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13 years ago
I spent many happy times in the VIP at Secrets with various girls, several years ago, Strawberry was the best. It was never an up scale place, but you could have lots of fun there. I never felt un safe but things could have changed by now.
Now im traped in Virginia for the next 6 months. I'd give anything to have a club like Secrets out here.
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13 years ago
Ya know... I'm all for gay rights and all that crap, and they should be able to marry any one they want. Serve in the military, Bla Bla Bla ... But, If a dude leads you on and things start to get intimate ... If a dude don't tell you he's a dude, right out a the gate ... It really ought to be justifiable homicide to just kill the guy. I mean what else could you do ???
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13 years ago
f_d
Just one point from your original post. "Ass-bouncing" is never a good move as far as I'm concerned in a lap dance.
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13 years ago
Play the music. Tell us who's dancing. And shut the fuck up.
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13 years ago
How the hell does prostitution come into this ??? This article doesn't even mention any touching going on, let alone take out or ITS (in the stand?). Has it come to the point where a titty flash is prostitution ??? These cops are ready to slap these poor girls with a perminent record for prostitution for poping a boob ???
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13 years ago
I will never understand this. You have a PHONE. You have a phone IN YOUR HAND. All you have to do is TALK. But you insist in going CROSS EYED pressing all these MICROSCOPIC buttons ???
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13 years ago
The best dances I've ever had were when the dancer enjoyed herself as much as I did. No matter how far it went or didn't, extras or not, the more she enjoyed it the more I did.
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13 years ago
These must be a couple of pretty sad clubs and some awfully sad lookin girls if they cant even make over minimum wage. Even if they put in a 40 hr week, which most girls don't, that's only $290. before taxes. Get a job at Wallmart, you don't have to be pretty and you don't have to take of your clothes.
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13 years ago
Yea, In the end it is all about the money. That's why they're there. But I don't think ALL of these girls are as mercenari as some would say. I think a lot of them do genuinely enjoy meeting a nice guy. These girls do have to deal with a lot of ass holes in their line of work and I would hope some of them appreciate meeting a guy who treats them right and isn't trying to get something for nothing.
To the OP. Dude, don't be afraid to have a good time. But if her mom suddenly needs an operation, or she needs money to have her car fixed it's time to find the next one. Or at least arrange something in a hotel room
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14 years ago
Awww, come on you guys. we're always bitching on here about how clueless these guys are, maybe this guy could take a hint.
tigerfan, Welcome. This is the place
Turn up the stage lights, put a gag on your DJ and turn down the music.
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14 years ago
The only clubs that I know of in Chicagoland where extras are a sure thing are on Melton Rd In Gary, IN. Check out the reviews for Honeys or Temptations. Haven't ben to either in a while, might not be your cup of tea, but more privacy than Arnie's
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14 years ago
No No NO NO NO NO NO. PLEEEASE NO. Booob jobs are for boobs!
I've seen too many girls with beautiful little breasts ruin them with those ... things. I actually prefer smaller perky breasts, though I'm starting to appreciate larger ones as long as they're full. Tits as big as your head actually turn me completely off. I'm not lookin for a dairy cow here. I guess they're getting better at it now, but they still look and feel fake. You might look good in clothes, but everyone who sees you naked will go, "oh a boob job". Sure if you got a pair of empty gym socks hangin there you gotta do sumpthin, but even a set of A cups if they're well formed are better than those ... things.
Tattoos? Ya don't paint a mustache on the Mona Lisa.
As for piercings. I guess I should be used to seeing them by now, but on first glance I can't help but go, "what the fuck is that on her face"???
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14 years ago
We're ALL Jimmy. Under the right or wrong circumstances, under the right or wrong conditions on the right or wrong night or day we're ALL Jimmy.
I know I am.
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14 years ago
I just think it's real simple. Say I have a simple mind but, I just think ... The More Guns There Are The More People Get Shot. I just don't think it's any more complicated than that. And yes, I think, the more guns there are, the more "bad guys" will have guns. I think you're much more likely to shoot your self or someone you know, by accident or on purpose, or your kids find your gun and shoot them selves or one of their little friends, or you, by accident or on purpose, than you ever are having to defend your self against anyone else with a gun. How often do you hear about some poor slob, lost his job or is getting a divorce, kills his kids his wife and sometimes the in laws, then himself. Dude, you feel you gotta do that start with yourself. I ALMOST never hear about some guy saving is wife and kids or anyone in a shoot out with the bad guys.
Frankly, the thought of someone "packin" in a bar or anywhere doesn't make me feel more comfortable ... at all. Call me unenlightened but, I don't know this guy, I don't know why he's there, I don't know whats in his head. I don't want to have to wonder or worry about these things when I'm out tryin to have a good time, just because this guy wants to play cowboy. All I know is he can take my LIFE, every thing I have and ever will have. Take me away form my family and anyone who cares about me, just about as easily as pointing his finger at me. You're gonna KILL someone you ought to have to at least get within arms length, you ought to at LEAST have to break a sweat. And no I don't want to have to carry a "piece" on me just to have to feel more comfortable around cowboy Bob.
I know a lot of guys who looove guns. more than one of them I wouldn't trust with a butter knife on some nights. Not because they're bad guys, just because they're not entirely very bright and they like to get way too drunk for their own good or anyone else's. When ever I get into this discussion with anyone I know, all I usually have to say to shut them up is "Jimmy owens a gun and its legal for him to carry it". How many of you guys know "Jimmy"??? And what if Jimmy comes packin for me some night? " Welll gosh Jimmy, juss juss leme git my gun so we can make this fair, juss a sec lemee get this thing loded first, ok". Life can be HARD. It's TOUGH some times. Some times it's REALLY tough. Shit HAPPENS to good people. People can make you MAD! REALLY MAD!!! It's WAY too easy to start spraying bullets around and the consequences far too great when there's a gun ... RIGHT THERE...
I don't have any facts or statistics or studies to back up anything I think. All I think I have is a little more common sense than a lot of people.
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14 years ago
At any rate the club this woman is talking about seems to be one to avoid at all costs. Air dances AND a tip stroll, PLUS dancers who think that's the way things should be??? Yeah right. I'm in a hurry to check this place out.
Ok, now I'm done.
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14 years ago
I'm gonna chime in here because this is one of my all time pet peeves. I've ben to a few places where they do "The Tip Stroll" after every set. A couple places in So. Florida come to mind. There better be some pretty hot women around for me to spend much time there.
There are very few things as annoying as trying to hold a conversation with some hotty while a bunch of women you didn't want to talk to in the first place and and never wanted to see dance are coming up to you every 6 minutes (3 min/song) going "can ah have ah dalla fo mah dance". NO! If I WANTED to tip you I'd have gone up to the "TIP RAIL"! I've even had them interrupt me while I was getting a table dance!?!
Presumably, in a club with low house fees and tip out, even the skankiest dancer in a crowded club can walk out with a couple hundred a night just on the tip stroll. How do we cull the herd? Where is the survival of the fittest, when some fatty with poor hygiene and no teeth can still make money?
Thank you all for listening, I'm done now.