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15 years ago
Dang, wallanon. That's not just "slutty," that's criminal...
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15 years ago
You are wise to remain unintimidated by the tactic you described, sexci. Good luck, and welcome!
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15 years ago
That's a great plan, motorhead.
Meanwhile, I think I'll start a different consulting business, advising customers how to get the most bang for the least buck. Everybody wins!
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15 years ago
Here's a possibility for "too slutty" -- She wants to get nasty with some _other_ guy...
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15 years ago
When she thanks me for being a perfect gentleman after I just came inside her, I don't worry that something went wrong.
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15 years ago
Exactly right, gatorfan. Well said.
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15 years ago
The gal in my example (Miss "Wanna Fuck?") was not just offering a line. When I replied in the affirmative, she took me to a darkened area of the club and rode me as if we were honeymooning.
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15 years ago
Nice smackdown, JJ.
I treat ladies as ladies, but I don't mind interacting with the occasional tramp. To me, "slut" is an inherently negative term, and I associate it with "skanky" women who look like they don't take good care of themselves. As an example, one dancer who introduced herself at our first-ever meeting by grabbing my crotch and asking "Wanna fuck?" was such a lovely and well-groomed gal that I never even thought of her as a "slut."
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15 years ago
I had a friendly relationship (casually dated, but never became intimate) with a lovely gal who also danced. I saw her once at her club, and she said she felt "naked" suddenly since I was there. "You _are_ naked, Sweetheart." "Yes, but these other guys don't mean anything to me." I took that as my cue to exit, but that made me feel kind of nice.
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15 years ago
MG, my "Equal Opportunity" v "Equal Outcome" explanation proved my point, and destroyed yours. Your reply indicates that you lack the basic understanding necessary to communicate on this topic. Peace.
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15 years ago
Actually, Steve, it was a personalized message; multiple messages. I quoted the payoff line unedited. Even if it were part of some Stripper Spam via text, that would be another indication of some desperation.
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15 years ago
T_Bro, that "payout" line is possibly true at some clubs, but is more likely just a ploy for more $.
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15 years ago
Are dancers more desperate? Hard to conclude, but here's some evidence. A dancer I've met only twice, who has provided ultimate mileage without request and at just-dance price, sent me a message asking me to return to her club. As this is anonymous, I'll share the text unedited: "My pussy is very wet and wants your big cock and my mouth wants to drink your milk umum."
I could not claim to inspire such expressions of desire in nearly-strangers as a matter of course, so some desperation may be out there.
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15 years ago
Dick Johnson is a double-phallic name.
As is Peter O'Toole, the renowned actor.
And Dr Darby wins the "best response" award for this thread...
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15 years ago
T_Bro be big-pimpin'...
j/k
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15 years ago
Yes, chandler, my post here was overly harsh. I suppose Watchman's slam of DJ ("Maybe next time don't be a douche") set me off...
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15 years ago
how: "Affirmative action is explicitly in opposition to equal opportunity."
MG: "No, it isn't...it is merely a means to the end of equal opportunity. Someday, it will be unnecessary, but that day has not yet come IMHO."
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how: Equal opportunity is the Beginning. Equal outcome is the End. (Relative to your expression "means to the end...") Trying to create equal outcome is chasing the wind, and is wrong for the government to be involved in, regardless. Ensuring equal opportunity is important and I can acknowledge the government's role in that. Affirmative Action in no way limits itself to ensuring equal opportunity, and in fact destroys equal opportunity--explicitly and deliberately.
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15 years ago
MG said, "Personally, I'd be more inclined to get the minors out of the strip clubs before I went after any of the 'happy endings' that are going on in any of the clubs or AMPs in RI."
For the record: MisterGuy and I agree! Good post, MG.
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15 years ago
Clubber asked, "So you are saying what is tendered makes the difference? I think we both know that when a man takes a woman out, sex is most always an expectation of his."
No, it's not so much "what is tendered" as the "directness" of the exchange. If you give a gal a present explicitly in exchange for a negotiated sex act, that is prostitution. But if you pay your girlfriend's phone bill (or even hand her the cash to pay that bill), when you two subsequently have sex, that does not equal prostitution.
Otherwise, all sex would be potentially labeled prostitution. That is as ridiculous as the hardcore-feminist claim "all sex is rape."
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15 years ago
Direct payment for sex = prostitution
Gratuities not obliging the recipient to repay with sexual favors = not prostitution, but consensual activity
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15 years ago
I missed him, too. And you, jj!
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15 years ago
Barney Frank can be as upset as he wants. He is among the top 5 contributors to the destruction of the housing market. He is a worse-than-worthless piece of trash.
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15 years ago
+1 to arbeeguy's comments 7/28/09
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15 years ago
First, JudyJudy, you need not worry if you are "the quality of girl they are looking for." The qualities you reveal here put you ahead of the pack in most meaningful ways.
Second, the attitude you got from those "young hardbodies" is unfortunately prevalent in many clubs. Many dancers take this approach: "You must fail, so that I may succeed." I avoid such people as much as possible.
Cheers!
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15 years ago
Some great ideas, gk, but #20 would certainly draw adverse attention to your club from the local LE, as someone would claim it is prostitution.