Anyone else like strip clubs for the atmosphere and don’t care about extras?

i agree, and don't have to get extras to have a good time.
but i sure as hell ain't gonna pass up the opportunity either. lulz.

There's room for both. One of my favorite SC's is a good place to get a cheap beer, chat with the dancers (and, if I'm not in the mood for a lapdance, I'm straight-up about it -- "I'm enjoying the conversation and a beer, and you're welcome to a drink as well. If a regular walks in the door and you've got to dip, it's cool, just let me know."). There are no extras there, not even the possibility of them as there's no VIP room, and the LD area is both small, not terribly private, and has cameras. However, for guys looking for extras, there's the appeal of having a chance to see what the girl looks like for real (as opposed to an old/Photoshopped/filtered photo on a website), to chat with her, and there's the thrill of doing something a little risky -- not that extras clubs have too much risk; that's why they're extras clubs, the VIP room is usually very, very private.

Sounds like you're more of the former and less of the latter. And that's cool; there's a lid for every pot, as they say.

The first 15 years or so that I went into strip clubs, I didn't know that extras existed. I always assumed it was an urban myth. I enjoyed myself just fine. I still will go to certain clubs where I know they are not available. I just go in with a different mindset. There are numerous ways to have a good time in a club.

Personal opinion, I think the EXTRAS OR BUST mentality comes from a vocal minority on this site. How many people are going to say “no” under the right (or wrong, lol) circumstances? Probably very very few. But otherwise, I’d say just enjoy your own entertainment however you wish and have fun 🙂

I only go for The Takeout (OTC), because is about making your life experiences better.

OTC with a DS with GFE and PSE, with NSA that we both walk away happy, believing it was a Fair Trade and a win win experience.

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Depends on my mood and the club.

If I go out desperate to bust a nut, I'm going to go to a different club than if I want to chill, get some dances and watch some sports. Same reason I wouldn't go out to McDonalds if I wanted a bone-in ribeye. Some clubs are versatile if I change my mind.

Extras are not necessarily a must-have for me; I usually do them on the spur-of-the-moment vs going to the club with that solely in mind (although sometimes extras *are* the main-reason I go to the club) – thus for me they are not a must-have as long as the dance-mileage is good; but I *do* like the option of having-extras for when the mood-strikes-me.

I’m currently 52, started clubbing at 30 – I never went to the club to “hang out” and talk like it was a date – when I started I mainly just wanted/liked having instant-access to hot-women that I could grope; I especially liked the variety-aspect of being able to get w/ multiple-hot-women in the span of just a couple of hours (was never a fan of sticking to just one dancer).

I first started clubbing in Dallas at age 30 and extras were not too-common in Dallas at the time – in my early-40s I moved back-home to Miami where extras are pretty-common although not as common in the black-clubs which were the ones I mostly hit. I also joined TUSCL in my early-40s (after I moved back to Miami) and that is when I found-out, or was convinced, extras could be had in strip-clubs (until this time I assumed it was just a scam to take your $$$).

After I moved backdown to Miami in my early-40s is when I started doing some extras but it wasn’t my main-thing – but as I got older I started doing extras a bit more often and I think this may apply to many PLs.

Escorts and strip-clubs are not the same thing – they are different environments etc – escorts often seem to be more “clinical” about it in term of charging for time or sometimes charging a-la-carte; etc - plus one does not have the environment w/ booze; music; dozens of half-naked hot-chicks walking-around; etc.

At the end of the day; just like guys are into different types of girls (one PL’s ‘9’ another guy would not bother with; etc); guys are into different types of experiences – many on-here are older guys – you’ll likely won’t be the same person at 44 or 54 that you are today nor think/feel the same way and/or need the same things.

It seems that you use the strip-club to cure loneliness and/or feel the void of not currently having a GF – which is fine – just that many on here; especially the older-guys; are in a different stage in life and won’t be in the same boat you are.

Great discussion so far guys 🙂 appreciate everyone’s contributions.

I guess I’ve always been a quality over quantity type of guy. Of course the two aren’t mutually exclusive when it comes to women but I’ve always preferred to splurge on a nice hotel, do my research on a high end escort that 100% matches my type, and have a guaranteed great time than Motel 6 crackwhores or strippers I haven’t had the chance to properly screen online first.

I am enjoying the woman appreciation in this thread. ❤️❤️❤️

I can enjoy a beer and convo. Just leaving a club now. But I'm always talent scouting for otc. But I can enjoy the atmosphere just for it's own sake too

Honestly I’m rarely looking for or expecting extras in the club. Part of that is my main clubbing area isn’t known for extras. But also, because extras aren’t the norm here, it takes going through a weird kabuki dance-like posture for both the girls and customers to even talk about it. I go to the clubs to relax and enjoy some eye candy and maybe flirt a bit. I don’t feel like going through the effort to seek extras from a girl who gets asked that a lot but doesn’t want to/can’t go there. So I adjust my expectations and enjoy what’s in the clubs to be enjoyed, low stress and relaxed.

If I lived in Detroit or another place where extras are common, I might feel differently. But my overall point is I don’t feel like putting in a lot of energy to seek something that’s probably not available and having an awkward time doing so. It’s too easy to just enjoy naked ladies for simply the sake of enjoying naked ladies.

"There's room for both" I think is the best quote of the thread. That's certainly true for me. While I do enjoy ITC & OTC sex with strippers, I very rarely walk into a strip club with that in mind. I go in to enjoy the scenery, relax, and have a few drinks. Or maybe to cut loose with a few buddies. In the course of that, I'll often meet someone that I would like to fuck, so we find a way to make it happen that works for both of us. I like that my area has clubs that offer a variety of experiences and work environments so everyone can get what they want.

As far as escorts being superior to strippers with extras, I'd disagree. I've honestly never used an escort and don't see that likely as changing any time soon. I've looked at some of them online, the ones that are even remotely as hot as the ugliest dancer I've ever taken OTC are well over 10x the price. And they want to screen me with personal information I'm not comfortable giving out, particularly since they won't reciprocate. With a stripper, we've met each other in person, had a few drinks and shared some level of intimacy. The odds of me ending up with a crackwhore are substantially higher with an escort I've never met.

I like extras but I’ve found going to the club on a mission for extras isn’t the way to go. Some nights turn out differently than others and there are different ways to have fun. If I need a sure thing I can set that up away from the club.

I didn't go to strip clubs until I was past 50 years old and have always wondered what it would have been like if I had gone as a 24-year-old like you. I think I would have had better rapport with the girls if I was the same age as them and they would have been more willing to sit and socialize with me for lengthy periods of time if I was young. I look good for a 66-year-old but certainly looked much better when I was 24. I don't care enough to pay the money for extras or keeping a stripper sitting at my table. Just a short chat and two or three lap dances and spending fifty to a hundred dollars is a pleasant night at the strip club for me.

In the Rhode Island and Massachusetts area all everybody cares about is extras. I wish that man would just come to the club is up here to flirt and have a nice time and get some dances and just enjoy themselves and just for general entertainment

Of course most men are probably going to say yes if given the option of an extra but I wish they did not enter the clubs expecting it. It should be more one of those if it's offered that's great if not I'm not going to pressure it and expect it

Barbie the problem most here would say is I'm not tipping for conversation. Or not much. So I can give you a couple bucks and drink my beer alone while you dance. Would you like that? No. Probably not. And I doubt you'll sit with that non extras guy for an hour for $25.

I'm not being argumentative. Love strippers posting here. Just saying judging from other posts I'd say in this community you'll starve if you don't suck dick if the club was full of Tusclers lol.

I pretty much go for the atmosphere. I like the vibe and eye candy better than regular clubs. One of my favorite things to do is people watch. The interaction between stripper hoes and customers.

@desertscrub Looking at the year your account was created certainly does serve as a reminder I am part of the new generation. I personally have no interest in extras with strippers - we all have our own way of conducting business. I personally prefer sharing experiences with high class escorts or 18-20 year old girls on Seeking Arrangements than trying to get a handy in some booth praying the goon pacing back and forth doesn’t pull back the curtain. I go to Barnes & Noble because I want to sit down, relax, and enjoy a nice book in a nice setting. If I simply wanted to read the book I’d order it on Amazon - or better yet, buy a digital e-book copy so I don’t even have to wait for delivery (it’s 2022)!

Now that you mention it, the idea of fucking a tranny does sound pretty hot. He doesn’t even need to cut his balls off - it’s his choice, really. I dunno about you but personally, I’d rather fuck a tight 22 yo tranny than a 400lb landwhale who happens to have a hole. To each his own. As long as the tranny is all up-to-date on his latest copies of the covid & monkey-pox-aids vaccine or whatever, all’s cool.

^^ well there you have it, Fuckit literally will fuck it no matter what gender. I guess he swings both ways, taking it any way it can. It’s not interested in make to female relations.

The club is not full of TUSCLers though

And the whole thread said it’s ok if I can’t get extras, I can still have a good time.

So it looks like she isn’t going to starve after all.

🤔

No extras for me, no matter the situation. Do love the fondling though, after/while enjoying some female beauty.

Atmosphere? Yeah, generally love how they smell.

F77 good topic. It is something that coming from different angles has been talked about a great deal.

First of all, I have never really gone along with the "extras" concept. I just don't look at any of it that way.

Usually it means some kind of an ejaculation service. I don't think that is really a good way to interact with the women.

What you really want is to have the girl following you and relaxing her psychological resistance. Really just giving it up for you, giving herself to you.

So I am not interested in dry humping, not beyond just a little big of horse play.

And BJ, a little bit or preliminary when intending on FS, but not till completion with BJ.

More interested in titty massage and sucking, DFKing, DATY, and FS.

Now our local above ground strip clubs are very strict, no touching. So stuff like that can only happen in our underground circuit.

But we also have AMPs. There the basic offering is usually HJ. For myself that is not that important. It is more DFKng, DATY, FIV, and FS. Maybe a little bit of preminary BJ, getting off on the girl's face, or 69ing her.

Now what your talking about is much more casual touching. Our local above ground clubs cannot even allow that.

But overall what i think is that going to strip clubs for 'extras' is not a good idea. If you mean just for alcohol, I don't think that is a good idea either. If you mean just to kill time or for light flirting, well yes I have done a great deal and I learned a lot about women and about myself. But that was because I was in a death trap of a marriage. A guy in such a state is the ultimate PL.

But even though I lived it, I have never bragged about it. Some of the guys here like to brag about it.

Viet Coffee is a lot cheaper than strip clubs. But even if money is no object to you, I still don't think it is a good idea to hang around there unless you have got your sights on one of the women. In that case you'll be getting her, either ITC or OTC and quite quickly. But just to hang around and not try to move on them, I don't think that is good.

So I guess I am agreeing with you that the extras concept does not make much sense. But I am still coming from a different place than you are, not really encouraging strip clubs as hang out places either.

SJG

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Sjg in other words you like extras

Sjg be like how do you say you're into extras without saying you're into extras 😭😭😭😂😂

Not so. I don't go along with the concept of 'extras".

I do like women, and like to be able to move on them.

SJG

I also don’t want extras to be something a girl feels obligated to. It’s a much better experience for me when the girl seems to have fun too (at least as much as possible given the situation)

I like (many) strippers, but I've never found a strip club I really like. I don't like bars/nightclubs generally. My preference is OTC. It's always been with no or "light" extras. No stripper I've done OTC with has even hinted she did extras.

I never even thought of extras in a club. Yes, opportunities for extras exist in filthy low standard clubs. But it it wise to avoid them or discuss or ask ITC or OTC etc. remember to be a gentleman at gentleman’s cllub

I don't go along with the concept of extras. But I would never say anything like, "filthy low standard clubs" because that insults the women who work there.

Pick the one you want and make it happen with her. Some places there will be fixed limits, but less and less so across the country.

SJG

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^^^ do you copy and paste for a Rolodex of statements? No way somebody could type out the thousands and thousands of stupid rhetoric that you do voluminously the way you do, unless you e got nothing else all day to do than create stupid drivel. I mean, how does one build an organization reposting the same idiotic material day in and day out? The answer, not you SJG!

Bacon!

I just go to throw dollar bills into the air while I watch a female wiggle her fat ass in my face while some obnoxious dude plays the top 40 rap songs.

Shadowcat I thought you went to look for hookers younger than your grand daughter

I treat all women as ordinary women, and in all situations. I do like women who are really out there sexually and who express this in how they dress and paint up.

And Gassagain, you know nothing about me or my face to face life. You are the troll who posts drivel.

SJG

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And as such I don't go along with the idea of extras.

SJG

"It should be more one of those if it's offered that's great if not I'm not going to pressure it and expect it"

That's fair. There's a lot of guys who post here that have gotten very, very good at getting exactly what they're looking for. So good they can also walk into a club and find plenty of ways to amuse themselves that don't involve a cleanup (or one month countdown lol) afterward. They just don't always mention that. Hell, they might even take their foot off the gas once in a while if they see the dancer is gettable but on the fence about it.

Getting down in the club is way overrepresented on TUSCL because noobs feel like it's a safe space to ask questions they can't get answered in their circle and dudes who live in places where it's easy to get laid ITC can't stop bragging about it.

Generally if you can get under a girl's skin she will be doing your bidding. If not ITC, then immediately OTC.

I don't go along with the extras concept.

SJG

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I am not much of an ITC extras hound. I'm not saying I never do it, but I'm very much a "quality first" kind of guy, which means that I often find myself in clubs where extras are not heavy. If I have to choose between a club with 7s and 8s but no extras or one with 5s and 6s but lots of extras, I'll choose the first one every time.

With that said, let's not be naïve about the industry. Where there are girls willing to accept money to take their clothes off and rub on dudes for money and guys willing to pay good money for those things, you'll find plenty of people on both sides willing to take it one step further. Maybe not ITC, but definitely OTC. These side arrangements are a natural outcropping of the clubs and have been happening probably for as long as strip clubs have existed.

I know I talk a lot about OTC adventures, but believe it or not my choices of OTC partners are more strategic than one might think. I like to bring girls out who I really enjoy interacting with ITC. I am also perfectly happy enjoying my time ITC simply for what it is.

I mostly go for the atmosphere anymore, whenever I do go. Beautiful naked ladies are hot and even the not-so-beautiful ones can be entertaining.

i’ll modify that comment slightly.
I mostly go for the atmosphere anymore, whenever I do go. Beautiful naked ladies are hot and even the not-so-naked ones can be entertaining.

My take on it:

I started hitting the strippies (strip clubs) since I was like 18. I'm almost 50 now and still love it. Something about ANY strippies I walk into instantly makes me feel like I'm home.

You're young; only barely in your mid-20s. You may feel different about wanting extras when you're older in your mid 40s and now you're dealing with younger babes in their 20s.

I did the energy and the sights in any strippies room. But that's about it. I don't care for convos with dancers. I need a different space for that. I used to go on youth retreats--that spoiled me for honest convos.

At your age yeah I don't think you'd be all into extras. I don't think I was. Wait a few more years, it'll grab ya.

And anyways it's hard to compare extras from my days when I was in my mid 20s in the 1990s and compare it to your extras today when you're in your mid 20s in the 2020s. You have cameras to worry about, woke culture, cell phones capturing you, monkey pox, Covid, lawsuits, man who your age are gunning for strip club extras without a care to the wind?

In my day, the girls dancing were different than today. Getting extras was just a seemingly random happenstance that occurred. It happened and you didn't think much of it afterwards except you were super happy and told who you could that you got lucky. You weren't immediately recorded by any cameras or social media. The girls were different the music was different. You just went with it and didn't think much about it being a thing-thing.

Versus today. Now extras are "a solid thing-thing" IMO. It has history, tradition now grown up for the past 20-30 years. Right? Like, I say this allllll the time. When I went on my college spring breaks to Florida in the early 90s, it was the thing to see one chick in a thong in public or just see one chick making out in public with another chick to make guys cheer. You'd talk about that for a month when you got back home, how you never saw that in public it was so hot and boss. Now it's generations later and girls will carry their own cellphones and video themselves making out with other chicks in public or chicks film themselves with no panties in public. I'm not mad or complaining. I'm just saying, anyone growing up now sees this as normal so they wouldn't be all excited for extras at the club in current times.

I don't go to the strippies for extras, but I'd think I'd kinda stop going if there was no chance no possibilities if extras. I think we'd all be lying to ourselves if we say, "if there were no extras ever offered in strip clubs again, I'd still be going". I don't think I'd go as much. I don't go for the extras but it's always in the back of my mind I hope it randomly happens tonight, so lemme go see...

This was not meant to pick on you or anything ..

Everyone like to flirt with sweet pretty girls, if not there’s no real reason to go to the strip clubs.

You also may change your mind if you branch out and visit other strippies. Outside your county, state, etc. check out strippies in the hood. Not just gentleman clubs but like garage strip clubs, private house strippies. Be safe tho

For me, now, all the women I engage with are prospective bed mates. No reason to pay money or spend time in environments just for escapism.

SJG

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