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What Are Some Challenges and Misconceptions Adult Entertainers Have to Deal with

TLGS

Hey y'all,

I’m researching for an upcoming video on the challenges/misconceptions adult industry workers encounter when dating – (for my new matchmaking company “The Little Glass Slipper”) – and wanted to check in here with you gals and guys to see if I’m on the right track. Are there are things I might want to add to the list? Or any stories that you guys have that I can share? Basically, any input would be much appreciated! xoxo!

Challenges/Misconceptions:

-People thinking you’ll “put out” right away, or take them on as a client if things don’t work out
-People thinking that you want to be saved from your occupation
-Being seen as emotionally damaged (beyond the average person)
-Not being taken seriously/seen as relationship material/someone to bring home to family & friends
-People not getting that your work is just work. It’s fantasy work, and not reality
-STD Stigma
-Being seen as nymphomaniacs/always in the mood for sex
-Potential partner thinking that you won’t have energy for intimacy with them
-People thinking that your occupation is your only interest; (no hobbies, spirituality, goals, etc.)
-People thinking that you’re morally bankrupt
-People thinking that you can make them money
-People thinking that they’re the only one “willing” to date you
-Potential partners expecting that you’ll perform for them in the same way you perform at work – not getting the difference between sex/fantasy work and real intimacy
-Potential partners thinking that they’re not experienced enough to satisfy your intimacy needs
-Finding someone who’s secure with themselves and trusting
-People thinking that your workplace is a good place to meet you
-People thinking that you have daddy issues, drug problems, or lots of drama (beyond the average person)
-People assuming you’re up for a polyamorous relationship