Comments by looker123 (page 3)

I think I agree with bobbyl, with one exception. Limits are established right up front with dancers. The exception being that VERY rare case of when a you and a dancer develop a real personal relationship. I am in that now situation now and find that while in club things don't change outside is a whole different story!

My first response might have been that it doesn't matter but then I started thinking about reality. Being a late comer to the this hobby I think that I may be wrong. If I look back at any favs I have had, older (at least in the context of this discussion, maybe 28 and older) is my preference. I really enjoy a little attention from the young girls, but if I look at my favorites they have all been older. My current is mid 30's, I think I relate better, making the longer term "relationships" more likely and rewording.

If I show up in the shirt and tie I normally have on for work, sometimes I get a little more, at the clubs I don't frequent at least. I agree with Chandler and lopaw, quite getting so tied up in details and just enjoy the time you have at the clubs. The girls will have condoms (if they don't you might not want to go there!!) and as long as your clean and personable you are all set.

I have to agree with Chandler on this one. Never forget that its a JOB for her and an out of control(sometimes) fantasy for us. I spend all day going out of my way for customers, but in view of what really matters in my life in the long run wouldn't give some of them a second thought. Its really the same in any profession, the problem is there is "WAY" more emotion when it comes to this hobby!!!!!!!!!

I keep a change of cloths available to change into afterwards so the SO doesn't get a whiff of the club. I have used spilled gas ploy in an emergency. Some of the above outlined preperations seem to complex to make it worth the effort!!

"did you know the IRS is considering requiring that employees include in-office coffee as a benefit on their tax returns?" Now that sounds about as enforcable as e-mail postage or a tax on LDs!!

MIDancer, Sorry to be a latecomer to this thread but it seems to me that the guy is just an as!&^le. I in this field you need to just let them go and knwo that you are what you want to be and can't possibly please everyone!

I usually set aside $300 for a night. I only work in cash, I have a strict policy on never using a CC in the club although on very rare occasion I have gone out to find an ATM. Lately I have been spending less as my ATF has gotten a little uncomfortable doing VIP ITC with me. I always make sure she isn't loosing money siting with me though!! OTC is free however and she is threatening to get a "real job", that would really save me some cash. I will say that I live and usually do my mongering in a small city/tural environment, the occational trips to Manhatten don't seem to work within this budget.

This really sums up the lessons from my last 10 years :) Very Funny!!!!!!!!!!

Just a thought, but I find most of my friends are people I have spent time with because of work. How does that work into the idea of time for money?????

I generally prefer small to moderate, firm all natural, although my current atf has one of the best set of enhanced tits I've ever had my hands on, maybe I'm becomming a convert!!

"I don't normally do this but I trust you." = shut up or the club will get busted and we'll all be screwed. Just another interpretation!!

One of the girls at my favorite club recently mentioned that she had taken a day job, retail, and that working 5 days didn't add up to the 2 nights she kept at the club.

At my normal stop they normally redress after coming off stage. Once in a while one will not, ut I think I prefer that they do. Maybe I like the idea that when the cloths come off again it's for me ;) And as was stated above it is a little classier!

Spinner: "Small, thin girl, that if positioned on a "pivot", one could spin her like the propeller of a plane."

I would think that if the whole mood thing is needed then this is a little more than a purely paid encounter. That being the case the whole who takes their pants off first is not relevent. If its just sex for money skip all the fancy stuff, or just get a real escort and dont worry so much. If its more make it a date and take the girl out and show her a good time. <br /> <br /> As far as meeting girls from the clubs OTC I have spent enough time with them inside the club to have a pretty good idea if we are going to get along before we do the OTC date. If you are looking for quick and out a dancer is the worst way to go, they have all the street smarts of an escort but lack the commitment.