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17 years ago
I really don't know anything about the strip clubs in the Triangle area. I saw hot girls everywhere I went back then. If I wanted to see girls in bikinis, I just had to look out the window in the summertime. I remember a few times when I moved off campus, one girl decided to lay out right under my patio window. She said she hoped I didn't mind since the sun was better next to my window. I didn't.
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17 years ago
You don't have to explain $30 dances to me. I have been refusing to get two lap dances for $40 for years. I've made 2 exceptions in the last 7 or 8 years. I usually only pay in the range of 2 for 20 or 2 for 25 or 2 for 30. That's an average price of 10 to 15 dollars per dance. I tend to get multiple dances from multiple dancers and I think if I end up spending $60 up to $100 on a single dancer, she'll be happy. However I don't bother with any dances if the dancer charges high prices to start with. And some dancers wonder why some dancers don't charge that much. By the time the high priced dancer is done talking someone into maybe getting one dance after getting turned down by a few others, the dancer charging less has already made a bunch of money. And if she's nice and tells the customer when a song set is over with and asks if he would like two more at the same price, she may just have a regular on her hands which is almost like getting automatic dances if he wants some.
Sorry for the rant, I guess I'm talking alot now.
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17 years ago
I enjoy seeing nude dancers onstage. I think money is a factor here. I think what some dancers do on stage is teasing as well. The lap dances in some clubs aren't much different than what you see at the stage. It just costs 20 to 40 times as much. Maybe you should just call him smart.
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17 years ago
I used Firefox for years. In the last few months they had an update problem that didn't work with my pc. I stopped using them and returned back to IE. I don't know if they fixed the problem yet but haven't bothered with finding out.
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17 years ago
I like some variety. However most people have time and money constraints. If you found something you like, enjoy it while it lasts. PP in Columbia is not my favorite club for a weekend night. I enjoy the same prices or close to the same at a sister club. One girl does charge me two for 20 but I know her a little bit better than most. My other favorites charge me no more than 2 for $30 and one likes to start on a song that she doesn't count. I don't have to hunt around for a seat since the club must have enough seats for a large army compared to a small classroom as the club in Columbia is. Some of the girls in Columbia can be a bit more wild but not that much when the club is crowded. I also have two other clubs I enjoy in the area so my favorite clubs are different. If I had the afternoon off, I could imagine shadowcat's favorite club could be mine as well as it once was several years ago.
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17 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
I think there's a club in Wellford that had a metal wand or detector. They were checking for cell phones and cameras. One time the nice looking girl at the front patted me down. I actually liked that. Usually there was a guy there.
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17 years ago
stripper shit - telling you one thing and acting interested, then doing something else to the contrary, then turning right around when they see you again and giving an excuse, acting like they are still interested. Giving guys the run around and giving excuses. The reason I told myself I wasn't going to go out with or ask any dancers out. I did that for years until I met a dancer who said she knew me and didn't give me any stripper shit. I had forgotten what stripper shit was. A dancer I know now, has brought back my memories by not returning my phone calls the last couple of weeks. I'm tired of that crap even though I didn't really feel like talking to her one week. I might still go out with her one time just for fun (not sex) if she does actually call (she used to promptly return all phone calls). However she'll have to more strongly persuade me to go out with her again since I'm alot less likely to bother her since she seems so busy. I remember one girl in college was the same way, started ignoring me after I agreed to go out with her (I was wondering if she thought that was like playing hard to get after she already agreed to go out). I called that date off after I got ticked off at her ignoring me. End of our relationship.
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17 years ago
I heard the same thing from some other guys many years ago. They didn't want to bother going to a strip club and just get teased. I wouldn't want to bother explaining everything to them either that in some clubs, the teasing is about the same as you could expect in some regular bars or more in some other clubs. I guess for them, they only want to go places where they feel they have a definite shot at going out with every girl in the place and won't get teased or flirted with by any girl who doesn't want to go out with them.
I'm not sure who you were referring to as rarely getting lap dances at a nude club but I'm in the same boat there. The lap dance prices are much higher than other clubs down the road and you aren't allowed to do as much touching if any. Why bother in that case? I do try to limit my spending since I'm not Donald Trump. Some of the girls working at the local nude club are like ewww, how she'd get a job here? Any girl who looks very obese not just fat, or very gross and I wouldn't go near them on the street let alone in a strip club, yet there they are in a club. I guess they think they can make more than at Walmart. I think they are wrong and they find out hopefully sooner rather than later. Made me want to leave but some good looking girls got on stage first.
I think the guys who used to say they don't like to be teased don't want girls flirting with them unless they can get it on with them. Meanwhile last night, I was teased with a number of girls showing me their pussy, then I was teased with some girls rubbing up against me so close that I could have been poked by a nipple in the eye. I was sitting in my chair and along came a sexy dancer who decided she wanted to do a little bump and grind against my shoulder. Then at another club, I met a few more sexy dancers who really liked to tease me, I just hung onto the handrails so I don't get knocked over by all that teasing. I really do not care for the teasing that includes a tongue in the ear. I can think of a better place for that tongue but I probably need to go out with them for that. :)
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17 years ago
When do you expect that to show up on the news? Did I already miss it?
I remember in college I kept seeing myself in the background on a few occasions when they were reporting on some news on campus. I just happened to be there. I don't mind as much just happening to be there. I just don't want to ever be the news.
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17 years ago
I once lived in the area but never thought about visiting a strip club back then. I probably would read the club reviews for Raleigh, NC and the surrounding areas. I remember several years I once thought about visiting the Dollhouse if that was the correct name. I think Pure Gold had some very nice looking dancers and I thought they had a branch up near Cary. I'm not sure. I did meet a dancer but that was at a frat party I went to.
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17 years ago
Some of those words might come in handy if you want to sound like you have a serious illness. I never heard them before and I doubt too many others have either. Just wouldn't want someone looking it up on the internet if you called in sick and told your boss that your doctor said you were suffering from ALTOCALCIPHILIA or one of the others. :)
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17 years ago
I believe I like pretty blonde girls of European descent. However any girl who looks pretty to me sounds like a good candidate for a dance.
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17 years ago
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popCleverly disguised as a responsible adult
I remember when I was in my late 20's or early 30's if a dancer wanted to see me outside the strip club environment for whatever reason, it didn't seem that unusual. I remember meeting one very pretty dancer in one club and she invited me to a party she was going to. I declined since I didn't know her and didn't know what I would be getting into. I don't remember if I was seeing a different dancer at that time. I do remember another dancer who invited me out to eat and then I dropped her off at her townhouse. Apparently she had been hitching a ride because I was surprised to find out she wanted to leave with me. She said it was nice to meet someone in her own age group. She was a year or two older than me at that time. She didn't invite me out the first night I saw her but I could definitely tell the first time she saw me that she liked me.
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17 years ago
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popCleverly disguised as a responsible adult
I didn't see anything that seemed too unusual except for the beds. I'm not familiar with clubs with beds. I'm used to sofas. I'm not used to dancers wanting to do nothing but talk either. Well there were a few times when that happened but I was in the strip club where there are bouncers and rules. I'll give it a 50/50 chance it was true. It would be higher probability but the age difference makes me doubt it less. If it did happen, this sort of thing doesn't happen too often to an individual. If he ended up spending a bunch of money on her with dances in the club, then tips, then drinks, then food, she may have come out pretty good. All he got was a kiss OTC. That part seems believable. Perhaps I give it a higher chance because I've encountered a few dancers who I knew liked me as soon as they saw me. However even if I was hanging out with them later on, I never even suggested the word date and neither did the dancers. Stating that it seems like we're on a date makes it sound more like a fantasy rather than an actual true event.
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17 years ago
Now if you throw Korean girls into the mix, I just think they look ok. However it seems like they are especially aggressive. They seem to get several times more aggressive if you didn't get away from them the first time. I remember several years ago, I didn't know of a single Korean massage parlor I could walk past without 2 or 3 girls grabbing me and trying to pull me inside. I remember trying to avoid them to go visit a nearby strip club. They spotted me and actually ran across a busy street and across a large parking lot to grab me. With one girl pulling on each arm, you would have to fight them to escape. Korean dancers were less aggressive I think.
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17 years ago
I think I encountered either an Asian dancer or one that has that as her ancestry the other night. When I tipped her, she asked me if I wanted a dance. Instead of my normal answer, I said I was waiting for the two for one. I think she thought the announced two for one. She just said ok. She must have watched me walk all across a very large club because she almost beat one of my favorites to my table. Saved by about 2 seconds. She didn't look that bad but I was just curious how much she charged etc. before actually considering a dance. I didn't want to talk that long to her while she was on stage either.
There was one girl used to be on Tech TV who I believe may have Asian ancestry if not from Asia. Now I believe she's working on CNN. I think her name is Erica Hill. At one time I thought maybe she had Asian ancestry but now I'm not sure. She looks great but I can't pinpoint what is different about her. Maybe she's not Asian at all. That's just what I thought when I first saw her though.
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17 years ago
Actually telling a dancer you are out of money doesn't always work either. It does work on most. I've had a few dancers tell me they thought I was lieing. They did leave though but were watching me I thought. I remember one dancer told me she didn't care and plopped herself down beside me anyway. I tend not to use that line too much so the dancers will believe me most of the time when I do use it. If the dancer sees you go get a dance right after you tell her this. She won't believe you anymore. Does work on all new dancers and is usually pretty effective. I would advise not to get dances afterwards in case you are being watched. The other thing you may run into with that line is the dancer telling you, "let me show you where the ATM machine is."
Actually I remember at least 2 times a dancer wasn't concerned about money. One time it was a new dancer who just came up and said wanna dance? She didn't stay and talk for too long though so I think she must have been fibbing. I don't know what was wrong with the other dancer. She was really determined to get me alone with her. I did not like getting my chair pulled 50 ft across the club (had wheels on it) before getting it stopped. She wasn't my type and I wasn't very attracted to her.
I did like one dancer who liked to just sit in my lap for 30 to 40 minutes at a time. She also talked me into giving her back rubs on occasion. The best way to avoid other dancers is to have a dancer you know already sitting on your lap. Unless she has friends but they just visit and chat with her usually.
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17 years ago
How appropiate, a big storm struck where I was at that night, and then within a mile of the area I went to afterwards and now I have one here. I think I'm being followed, lol.
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17 years ago
I just thought about this today but I'm probably going to remember the dancer who started to get me a bit ticked off now. I'm not upset at all at her now but I still remember her pretty good.
I saw on the national news perhaps last week some evidence that memory is linked to adrenaline. Some doctor or researcher was doing experiments to help people forget traumatic past memories. It worked. Seemed like a big discovery to me but I heard some in our government were trying to block it. Apparently if you get a shot of adrenaline immediately after something happens, you remember it. That explains why we remember so well a number of different events in our lives. It also means I will probably remember the times when a dancer got me upset since I probably had a release of adrenaline if she got me upset enough. For any war veterans who may have happened to read this and am wondering what I am talking about. It could help with Post Traumatic Stress I believe.
For the curious a quote talking about what I was above
" effect, said McGaugh, is not unlike what propranolol does biochemically and it fits neatly into what's known about how PTSD can progressively worsen with each recurrence of the traumatic memory.
" The substance I heard about was propranolol and to lessen the memory the subject had to be thinking about it when the propranol was given to them. Found this on http://www.cognitiveliberty.org/neuro/memory_drugs_sd.html
after searching for something on what I heard on the news. I heard it's controversial but I think that's simply because a number of doctors don't understand it yet.
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17 years ago
I remember on one night a dancer stopping by on her way back to Ohio asked to sit at my table. I had just been approached by two very annoying dancers so my mood wasn't as good. I immediately told her I didn't want any dances when she asked to sit at my table. She started to look upset when she said she didn't ask that. She calmed down and started talking to me. The last group of guys she asked told her when she simply asked to sit at their table "go away bitch, we don't want any fucking dances!" This dancer looked nice. I told her two very annoying dancers were going around putting a lot of the guys in a bad mood.
It would be nice if everyone was polite and didn't want to argue etc. etc. but I guess that's the nature of the business in the bigger clubs with a lot of constantly changing dancers and customers.
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17 years ago
Some of the time I will say whatever I think of to get rid of a dancer especially since I've run into a number of more aggressive dancers who sometimes refuse to take no for an answer. A casual "maybe later" seems to clue in the smarter dancers that I'm not interested even though I seem to have the same dancers sometimes making another run at me. It would be nice if all it took was a "no thanks" and the dancer left. I can't seem to get past a certain number of dancers with that approach with at least one dancer stopping to question me and ask a bunch more questions. After a while that gets irritating. I've had a few dancers that did just want to sit and talk with me. The other night in a busy club, I told a number of dancers when they asked to sit with me "that's fine if you want to, however I'm not interested in any dances right now." That worked pretty good at the club I was at. It was busy and I left before it wasn't.
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17 years ago
Any sexy and unique name is a good name. I just don't care for stripper names that sound like a car or some drug. That doesn't seem sexy to me. And I'm glad most dancers aren't upset when I have trouble remembering their name. I'll remember the names of dancers I go out with but if I just met a dancer or just see her around a club, I may have forgotten her name.
I encountered a waitress the other night who used to dance for me. She asked if I remembered her and I said "oh yes, I remember you." There was a good reason for that. However I did not remember her name. When she told me without asking if I knew it, I suddenly remembered. She is using the same name now as she was when dancing so it may be her real name. Maybe I'll ask her why she isn't dancing anymore.
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17 years ago
Nothing's wrong. I just wondered how it looked. After thinking about it, I think it's better to be there than to be watching it happen. I better be careful what I wish for. If everybody else had been busy trying to tip the girl on stage, I probably wouldn't have two dancers spending extra time playing with me. It seems like a lot of people have been just sitting around instead of doing too much tipping the last couple of weeks. I don't know if that's a local trend or not.
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17 years ago
I've heard "why not?" several times as well. The truth works in some cases. Other times there's a lot more to it and it gets more complicated. For instance if you tell the dancer one thing and she says she you can do that here when you've never thought you could before. You start thinking she's a liar or trying to pull a fast one. Other times it's just she's not my type or she's ugly, or in a few cases I didn't even get a chance to get a good look at her. However the girls who approach from behind almost never bother to stay and ask questions.
As far as "I'm not pretty enough for you?" I have answered yes to that. It didn't seem to be the answer she wanted.
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17 years ago
I did say NO. NO Thanks. Maybe later. I mean she stayed beside me not for 10 seconds but 15 to 20 minutes after I turned her down. I remember I was waiting for a decent dancer to get on stage and get naked so I could go tip her. Well I actually was waiting for her to leave but she didn't. Now that I think about when this happens, the club usually isn't crowded.
I think the last dancer that was that persistent I encountered at the Greenville PP club a few years ago. I thought the average girl on the street looked better than her. After a few visits and lots of aggravation, she offered free dances. After saying no to that, she offered to take me home. When I said no to that, she got the message and never bothered me again.