Ever get ticked off at a dancer because she won't leave you alone?
I encountered a dancer tonight, probably didn't help that it was early or around 10 PM and a group of guys left leaving only 4 other guys available in the club at that moment. There were alot more dancers than guys in the club at that moment. Anyway this one dancer sat beside me and kept insisting I get a two for one dance from her. I didn't want to. After I don't know how long, 10 to 20 minutes of no thanks, not right now, maybe later, I had to keep going and going of why I didn't want to get dances from her. Then eventually she started saying things that started to tick me off. I'm not sure if she even knew at first that was what she was doing.
Why do some dancers just want to argue with a customer? I finally ended the situation by saying I was going to tip a dancer (and not coming back if she was still there). She left my table after that. Maybe she was new. Kind of hard to get into a conversation when all she wanted to do was argue. Oh get this piece of news, the dancer told me "the dancers make their money by getting dances" Yeah, big news there. I just don't see how that many dancers make much money in that club. Maybe I'm too nice and should have bluntly told her something like "look bitch, I don't want your fucking dances." Any of you run into this situation?
The rest of my night went pretty good. However I still feel some of the residual anger that starting growing within me. Oh, as I was waiting for it to stop pouring down rain outside standing near the door, she spotted me and asked me for a dance again.
I should probably try to forget this experience. Instead think about going to tip a dancer at another club with very nice tits with another dancer who seemed pretty frisky with me. Tipping went like normal. Then I got sandwiched between the two dancers. The DJ announced "Hey look a sandwich." and I was the meat in the middle. That was fun. I was wondering how that looked from the side.
Another dancer in the club I got sandwiched came up to me, sat on my lap to start with and started acting frisky. Then she started to tell me how good I smelled. I was trying to figure that one out, I didn't put anything on. Maybe some other dancers rubbed off on me, maybe she liked my natural scent or something. I got two dances from her shortly afterwards.
Anyway, I feel better getting this rant out of my head. Anybody else ever have a problem getting rid of a dancer? I hate it when a dancer wants to argue excessively and won't leave me alone.
Why do some dancers just want to argue with a customer? I finally ended the situation by saying I was going to tip a dancer (and not coming back if she was still there). She left my table after that. Maybe she was new. Kind of hard to get into a conversation when all she wanted to do was argue. Oh get this piece of news, the dancer told me "the dancers make their money by getting dances" Yeah, big news there. I just don't see how that many dancers make much money in that club. Maybe I'm too nice and should have bluntly told her something like "look bitch, I don't want your fucking dances." Any of you run into this situation?
The rest of my night went pretty good. However I still feel some of the residual anger that starting growing within me. Oh, as I was waiting for it to stop pouring down rain outside standing near the door, she spotted me and asked me for a dance again.
I should probably try to forget this experience. Instead think about going to tip a dancer at another club with very nice tits with another dancer who seemed pretty frisky with me. Tipping went like normal. Then I got sandwiched between the two dancers. The DJ announced "Hey look a sandwich." and I was the meat in the middle. That was fun. I was wondering how that looked from the side.
Another dancer in the club I got sandwiched came up to me, sat on my lap to start with and started acting frisky. Then she started to tell me how good I smelled. I was trying to figure that one out, I didn't put anything on. Maybe some other dancers rubbed off on me, maybe she liked my natural scent or something. I got two dances from her shortly afterwards.
Anyway, I feel better getting this rant out of my head. Anybody else ever have a problem getting rid of a dancer? I hate it when a dancer wants to argue excessively and won't leave me alone.
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And if she tries to take a seat next to you, tell her sorry it's taken, that you're saving the seat for another girl. But your tone is as important as your choice of words. You need to sound confident that you know exactly what you want and it happens to be somebody else. All courteously matter of fact, neither belittling nor apologetic.
Although I'm being analytical about explaining this, I've never given it much thought. My reaction in these situations comes instinctively. I think the guys who have a problem with turning down strippers are the type who feel flattered that they're asked for a dance, even by a girl they don't want. Really, it's not romance, just commerce. Above all, there's no need to get angry about any of this. In fact, by getting emotional, you're giving in to her, agreeing to her terms. To the type of stripper who plays this angle, getting an angry reaction is more encouraging than a matter of fact no. Why encourage her?
Actually casualguy, I have been in many situations like that. They usually occur in the small clubs. I try and stay polite in declining dancers' offers, but sometimes they are just too stubborn and you have to tell them like it is, even if their feelings are hurt.
Memphis PP was one such club where the dancers were very aggressive on dayshift. That PP was infamous about the 2 girl team tagging of a customer.
Several times, I have just up and left a club do to the over-aggressiveness of dancers. Some of those type clubs should watch for that, because they're losing alcohol sales, and that's a big loss for the club!
"I see. How about a tip. Don't you LIKE naked tits?"
"No, thanks, not right now."
"I see. Well, what's wrong, you don't like me?"
"No, thank you. Nope."
"But don't you WANT a sexy lady to crawl all over you?"
"No thank you."
"Can I come back later? How about you buy me a drink?"
"No, thanks though."
"Is it my outfit? If you don't like my outfit, I'll take it off for you."
"Naw, really, no thanks."
"I don't get it. Why did you come in here then? If you don't want me, why are you in a strip club."
"Thanks but no thanks."
"Is it me? Do you find me unfriendly? Unattractive? Unappealing."
"Whatever. No thanks."
"I want to dance for you. Will you let me dance for you?"
"No. No, no, no. No thanks."
"I'm paying. I'll give you seven dances for free."
"No thank you. No thank you. No thank you."
"I'm not any uglier than any of the other girls but I'm also genuine and real, they're just fake."
"No. Thank. You."
I think the last dancer that was that persistent I encountered at the Greenville PP club a few years ago. I thought the average girl on the street looked better than her. After a few visits and lots of aggravation, she offered free dances. After saying no to that, she offered to take me home. When I said no to that, she got the message and never bothered me again.
I saw on the national news perhaps last week some evidence that memory is linked to adrenaline. Some doctor or researcher was doing experiments to help people forget traumatic past memories. It worked. Seemed like a big discovery to me but I heard some in our government were trying to block it. Apparently if you get a shot of adrenaline immediately after something happens, you remember it. That explains why we remember so well a number of different events in our lives. It also means I will probably remember the times when a dancer got me upset since I probably had a release of adrenaline if she got me upset enough. For any war veterans who may have happened to read this and am wondering what I am talking about. It could help with Post Traumatic Stress I believe.
For the curious a quote talking about what I was above
" effect, said McGaugh, is not unlike what propranolol does biochemically and it fits neatly into what's known about how PTSD can progressively worsen with each recurrence of the traumatic memory.
" The substance I heard about was propranolol and to lessen the memory the subject had to be thinking about it when the propranol was given to them. Found this on http://www.cognitiveliberty.org/neuro/me…
after searching for something on what I heard on the news. I heard it's controversial but I think that's simply because a number of doctors don't understand it yet.