A- puertorican Greek mix. Broke. Works part time at a dispensary. Steels and sells weed. Illegally drives a dirtbike in the city. Lives with 8 roommates in an apt in the hood. Has 8 ig profiles he stalks people you know with. Cheats on you. 6 ft 4 and skinny
B- Mexican. Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns. 6ft muscular. 50k in discretionary spending a year. Treats you like a Disney princess.
B just smoked weed and drinks boojee. Beer
Who's will to be the first to feed this troll
Stfu troll. If you don't like my thread stay off it
Lol phatty! I would have never thought you were part Greek. I suppose your inferiority complex against the Mexican guy that your imaginary GF left you for is still bugging you in your online world. LMAO
I thought Ice was Egyptian.
LMFAO "A" is clearly living rent free in icee's head.
Poor icee, running a losing team now. š¤£š¤£š¤£
icee is still so butthurt for losing a junkie stripper whore to a loser. ššš
Ugh go troll someone else
^
Follow your advice on another forum.
Stop trolling me bitch
Ugh face it you're a bigger loser than A.
Your junkie stripper whore was just using you like a trick bitch.
Ugh you're so butthurt and whiny as fuck.
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Sirlapdancealot. Youre right i feel like a fucking loser. On paper my life looks so good and no one believes I have problems with women.
Today when I was at the gas station this 5ft curvy exotic mixed black latina looking girl was all over me gave me her number first. At the checkout line at Ralph's a hot mesixan girl asked me how to check out and gave me her number and ig.
But the one woman.ive loved in my life leaves me for a piece of shit like that.
When im at the club dancers lift my shirt up kiss my stomach and chest grab my dick....its real thick. At regular clubs and bars I get attention.
But the one I love left me for that. Thats my fuvked up life
^ And then you woke up still in east LA!
Sirlapdancealot if you have real advice for me tell me please
Theosu not from East la. I was born and raised in South Central
Everything i accomplished jn life. I spend to take care of my mom and people I love. Im not selfish or greedy.
I cant blame 8t all on her habit. Life js fucjed up
"Sirlapdancealot. Youre right i feel like a fucking loser. On paper my life looks so good and no one believes I have problems with women."
^ It's because, in fact, you're a trick bitch loser. On paper you're still a loser that pays A LOT of money and drugs to get GFE from professional junkie stripper whores.
"Today when I was at the gas station this 5ft curvy exotic mixed black latina looking girl was all over me gave me her number first. At the checkout line at Ralph's a hot mesixan girl asked me how to check out and gave me her number and ig."
^ Yeah sure. You love to embellish your interactions with women. You have a pattern of it.
"But the one woman.ive loved in my life leaves me for a piece of shit like that"
^ It's because, in fact, you're a bigger piece of shit. You just don't realize it because you're delusional.
5 years isn't a great. Girls leaving the club to fuck coz I paid their $40 house fee to leave isn't tricking.
If I were worse than hom so many women wouldn't want me.
And I'm cheap with women. She was the only one I ever spent much on. But its 5 years.
Girls are happy with king taco and me giving them my tshirts
Like when I was with a girl who had a rich sugar daddy who took her on all these trips. She was so happy 2ith me getting her the best tacos and my vintage batman t-shirt.
We live in different worlds my nigga
It would depend more on their personality than the things you list like ethnicity, what they drive and which drugs they do considering they both do drugs.
Have you ever considered that she knows how you talk about women on here and that is why she left? Or worse, do you talk the same way in real life?
Whodey. I just say it how it is. But I treat her like a treasure. She talks worse about bitches. Most women aren't pc
I've been unconditionally supportive and have never let her down.
"Girls leaving the club to fuck coz I paid their $40 house fee to leave isn't tricking."
^ That's absolutely tricking. It's called an OTC GFE, dumbass
"I cant blame 8t all on her habit. Life js fucjed up"
^ Until you're capable of recognizing your own faults that contributed to losing her, you'll never learn. Take some of the blame yourself (but I highly doubt you will).
Quit acting like all these women love you. They likely are just being nice and some just wanna use you. You're giving YOUR perspective on what you think they think of you. In other words, lose your delusion about yourself. And have some true humility.
"I've been unconditionally supportive and have never let her down."
^ There's your delusion again. She left your dumbass because in her eyes you let her down. You just can't comprehend it.
Just because you treat her like a treasure personally doesn't mean she wouldn't leave based on how you treat others.
She left you so she obviously had a reason. It could be your personality, your actions or just that she didn't love you.
Regardless of the reason its time to move on, if you can't do that in a healthy way seek professional help.
"When im at the club dancers lift my shirt up kiss my stomach and chest grab my dick....its real thick."
^ This is really no different than what any other experienced PL experiences at a club. It's really not something to brag about or use as "proof" that strippers genuinely want you.
The club is a fantasy world we all live in my nigga.
She left coz he does coke with her.
Life isn't pc. Relationships are about emotion.
Sirlapdancealot but I actually bdo have a nice body. They enjoy it. I work out everybday lift weights. Have done so for years. I always get asked if im a pro athlete
When I was in the hospital for alcohol poisoning the nurses actually thought i was a pro athlete
Desertscrub you're gbe most ignored person on here. Fuck off
"She left coz he does coke with her.
Life isn't pc. Relationships are about emotion."
^ As predicted, you're incapable of looking at yourself and what YOU did to lose her. You ask for help but you don't really listen.
Like you know what relationships are about when you establish them with junkie strippers at work.
"Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns. 6ft muscular. 50k in discretionary spending a year. Treats you like a Disney princess."
You of all guys should know girls like this love guys that treat them like shit. They don't know any different so when they get treated with respect it makes them cautious.
"Sirlapdancealot but I actually bdo have a nice body. They enjoy it. I work out everybday lift weights. Have done so for years. I always get asked if im a pro athlete"
Yeah so? I've been told I'm good looking outside of clubs but it doesn't mean strippers don't wanna use me for my money while they still think I'm a hottie.
You keep trying and thinking all this about you makes junkie strippers want you "for real". If you want to absolutely prove that theory outright, you better get with a stripper and get with her as a civie chick. This means hit on her and meet her for the first time OUTSIDE of work.
LMAO you brag about how you go into a club and pick up on strippers while they are WORKING. And you have to do it with money and drugs. In the club, it's all business. If you're so hot and good looking then you should have no problems with civie women. But instead you rely on the fantasies that are provided with the club being the backdrop. LMAO that's RIL trick bitch behavior no matter how you look
Automatically blaming a man for everything is the ultimate pc simp shit.
She quit 2 clubs coz all the girls and even management took my side. She won't dance in Vegas coz of me. So fuck off.
Shailynn bad boy and complete loser are 2 different things
Sirlapdancealot a girl leaving a club to smoke $60of weed after paying her $40 house fee isn't tricking
Its a fucking mindfuck women wanting you and the only one you want fucking you over. Living the perfect life on paper but shit in real life not making any sense.
"a girl leaving a club to smoke $60of weed after paying her $40 house fee isn't tricking"
LMAO it absolutely is. It's just a great OTC GFE deal for a trick. It's no different than offering $100 for OTC GFE. She's a stripper at work. You're offering her money and drugs while she's working. Totally a trick bitch move. š
"Relationships are about emotion."
You are right about this. Clearly her emotions told her she doesn't love you and she would rather be with him. Even if she has no logical reason to want him more than you it is clear she does. The heart wants what the heart wants and her heart wants him.
Man up and respect her choice.
She can make a lot more staying in the club. $40 is nothing and weed isn't a drug. You can get it on every other street
Whodey thats a pc simp view.
"Automatically blaming a man for everything is the ultimate pc simp shit."
^ LMAO you still can't look inwards at your own issues. So predictable. Automatically blaming everyone and everything else but yourself is just the ultimate whiny narcissistic bitch shit.
"She quit 2 clubs coz all the girls and even management took my side. She won't dance in Vegas coz of me. So fuck off."
LMAO fuck off yourself, loser with a million excuses but yourself. You're the one crying and creating pity me threads. Even pretending you wanted to kill yourself. Just like a whiny bitch loser. ššš
"She can make a lot more staying in the club. $40 is nothing and weed isn't a drug. You can get it on every other street"
^ Excuses are like assholes. Everybody's got one and they all stink like shit. š¤£š¤£š¤£
Now you ran out of shit to say so you're just trolling
Now you're just giving more and more of the same whiny bitch excuses.
What's more to say when I told you already you were incapable of looking inwards at your own faults? And you still don't, and you keep blaming someone or something else?
Saying that I ran out of shit to say is just another one of your lame whiny bitch excuses. (As I already predicted you would do, dumbass.)
Poor icee. So butthurt. So delusional. Incapable of recognizing her own flaws.
Icee if you think respecting a woman's right to choose who she loves is a "a pc simp view" then clearly your attitude and personality are why she left you.
Even if you are as rich and good looking and women who don't know you well throw themselves at you that doesn't mean they will stay with you once they get to know the real you. Obviously even a drugged out stripper couldn't stand to be around an asshole like you anymore. That should tell you everything you need to know.
Maybe the world would be better off if you hadn't failed in your attempt to kill yourself. Since you couldn't do that right and you are obviously emotionally disturbed seek professional help before you end up loosing control and end up killing the woman you are obsessed with or her new man.
Does the puertorican Greek mix only live 2 blocks from the beach?
"Its a fucking mindfuck women wanting you and the only one you want fucking you over. Living the perfect life on paper but shit in real life not making any sense."
It's an even bigger mindfuck when none of those women actually ever really wanted you coz they're just at work and you're paying them while they are at work, and you know all this, even if it's just in the back of your mind. It's mindfucking as fuck when it's like that.
All I have to say is if any of Icee's delusions were real he'd have been meeting other PL's and showing off, but this is such delusional shit, it's hard to take it seriously. My advice to you Icee is still the same get some professional help, this is batshit crazy.
Icee said "Here's an obviously biased 'hypothetical' question about two people who don't exist, who would you pi--
OH HOLY MOTHER OF GOD! PLEASE FEED MY ADDICTION TO ATTENTION! FEED ME RIGHT NOW!"
Fun fact ... founder offered, perhaps a few times, to meet Icee in person. This was back when Icee was bitching about the new-at-that-time "verified" account status. I seem to remember that Icee begged off because of "privacy" or some such thing. Which is weird for a guy who, based on his own posts, is all over social media and a big player in clubs (strip or otherwise).
I mean, if everything that Icee has to say about himself were true, then he'd be the one guy on here who should have no problem showing his actual face in his profile avatar, let alone meeting up with a website administrator for a beer.
Except back when Icee was "Iceyloco" he did post a profile avatar that he purported to be him, but another user knew how to do an image lookup on Google, and revealed that the avatar Icee posted was actually some obscure, low-grade rapper. I think that this happened before he posted images of his "main bitch" that also turned out to be false under the barest of scrutiny.
If you want to treat him or this latest life "crisis" of his as if it's true, have at it. But, all you're doing is indulging a role-playing fantasy created to garner attention and create turmoil. What Icee knows about strippers and strip clubs could come from a number of sources, but it's not via him being a muscular Mexican with $50K in discretionary income.
But for those who want to play along, I guess that's fun for you.
"Treats you like a Disney princess."
If you locked her in a tower, made her clean your house while dressed in rags, slipped her sleeping pills, or fed her poison apples, I guess we know why she left.
You missed it Ishmael, phatty isn't behind door letter B, he's door letter A...
"A- puertorican Greek mix. Broke. Works part time at a dispensary. Steels and sells weed. Illegally drives a dirtbike in the city. Lives with 8 roommates in an apt in the hood. Has 8 ig profiles he stalks people you know with. Cheats on you. 6 ft 4 and skinny"
He left out the little bitch, attention whore, crybaby, fentanyl dealing, free legal advice parts. I still can't believe that some of the guys here actually believe the BS he spins but it is the internet.
Debating the depths of Icee's fantasy world feels like a debate we all lose, ultimately.
Iceeās got white Knight syndrome trying to save bitches who make $$ off tricks, except he aināt white. Thatās the epitome of insanity!
I don't mind indulging icee because the persona she's trying to portray is even more pathetic than the troll behind the scenes. When you break down the persona, she's still a drug dealing loser that has to pay and give drugs to junkie stripper whores for a travesty of GFE. She'll try to embellish it and such by making claims about how strippers want her and such, but even then it's still pathetic as fuck since it's all in the club while strippers are naturally flirting with customers. Not something that one should aggrandize. Her persona is the ultimate PL RIL trick bitch in denial, yet she wants to take the high ground over other PLs. It's a comical hypocrisy that has given me a lot of laughs.
If I was a bad bitch Iād be telling the silly feuding bois āitās not gay, when itās in a three wayā¦ā
I asked a simple question. A or B.
No need to troll. But then I could post anything and you'd still troll me.
If you don't want to participate in the thread block me or don't reply. Its easy. But don't troll.
And calling me an asshole coz I reply to your attacks makes you delusional.
Youre out if touch with reality. Get out more
You got precisely the response you were expecting and hoped for.
Cim i asked for a or b not you and the geriatric trick clique trolling my thread
@Ishmael she's a master of the passive aggressive troll. Rather than ignore you and others for trolling her she'd rather go back and forth and argue with you about it. And do it in another thread. And another. Lather. Rinse. Repeat.
With me in this thread she first tells me to troll elsewhere, but then just a few posts later she asks me directly for advice...and only later to argue and debate any advice I gave. It's extreme passive aggressive trolling and attention seeking. It's her nature.
Sircumsinhispantsalot you described yourself and the geriatric trick clique
LMAO icee your own posts in this thread support everything I just posted.
Now you ran out of shit to say so you're just trolling.
Meta-question: Why would one want to be a dancer or a bad bitch? Or be in a long-term relationship with one?
The old saw applies, you can't make a hoe into a housewife.
"If I was a bad bitch Iād be telling the silly feuding bois āitās not gay, when itās in a three wayā¦ā"
LMAO @nicespice maybe icee should get a bunch of Molly and offer it to her junkie stripper whore that dumped her losing ass and her better option in exchange for her being their cuckold. Since icee is so in "love" she might not have issues being a cuck. š
"Meta-question: Why would one want to be a dancer or a bad bitch? Or be in a long-term relationship with one?"
Meta-Answer: When one is such a loser and cannot get with a civie woman through normal means, one will pay a stripper drugs and money in order to have a long-term GFE with a sex worker. It's not the same thing, but if one lives in denial and suspends his or her disbeliefs, then one can come to think said "relationship" is "real".
In summary it's what PL RIL trick bitches do coz they can't get a woman any other way.
Tetradon. Nothing wrong with strippers or bad bitches. If that's your circle why not date them. Dating strippers doesn't revolve around them being strippers. Their job isn't a big deal.
^ LMAO yeah sure it doesn't when you use money and drugs to get a "date"...as they are working, no less.
LMFAO you are such a trick in denial. š¤£š¤£š¤£
Get a fucking life. You troll me here 24 7. Fucking stalker.
And you like being trolled 24x7. Why do you like reading and replying to me so much? Is it coz you like it?
FYI I only troll trolls! It's fun! Especially when they are a dumbass about it. š
A is the classic stripper boyfriend
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
āMexican. Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns.ā
Pics and Vids of the Plum Crazy Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isnāt so.
:D
You should know, by now, that your āromantic feelingsā have nothing to do with loving the "real" other person. It is a mixture of lust and idealizing your ex-āgirlfriendā fooling yourself into thinking she is 'the one'...that is not āreal loveā
It is almost a matter of ālife and deathā for you to understand this reality; so that you wonāt let fairy tales and āpassionā over-rule your natural survival instinct and judgement.
You, like many other raised and indoctrinated in our selfish, materialistic society often call āloveā what in reality is obsession, idealization, possessiveness, lust...
You have unrealistic expectations about how your ābelovedā is going to meet YOUR āneeds and desiresā to make YOU happy.
Your deep insecurities and needs make you seek in her what you think you want in your life.
You think you āneed/wantā her to be in charge of your happiness.
And she probably wanted you to be in charge of her happiness too, you both are foolishly thinking you are āincompleteā looking to be completed by the other.
The two of you are now, not only still āincompleteā, but terrible disappointed because of the unrealistic expectations.
You both are/were in a relationship with power struggle issues and mutual manipulation, trying to get the other to meet YOUR āneedsā
So a half Boricua/Greek, Taller, pusher/drug dealer ābikerā was able to get the attention of the woman you are in āloveā with and you are ābroken heartedā...
You should know that what you call āloveā is in part biologically programmed (a desire to have sex to procreate) but mostly you learned it from culturally indoctrination.
You thought your girlfriend was in a ācommittedā relationship with You, but her sexual desire for you was waning.
She found herself feeling restless and dissatisfied with the relationship.
Then she meet a tall dark Boricua/Greek, drug dealer, biker bad boy, and she experiences instant feelings of attraction and longing.
Instead of working to improve her current disappointing relationship with you, she was overcome by lust for the possibility of someone new, maybe better...
The reality is that best relationships are between people who really, sincerely care for each other but are can be happy remaining single.
However we have been indoctrinated into believing that ādramaā is necessary in the fairytale that should be our love history.
āA boy proposed to a girl, She rejected him. He was not sad. His friends asked him why he didnāt feel sad? The boy responded: Why should I be sad? I lost someone who didnāt love me. She lost someone who loved her.ā
Be a man, grow up, get yourself a Harley and become a 1% biker, so you can āpatchā-brand your woman as your property, and no one would dare to try to steal your property.
Be careful out there.
LMAO @CJ to summarize: she found a better dick to fuck and it was never really "love" anyway. So true! ššš
Cjkent I agree with a lot of what you say. But it was real love and it wasn't a struggle. Our relationship was great. She still has feelings. When a woman has strong emotions when dealing with you or tries to avoid you in a situation like this its guilt and feelings.
The problem is her habit and he indulges it while I approached it with harm reduction and wanted her to get real help. She met him through her junkie hoe friends. He.feeds their habits.
LMAO "real love".
So says the RIL trick bitch.
ššš
"When a woman has strong emotions when dealing with you or tries to avoid you in a situation like this its guilt and feelings."
^^^ LMAO that's your perspective and what you want to believe.
When a control freak ex "boyfriend" is too controlling and obsessive and she never had the same feelings, in a situation like that it's avoid dude at all costs.
I believe in your other whiny bitch thread you did say she dumped you coz you were too controlling and obsessive, no?
LMFAO you even offered her $5k to meet up and she still didn't want to meet your obsessive stalker ass!
Face it, you were and RIL trick bitch and she never loved you.
Im not a control freak And we lived together for 4 years so youre just trolling as usual.
"She called me controlling and obsessive"
""My 5 year relationship ended because she thought I was too controlling"
"Im not a control freak And we lived together for 4 years so youre just trolling as usual."
^^^ By your own admission she dumped your control freak ass, so absolutely she shouldn't want to meet with you anymore. It has nothing to do with her guilt or feelings like you wanna try to tell yourself.
You're clearly creeping her out like an obsessive RIL trick bitch.
And it wasn't even worth $5k to take a chance on you. That's how creepy you are to her. š¤£š¤£š¤£
And quit crying like a butthurt troll. I'm posting per this thread and based on your own posts. You're just deflecting and denying as usual.
"Its in your best interest to take control of her drug use from the start. Make sure she does the minimum to get fucked up."
"Its about control."
"Donāt be afraid to discipline her. Eventually youāll have to. Be manipulative with her feelings."
"The number one thing you need to do to fulfill her needs is to make her dependent on you for as much as possible. You basically have to manage her life."
LMFAO and she says she's not a control freak. š¤£š¤£š¤£
You actually go through threads to pick up quotes and repost them out of context in unrelated threads. She said it was controlling and obsessive to find out she cheated and who she cheated with. Yeah its different jn context
===> "Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns. 6ft muscular. 50k in discretionary spending a year. Treats you like a Disney princess."
LOL. You're posting like you own a mansion with a Bentley and a Ferrari parked out in the front. š
Look dude, attraction isn't a checklist and we don't know your bad qualities, but I'm sure that she does. Some girls don't want to be treated like Disney princesses. Heck if you had kids and watched that Disney stuff, you'd know that Disney princesses themselves often chafe at how they are coddled, growing increasingly bored and frustrated with their situations until they break free.
Maybe you were too controlling and he makes her feel free. Maybe he fucks her like a porn star or just rocks her world in the sack by treating her like the bad girl that she is. Maybe he's better looking than you and makes her panties wet. Maybe any combination of the three, along with her drugs of course. Maybe there are other things she prefers about him too.
You can't turn an alley cat into a house cat any more than you can turn an emotionally challenged drug addict into Betty Crocker. I'm guessing that you're somewhere on the autism spectrum, which is why you struggle to understand why your "check the box" situation is not appealing to her and also why you're struggling so much to let her go.
"Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns. 6ft muscular. 50k in discretionary spending a year. Treats you like a Disney princess."
... or ...
I wasn't controlling she claimed I was for finding out she cheated and with who. Everything was good. The drugs were the one huge problem. Our sex life was great. I encouraged her to spend time with friends go out...I wasn't controlling. She had everything she could want or need.
He controls her. Doesn't want her around friends or any men. Stalks her friends and family on social media. Stalks me. Is verbally and emotionally abusive.
My townhouse is worth more than a mansion in Texas or Atlanta lulz
Cim. 20fag is the millionaire on this forum.
LMAO you're being controlling and obsessive about trying to prove you're not being controlling and obsessive. Your posts from your IceyLoco troll alias are also about being controlling and obsessive.
And whether or not it was about cheating doesn't matter. You were still being controlling and obsessive.
Ergo, it's all within context. But LMFAO keep being controlling and obsessive that it's not you being controlling and obsessive. š¤£š¤£š¤£
Coz that might be construed as you being controlling and obsessive, no?
You think it's controlling and obsessive to notice something is off so you lurk on instagram and ask a mutual friend and find out she's cheating?
Stop trolling me. Thats all you do on here. Youre obsessed with me
And telling someone to give up on a 5 year n relationship and acting like the woman is always right is pure simp shit.
"She had everything she could want or need."
^^^ LMFAO that's what you keep saying to make yourself feel better about her NOT wanting you. Because clearly YOU are something SHE DOES NOT WANT. That's why your controlling ass got dumped.
Thats not how it happened and she obviously has feelings. It's really complicated . Youre talking out of your ass
Im ignoring your obsessed autistic troll ass
"You think it's controlling and obsessive to notice something is off so you lurk on instagram and ask a mutual friend and find out she's cheating?
Stop trolling me. Thats all you do on here. Youre obsessed with me"
^^^ It's not what I think. It's what you posted that she said which is that she dumped you after 5 years for being controlling and obsessive. Your words, not mine.
Also regardless of her, your IceyLoco posts also state to be controlling over stripper whores.
All based on your posts. As 2ICEE and IceyLoco. It's clearly a pattern with you. And the only context needed are the words controlling and obsessive, typed by your own hands. ššš
Stop being a butthurt troll. I like these latest threads by you so I'm posting in them. They make me laugh. You're comedy to me. Cracks me up that you provide the actual content that forms the basis of my replies. Don't like it? Don't post! It's that simple.
Oh, and thanks for proving that I knew you'd be controlling and obsessive about you not being controlling and obsessive. Made me literally LOL. š¤£š¤£š¤£
"Thats not how it happened and she obviously has feelings. It's really complicated . Youre talking out of your ass"
^^^ That's what you keep telling yourself in a controlling and obsessive way. Which is obviously why she didn't want $5k just to meet you one more time.
Obviously she's creeped out by you. Not that complicated.
You're talking like a denying broken hearted whiny bitch.
"Im ignoring your obsessed autistic troll ass"
Yeah sure. You've said that before. And before. And before. And before.
No matter how many times you say and do that, you actually keep reading my posts. And you even reply to some of them.
So go ahead, but I bet you'll still be obsessed with reading my posts. Coz that's how you are.
BTW, great thread!
"And telling someone to give up on a 5 year n relationship and acting like the woman is always right is pure simp shit."
^^^ This is pure strawman argument shit.
Nobody has said "the woman is always right" in any of their posts. That's the strawman argument, dumbass. You created the argument in your head and then refuted it that's what a strawman argument is.
You're just obsessed about her dumping your controlling and obsessive bitch ass for being, to no surprise, controlling and obsessive. And you're obsessed with finding other excuses. To the point that you make shit up nobody said.
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
āCjkent I agree with a lot of what you say. But it was real love and it wasn't a struggle.ā
You are still in denial, obsessed, and refuse to accept the reality of your situation.
āMy brother once told me that nothing someone says before the word ābutā really countsā ~ Benjen Stark
I insist:
Pics and Vids of the Plum Crazy in color, Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isnāt so.
:D
What can be identified as āreal loveā requires patience, understanding and being prepared to let him/her go if that is what is best for him/her.
This is because you sincerely care for each other but are/can be happy remaining single.
O top of all these issues you need to accept that, when you are āin loveā with an addict, her addiction takes precedence over everything else, including you.
And there is nothing you can do to change that.
You need to remember the common sense phrase: āYou can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drinkā
It It means that there are some things that you cannot force someone to do, in your case, you canāt force her to quit her drug addiction and you canāt make her ālove youā and be faithful.
Remember that in this life, inner peace brings fulfillment, and if you attain it, life works for you and happiness is unavoidable.
āThe lifestyle of one who follows the Tao must be thought of as a form of intelligence.
That is, knowing the patterns, structures, and trends of human and natural affairs so well that one uses the least amount of energy dealing with them.ā
And you should always remember:
āIn this country, you gotta make the money first.
Then when you get the money, you get the power.
Then when you get the power, then you get the women.
Thatās why you got to make your own moves.ā
ā Tony Montana ā Movies: āScarfaceā ~ Released: December 9, 1983 (USA)
C. None of the above.
I'd rather be lesbian than A or B.
Cjkent we lived together for 4 years been together for 5. I don't question our love. People fuck over those they love all the time. There was pressure from her best friends. One of her best friends was fucking his brother. He encouraged the drug use...they all did together. I didn't do anything wrong.
...and the point of this thread is?!?!
If you don't like it don't participate in it
"I don't question our love."
^^^ Yeah that's your perspective, oh heartbroken one. That's what you wanted, but not her. Clearly her "love" wasn't as deep as yours. Hence, her dumping your RIL ass.
"People fuck over those they love all the time."
^^^ No, not really. It's usually because there wasn't love there to begin with. When two people are mutually in love sure, but with your junkie stripper whore "girlfriend" it was just using you as part of her job. You got special treatment, though, as most whales and high paying sugar daddies do.
"...and the point of this thread is?!?!"
@Upright it's just more of icee being butthurt that her junkie stripper whore "girlfriend" chose option "A" over her. icee is supposedly option "B". It's supposed to be obvious that anyone would choose "B", so icee feels better.
She's using this thread as a way of rationalizing, in her head only, why she lost to "A". She's blaming everyone and everything else besides her own flaws with this thread. We see RIL heartbreak threads like this all the time, except in this case icee is over-the-top obsessed with getting dumped and can't handle losing to "A" because she feels she's somehow the better option, which is of course a biased perspective.
LMAO it's basically a defense mechanism thread for icee being a broken hearted little bitch. š
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
āCjkent we lived together for 4 years been together for 5. I don't question our love. People fuck over those they love all the time. There was pressure from her best friends. One of her best friends was fucking his brother. He encouraged the drug use...they all did together. I didn't do anything wrong.ā
Good people donāt āfuck over those they love all the timeā, that is what you believe because of the cultural indoctrination you have been exposed to in this materialistic selfish contradictory society.
You need to understand that there are things you have control over, mainly yourself, what you do and how you react to the world around you.
And there are things you have no control over, the people and the world around you.
Focus on yourself having a good safe healthy life, physically, mentally, spiritually, and donāt allow anything you canāt control create disruption in your life.
What you did wrong was getting involved with a unstable drug addict for five years. You need to walk away from this type of person, no matter how sexually attracted you are to her.
All healthy relationships are based on this fact:
You are responsible for your own happiness.
No one can make you happy or sad and no one can break your heart without you letting them.
Of course your girlfriend did things you didnāt like, said unkind things when angry, and didnāt respected you and acted in ways you didnāt expected.
All of that may have really happened but none of that should have affected your happiness.
The way how you choose to react to those situations is what affected/affects your happiness.
Our happiness depends on how we react to what happens around us, YOU CAN choose to be happy even in the most difficult situations you experience in your life.
Again I must insist:
Pics and Vids of the Plum Crazy in color, Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isnāt so.
:D
Be careful out there and remember:
Pics and Vids or it didnāt happen
Happiness is a reaction to external stimuli.
We've been talking. Okay arguing. She won't block me. She watches my ig. There are feelings.
You don't give up on someone just coz they're fucked up but you put up more boundaries.
My car is black. It was either that or silver
===> "And telling someone to give up on a 5 year n relationship and acting like the woman is always right is pure simp shit."
This right here is your problem. A relationship is over when one of the two people says it is. She's made her choice clear - there is no "right" or "wrong" about it. Failing to grasp this makes you seem both stupid and obsessed.
She won't block me. Checks my social media. Texts me everyday to tell me she's not going to talk to me ever again. She replies on my social media but claims she's not watching that it just popped up.and he's butthurt snd stalking me more than sirlapdancealot.
Its not over that easily and saying its over just coz the woman says it is simp shit
"She won't block me. She watches my ig. There are feelings."
LMFAO feelings that someday your creepy stalking ex "BF" isn't going to post about killing "himself" over you again.
"She won't block me. Checks my social media. Texts me everyday to tell me she's not going to talk to me ever again. She replies on my social media but claims she's not watching that it just popped up.and he's butthurt snd stalking me more than sirlapdancealot."
LMAO but is she stalking you as much as you are her? Wouldn't you have to be stalking her to know how much she's stalking you? If you know this about her, then she clearly knows the same about you, which means she also thinks you're stalking her. š¤
Also don't flatter yourself. I just like posting funny shit that makes me laugh to the boards. I participate in whatever threads entertain me.
No go put me on pretend ignore again. Try to make it last more than a few hours.
Option B needs an addendum:
Creepy social media stalker
Fights dirty like a bitch
Anonymous internet troll
Simp with a $50k/yr limit
Faux suicidal
Passive aggressive
Extreme delusions of grandeur
Control freak
Obsessive
RIL trick bitch in denial
"Its not over that easily and saying its over just coz the woman says it is simp shit"
It's actually the manly and mutually respectful thing to do dumbass.
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
āIts not over that easily and saying its over just coz the woman says it is simp shitā
I guess you havenāt received the memo about the @MeeToo movement regarding sexual abuse and sexual harassment..
No means no, it doesnāt matter how women say it.
I know that you are now experiencing unrequited love and that is painful and demoralizing to you.
āTrue Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart...ā ~ Washington Irving
Because of the pain you are feeling, you are stalking, punishing, or intruding in your ex-girlfriend new life without you, unable to stop pursuing that broken relationship...
You should realize that you are degrading and humiliating yourself by acting this way trying to reverse your fate...
Sadly, you cannot give up your ex-girlfriend, no matter how clearly you know that the relationship is over....
Even when she tries to avoid you, or even humiliates you, you wonāt, or canāt, give up...it is sad...
I have to insist on:
Pics and Vids of the Pitch Black Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isnāt so.
:D
That's not how relationships work. It's not what someone says its their actions that matter. Shes still all over me.
LMAO you're still projecting. Not blocking your IG doesn't constitute being "all over you".
You're so delusional. And all over her like a creepy stalker. š
"That's not how relationships work."
So says the RIL trick bitch that has to use money and drugs on a junkie stripper whore to establish said "relationship". LMAO you make your "relationships" work no different than a trick. You have no clue about how to establish a civie relationship. Like not even close.
...which is why you can't even compete with a two bit junkie dealer. You're an even bigger loser in said "relationships". ššš
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
āThat's not how relationships work. It's not what someone says its their actions that matter. Shes still all over me.ā
You should know that the ability to form healthy relationships is learned.
The ability to form a good healthy relationship is developed in childhood, when a baby has caregivers/mother and father whom lovingly attend the infant needs for food and shelter along with stimulating his/her development and social contact.
This initial relationship established the patterns of relating to others.
This foundation of how healthy relationships work is very important, to learn how to transition from the beginning to the end o of a relationship in a healthy way.
However if the relationship is not healthy, the end of such relationship is a source of great anguish and emotional pain.
The end of a unhealthy relationship triggers emotional trauma that sometimes lingers for years.
The breakup can have an effect on your ego and your self-esteem and you really need to work on yourself before you can move on.
Be careful out there.
Relationships are about emotions. Its how you make a woman feel. You don't convince her to feel.
And of course positive Relationships are the best and that's the goal.
Yeah icee she probably has genuine feelings about option A. He makes her feel better than option B. Also she's going for a relationship a lot more positive than her last. As you stated, that's the goal!
Clearly she's caught them feelings for option A.
Joined his winning team lulz
He's got her submitting to him. He gives her everything she wants and needs.
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
āRelationships are about emotions. Its how you make a woman feel. You don't convince her to feel.ā
So how do you think you are making her feel with you stalking her?
And what are you trying to do at the end of the day if not to āconvince herā to have pity on you and to come back to you?
You realize that you are a perfect example of what the field of psychology calls cognitive dissonance, right?
Your perception of contradictory information is unrealistic, and YOU are in denial of the reality of your break up, because it is not what YOU want, and donāt care about what she wants and needs.
āIf you love something, let it go.
If it comes back to you, its yours forever.
If it doesnāt, then it was never meant to be.ā
Again I must insist;
Pics and Vids of the Pitch Black Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isnāt so.
:D
Im not stalking her. Were both watching each other. And she's starting to act nice. Im trying to remind her what we have and making her remember feelings and jts working
Burnouts will ruin your car.
LMAO she's gonna need some money from you again. That's why she's talking. A ho's gotta ho. Remember to promise to give her money like you always do. All that talk don't mean shit unless you pay a ho. You know that.
"Be manipulative with her feelings."
Hey ICEE, remember...
"- Sheās not happy with herself and never satisfied, sheās always looking for a quick fix and fast satisfaction. You have to be a few steps ahead of her and make sure you fulfil her needs for constant stimulation so that she has no reason to stray. The number one thing you need to do to fulfill her needs is to make her dependent on you for as much as possible. You basically have to manage her life. Its what these bitches crave. She doesnāt have any control in her life so sheās going to give it to you. If you donāt take control sheās gon be a loose cannon, spend all of her and your money on drugs and stupid shit, get all self destructive."
"- Notice the pattern. Its about control."
"These bitches associate everything with money. Their self worth is linked to how much money they get for their looks. Affection, happiness, anything positive, its expressed with money. Its just how the stripper life is. These are bitches who are viewed as commodities so they act on it. She will accept everything."
Hey icee how much of your $50k discretionary spending are you going to use at one time to get her back? $5k? $10k? $25k? All $50k at once?
If you're always a little bitch around her like you are here, I can see where she'd consider the loser weed guy a step up...
===> "Relationships are about emotions. Its how you make a woman feel. You don't convince her to feel."
You're bouncing all over the place.
On one hand you start the thread by framing it like it's some check the box exercise, but then you post the part about emotions being the key factor.
Then on one hand you post about not accepting that she is "right" but then concede that you can't convince her feel.
You're a fucking mess dude. No wonder she's letting that loser fuck her brains out. You're 50 shades fucked in the head, lol.
I replied to different tangents. Thats not being all over the place.
I'm kinda ignoring her now and she's the one chasing me. Saying its all a misunderstanding and I'm just tripping. Which I don't know how to respond to.
And so what if im getting my feelings out here. At least I'm man enough. And I'm seeing my strategy with her work.
LMAO you weren't "man" enough to just walk away. You were simp and passive aggressive enough though. LOL she's just working you for more money coz that's your "relationship". Also make sure to have some coke for her. š
I wonder long itāll take Icee to figure out she is going to pay him the most attention around the 15th and the 1st...
LOL she's gonna be living rent free in his head and townhouse. Gonna be back on her trick's gravy train soon, if the price is right.
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
āAnd so what if im getting my feelings out hereā
You should know that;
āLoving someone who doesnāt love you back is like hugging a cactus. The tighter you hold on, the more itās going to hurt.ā
You need to understand and accept that YOU canāt force HER to love you back. Maybe she did needed you at some point, but she now likes the Boricua/Greek biker drug pusher more...
YOU have been using your relationship with your EX to define your self-worth.
And now that she is gone your self-worth has plummeted beyond belief.
Like I said you should man up and become a 1% biker, the Mongols are the Mexican club of choice, and then you will be able to brand your girlfriend as your property, the way you seem to want the relationship to be...
Again I must insist;
Pics and Vids of the Pitch Black Dodge Demon Challenger at The Drag Strip or it isnāt so.
:D
He's not a biker. He rides a dirt bike illegally coz he can't afford a car.
And she does love me. She's just fucked up. If she didn't she wouldn't be chasing me now. Now I'm ignoring her.
"And she does love me. She's just fucked up. If she didn't she wouldn't be chasing me now. Now I'm ignoring her."
^^^ A junkie stripper whore loves her trick sugar daddies.
If you didn't always simp and give her money and drugs to support her habits she wouldn't be chasing you now. Lulz.
"Im hoping if nothing else, she misses the money."
ššš
^That and with 8 roommates with the other guy she probably does miss the bathroom sitch back at Iceys hovel.
I got 2 bathrooms lulz
Bragging about bathrooms lulz
LMAO icee you do so well livin' the simp life my nigga.
LMFAO you big simpin' š
"Why would someone say no to that much cash.... especially in her position"
ššš
"But Im hoping she wastes her money, doesn't make much and realizes what she misses."
š¤£š¤£š¤£
"She won't find this elsewhere...it was a lot. A few hundred a day, some days over a thousand."
lulz
"i dont think she can find a source of cash this stable."
lol
"Think about it, a dumbass whose in love with her would be the easiest target if it was just $$$. Dancers take advantage of niggaz who crush on them all the time."
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It's funny how icee was quick to point out how option A makes his money (dealing weed and such) but couldn't do the same for option B. It speaks volumes to me.
There's something she doesn't want us to know about B's source of income. š¤š¤š¤
In order to be as objective as possible, we need to know what option B does for a living. It's only fair to both options!
For all we know option B just lives off mommy's money. š¤·
^ Who really cares both options A & B. Are figments of OPs imagination same as his ho GF.
We cant all be debonair millionaires like you
I'm just trying to be objective even if it is a "thought experiment" only @twentyfive.
I get what you are saying, though. OP lives in a fantasy world. Thinking she's found genuine "love" with a junkie stripper whore. It's the stuff RIL tricks are made of. They imagine shit in their heads coz the reality is that they have to buy all that "love". It's like the pinnacle of being a PL.
@twentyfive have you noticed how obsessed icee is about your money? She brings it up on the boards all the time. Methinks she's envious in a passive aggressive way. š
Sorry for OT. Just making an observation.
Hypothetically speaking only, if twentyfive was option C, it's a no brainer for her. Just saying.
^ Iād never have any interest in any broad that would be seen dead or alive with that loser
^ Yeah understood same here. Junkie stripper whores and knowing your woman is sucking broke ass weed dealer dick ain't my thing either.
I'm just saying I think OP wishes she were you with your money.
^ @twentyfive
"A also gas an only fans where he puts videos of you after he gets youbfucked up and fucks you."
^^^ As a consolation prize, I wonder if option B subscribes to that onlyfans account. LMAO a virtual cuckold. š
Bad bitch or not, it's gonna take a special type of simp and cuck to want a junkie stripper whore to come back to you. But if that's the only type of woman the cuck simp can get, I guess "he" should take it.
Knowing that "he's" kissing the same lips that have been around option A's and others' cocks take a very special type of cuck simp. Wouldn't you agree, icee?
And furthermore, how can she be a "bad bitch" when she's a junkie stripper whore that sucks and fucks cock for coke?
A bad bitch is an independent, confident, and beautiful woman, not some addict hooker that's so desperate she has to settle for either A of B. She's desperate bitch at best.
^ "one sad bitch" has a better ring to it, wouldn't you say, icee? (Lulz)
One would think it would be too easy to get with a junkie stripper whore. Doesn't take much of anything. Some money for designer bags, expensive make-up, some coke - and a pathetic loser like A or B is set. GFE on a regular basis!
Hey icee, during any time that you "dated" this coke whore, did she ever get other dude's cum on you by accident or some shit? Like she forgot to wash herself after she was with another trick or dealer getting him off? Did you ever wonder if her lips had a little wang taste?
In a way, whenever options A or B are kissing or eating out this junkie stripper whore on their own GFE time with her, they're kissing each other. š¤. (Lulz no homo)
I still can't decide who I'd choose. I really need to know what option B does for income. Hypothetically speaking, as a true bad bitch it's important that I know exactly what kind of "man" option B is and what "his" job is is kinda important.
What does B do to have $50k discretionary spending? A bad bitch wants to know! š¤·
I mean really @icee, you went to all the trouble of making all these comparisons, like their heights, their homes, and their vehicles, but then you only point out that A is a weed dealer for a living and nothing for B. lulz
...their ethnicities
...their body types
...even their roommates LMAO š¤£
But not their jobs?!?!
C'mon icee, throw us a freaking bone here. What does B do for a living?
It seems Lapdancealot has found his new Nicole...lol
@wall LOL the bigger the troll, the bigger I troll.
But, at the moment I'm just participating in a good thread. (no trollo š¼)
I'm gonna guess that B is at least a Molly dealer. "He's" clearly superior to A, so "he" can't be a weed dealer.
@icee amiright, my nigga?
LMAO a true bad bitch wouldn't have anything to do with either of those losers.
But a coke junkie stripper whore might go with whomever keeps her coke supply the most consistent. Heck, she'd probably keep stringing both of them along, especially if one of them caught feelings for her. She could make him her side trick but keep fucking the other as her main dick. She could string him along for years š¤
Lap! Lap! Lap!
Juice! Juice! Juice!
@2ICEE
You wrote, on July 1, 2021, and I quote:
āI was in the hospital for alcohol poisoningā
I would recommend to you to do the following:
Donāt Drink and Post
Donāt Drink and Drive
Admit to yourself that YOU have a Problem with Drugs and Alcohol and find a Solution to the problem.
Be careful out there.
I don't have a substance abuse problem.
@2ICEE
You wrote, on July 1, 2021, and I quote: āI was in the hospital for alcohol poisoningā
And on July 8, 2021, you wrote: āI don't have a substance abuse problem.ā
I believe you are, like most people, in denial of the situation.
āPeople keep using the substance(s), even when they know it is causing or will cause problems.
The most severe SUDs (Substance Use Disorders)are sometimes called addictions.
People with substance use and behavioral addictions may be aware of their problem but not be able to stop even if they want and try to.ā
See the complete article here:
āWhat Is a Substance Use Disorder?ā
The first step is to Admit to yourself that YOU have a Problem with Drugs and Alcohol and find a Solution to the problem.
Only you can choose to get help and recover from the addictions.
Take care and be careful out there.
A creepy troll attempting to psychoanalyze a lying troll is the flattest punchline to the least humorous joke.
is being mexican supposed to be the caveat of B because otherwise he sounds like a solid dude. In which case, this comes off as a bit discriminatory.
But we still don't know what B actually does for all that $50k discretionary income to spend. For example if it's from dealing Molly, is that any more "solid" than being a weed dealer like A?
ICEE wrote 52 replies to his own post. Thatās got to be a record, right ?
^ Some people donāt seem to understand that heās just looking for attention he doesnāt care if itās good or bad as long as itās all about him.
I haven't a clue between A) typical stripper boyfriend and B) butt hurt RIL, but IME, the dancer is going to pick C.
C. Nationality doesn't matter. Employment doesn't matter. Took an Uber to the club. Willing to buy her drinks. Has $300 or more in his pocket. Is willing to spend it like it's no big deal. No drama.
yep, I think C wins every time. I pretty much count on it.
ES JAY GEE
@biggdumbass my niggette, what say you? What do you think option B does for a living?
And why is everyone calling you '2ICEE' and 'Icey' all through this thread?
lulz
Lulz
Bacon!!
Icey and his boyfriend Bubby ask for thweesome, Bubby put bananer in Icey tailpipe and ask me to call Bubby Mr Twump. They freak on leash. I blow chunky Icey ass stink like dry blood and poppy. H not a clean n1gga.
A also gas an only fans where he puts videos of you after he gets youbfucked up and fucks you. Without your knowledge at first and now without your consent. Is also a lightweight coke head and pops pills