of this. People with destructive lifestyles usually have those lifestyles for a reason. Basically they make bad choices, and then they are left to deal with the consequences. I do not think this young lady will ever get her shit together, it is very sad, but probably true. For $200 K, I am sure you can find a more stable mistress, and one just as talented and freaky, and beautiful, just give yourself a chance.

Im curious < i understand you don't do extras, and I respect that, do you turn in your co-workers that choose to do extras? In other words if everyone is willing to let you have the freedom to not do extras, do you allow them the freedom to do extras? Or do you have a double standard, meaning if you don't do extras no one can, and if they do I will turn them in. I am from Texas and I have seen both types of clubs.