What Are Some Challenges and Misconceptions Adult Entertainers Have to Deal with
Sunday, July 18, 2021 6:45 PM
Hey y'all,
I’m researching for an upcoming video on the challenges/misconceptions adult industry workers encounter when dating – (for my new matchmaking company “The Little Glass Slipper”) – and wanted to check in here with you gals and guys to see if I’m on the right track. Are there are things I might want to add to the list? Or any stories that you guys have that I can share? Basically, any input would be much appreciated! xoxo!
Challenges/Misconceptions:
-People thinking you’ll “put out” right away, or take them on as a client if things don’t work out
-People thinking that you want to be saved from your occupation
-Being seen as emotionally damaged (beyond the average person)
-Not being taken seriously/seen as relationship material/someone to bring home to family & friends
-People not getting that your work is just work. It’s fantasy work, and not reality
-STD Stigma
-Being seen as nymphomaniacs/always in the mood for sex
-Potential partner thinking that you won’t have energy for intimacy with them
-People thinking that your occupation is your only interest; (no hobbies, spirituality, goals, etc.)
-People thinking that you’re morally bankrupt
-People thinking that you can make them money
-People thinking that they’re the only one “willing” to date you
-Potential partners expecting that you’ll perform for them in the same way you perform at work – not getting the difference between sex/fantasy work and real intimacy
-Potential partners thinking that they’re not experienced enough to satisfy your intimacy needs
-Finding someone who’s secure with themselves and trusting
-People thinking that your workplace is a good place to meet you
-People thinking that you have daddy issues, drug problems, or lots of drama (beyond the average person)
-People assuming you’re up for a polyamorous relationship
I’m researching for an upcoming video on the challenges/misconceptions adult industry workers encounter when dating – (for my new matchmaking company “The Little Glass Slipper”) – and wanted to check in here with you gals and guys to see if I’m on the right track. Are there are things I might want to add to the list? Or any stories that you guys have that I can share? Basically, any input would be much appreciated! xoxo!
Challenges/Misconceptions:
-People thinking you’ll “put out” right away, or take them on as a client if things don’t work out
-People thinking that you want to be saved from your occupation
-Being seen as emotionally damaged (beyond the average person)
-Not being taken seriously/seen as relationship material/someone to bring home to family & friends
-People not getting that your work is just work. It’s fantasy work, and not reality
-STD Stigma
-Being seen as nymphomaniacs/always in the mood for sex
-Potential partner thinking that you won’t have energy for intimacy with them
-People thinking that your occupation is your only interest; (no hobbies, spirituality, goals, etc.)
-People thinking that you’re morally bankrupt
-People thinking that you can make them money
-People thinking that they’re the only one “willing” to date you
-Potential partners expecting that you’ll perform for them in the same way you perform at work – not getting the difference between sex/fantasy work and real intimacy
-Potential partners thinking that they’re not experienced enough to satisfy your intimacy needs
-Finding someone who’s secure with themselves and trusting
-People thinking that your workplace is a good place to meet you
-People thinking that you have daddy issues, drug problems, or lots of drama (beyond the average person)
-People assuming you’re up for a polyamorous relationship
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Matchmaking service for those (typically) without health insurance, flaky work aptitude, and whose career is usually in the shitter by age 40. Lol
Does this come with a bottle of 30 year Macallan delivered by a stripper?
That is all I would look for in meeting someone.
Cheers!!!
I didn’t click on the link - as I don’t trust this one at all!
I did click on the link and poked around, I get the impression you're actually trying to do what you claim & this isn't a troll/scam post. I'll repeat what the others have said, the Disney owned imagery and verbiage will draw their ire real fast if you get anywhere with this. Also, I'm not sure how much market research you've done. While there are certainly strippers looking for love, and those with 3k to spend on it, I think the intersection is pretty damn small. And think about the first sentence too. There might be solutions to that problem, but right now you're hanging out a sign that says "Want to date strippers - pay me 3k and I'll set you up on dates." You're gonna get a lot more dudes who just wanna bang strippers than you are dudes who are just open minded and non-judgemental. The latter group isn't going to sign up for a dating service that caters specifically to sex workers in big numbers. Especially if they have to pay for it.
Also, you're gonna have to work hard as hell to make sure none of the sex workers you work with embody any of those stereotypes/challenges you mention. Or you'll loose any credibility instantly.
The url itself https://dreamscometrue.dating/services/
Doesn't have the typical '.com' which leadse to believe it's coming out of someone's local server.
So, any dufus with a Linux computer could have spun this up rather quickly. I'll commend the commitment, but it's still just a troll post.
I know this wasn't you, way too intelligent and and too much work out in for your lazy ass posting.
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that made me laugh
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Holy shit.
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