Types of LDs?
fetish_dancer
Florida
What do you guys enjoy? Slow, aggressive, molasses-slow, pounding, etc, etc? My dances depend on the music that is being played. If a slow song is on, the customer in the VIP or on the floor with me is going to get a slow dance, lots of sensuous rubbing, gentle grinding. If the song is faster, I'll give a more quickly paced dance, more ass-bouncing, harder grinding, hair-tossing.
(this is related) Something I've noticed in reviews is that some guys seem to be really awed if a girl grinds on them or lets them touch her breasts, like that's some sort of super-HM magickal dance. If that's the case, then every club I've ever danced at must be super-HM because it's just something the dancers do. I don't allow touching where I'm covered, so I figure I'll give him a good grind and lots of two way touching on the uncovered places to make up for it. The only reason I can figure out that guys are floored by HM at higher-end clubs is because those places are notorious for air dances -- correct me if I'm wrong.
(this is related) Something I've noticed in reviews is that some guys seem to be really awed if a girl grinds on them or lets them touch her breasts, like that's some sort of super-HM magickal dance. If that's the case, then every club I've ever danced at must be super-HM because it's just something the dancers do. I don't allow touching where I'm covered, so I figure I'll give him a good grind and lots of two way touching on the uncovered places to make up for it. The only reason I can figure out that guys are floored by HM at higher-end clubs is because those places are notorious for air dances -- correct me if I'm wrong.
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It depends on the individual club and/or state/county laws, but in some clubs, a lap dance which doesn't involve sitting on your hands IS high mileage.
I also enjoy seasoned strippers with a well choreographed routine of dirty gymnastics that's cool to watch but impersonal, as well as plain old senual, passionate, simulated sex. Also keeping in rhythm with the music is a must.
that's why I sometimes ask the girl in front of me to play techno or Rammstein. Keeping a beat is something I do naturally, so if the song is good, I'll get really into the dance.
Rammstein, a dancer after my heart. First song I saw my ATF dance to, "Du Hast"!
Rock me slowly
Take it easy
Don't you know
I then instructed her to sit in my lap so that her back was to my chest. When she had done so, I instructed her to lean her head back onto my shoulder. I told her that if her customer wasn't already playing with her boobs, to grab his hands and put them there. To illustrate my point, I reached around and caressed her boobs, feeling her firmness, telling her to remain in this position a minute.
Next, I had her get up and then straddle my lap. I explained to her that this was the most important part. She needed to offer a nipple to his lips while she reached around and gently played with his hair, or caressed his neck, or rub his shoulders while leaning in and moaning softly in his ear. I then instructed her to sink to the floor, and rub the customer's thighs, then move her hand to his crotch."This is an important part of the dance. Climb up on him, place your feet on his thighs, and put your pussy in his face. Put your hand on top of my head to steady yourself. Now, make sure you keep your pussy a couple of inches from his face. Let him look at it, but don't push it against him.
And that's the ultimate lapper.
Just one point from your original post. "Ass-bouncing" is never a good move as far as I'm concerned in a lap dance.
As for the grinding, I whould say that slow and sensual is my favorite. I can't stand some grinds that are so rough that I swear that the dancer hates cocks and it literaly trying to break something. I also don't understand why some time it feels like the dancer it trying to rush thorugh the LD. Maybe I'd like more than one if I'm enjoying it (and then you'd make more money).
Also, I don't think it is necessarily that milage is lower at higher end clubs vs. lower end clubs. Local standars have a much larger impact. I've been to the same higher end chain in two different cities, and they were night and day as far as milage.
I tried to get her to leave then, but she needed to make bread. So I stuck around, and the next fourth minutes were the most miserable!! I saw her alone again and talked her into leaving but she wanted to wait a few more minutes and needed to pay the house fee. I said 'fine, but I can't take this I got to go!' So, I went to the grocery store in nice clothes, at 11:00 PM, reeking of whiskey, perfume and smoke, buying champagne, cherries and whipped cream!
I get home. She's there waiting. And I finally get to cum... earlier than I'm sure she wanted, but the next two times I did alright!
So, talk dirty, but don't bite off more than you can chew!
Thanks for the question and I like your approach F-D.
One is slow and sensual. Sometimes she leans in and moans softly in my ear. I just about blew a gasket the first time she did that.
Also, after a particular set of dances, I discovered I preferred to get dances from her as soon as she was ready from coming of the stage. I found that with her still warm from her stage dance, the sensation of sex was greatly enhanced for me.
The other's private dances are like awesome porn sex. She does some great things, and has never repeated any special move.
As for the music, at the two clubs I go to, the dancers pick the songs they dance to. Most(almost all) have different tastes in music than I do. However there is a dancer who is ok, but picks music that I love. If she is dancing on the nights I go in to see my first ATF, then I try to get dances from my ATF while the other dancer is up on stage. Getting a dance to The Rev, or The Cramps is great!
Generally, my I like to let my hands roam. However, I asked the first dancer I ever experienced what was cool, and she told me what she felt was acceptable in terms of touch. First part was to be respectful. The second part boiled down to not touching anything that the bikini covered.
Finally, I have no need to control the artist, and I would rather let the dance proceed the way she wants to do it. I trust my ATFs and I haven't been let down by either of them yet.
If you let me feel up your breasts, massage your back, stroke your neck, run my hands through your hair or, dare I say, stroke your clit lightly (or less lightly, if you'd like), I am that much more happy for it.
Bouncing up and down on me does nothing for me. And dancing in front of me without me being able to touch you means I'm paying to watch something I could see for free on the Internet.