Am I right to be kind of offended?
Monday, August 19, 2013 3:54 PM
I haven't been on TUSCL in a long time (looks like things haven't changed, btw - not sure if that's a good or a bad thing! lol). I also haven't been clubbing in about half a year because I've been busy taking care of work and life and everything, but things are starting to clear up and I have some cash to spare, so I shot a text to a dancer I had been seeing fairly often for about two years before things started getting so hectic. She let me know that she's now in a relationship so she won't be providing the same services she used to, and that one of her friends (who I used to also get extras from who was quickly on her way to becoming my ATF) is now engaged so she won't get me in touch with her (I had seen her several times but never got her number).
They moved clubs, and, when I prompted about where they had gone to so I could at least see them again, she responded that the club they had moved to now was "clean" and that she'd prefer not to tell me which club so that it would stay that way. Not wanting to blow it up, I simply wished her well and cleaned the contact off my list.
Now, I don't consider myself a particularly unsavory person. I go to clubs for the same reasons many TUSCLers go to clubs, but I keep well groomed, dress well, tip well and am very courteous. I know it probably wasn't her intention, but the implication there was that by inviting me to her new club, I would somehow turn it into some brothel which is I guess what they were trying to escape. But as a long-time loyal customer, I don't even get the damn courtesy of knowing where they are so I can stop by and say hi? Not because I want extras, but because I genuinely want to see them?
Seems kind of fucked up in my opinion. Am I overreacting here or am I justified in being kind of upset by this?
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