A- puertorican Greek mix. Broke. Works part time at a dispensary. Steels and sells weed. Illegally drives a dirtbike in the city. Lives with 8 roommates in an apt in the hood. Has 8 ig profiles he stalks people you know with. Cheats on you. 6 ft 4 and skinny
B- Mexican. Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns. 6ft muscular. 50k in discretionary spending a year. Treats you like a Disney princess.
B just smoked weed and drinks boojee. Beer
Who's will to be the first to feed this troll
Stfu troll. If you don't like my thread stay off it
Lol phatty! I would have never thought you were part Greek. I suppose your inferiority complex against the Mexican guy that your imaginary GF left you for is still bugging you in your online world. LMAO
I thought Ice was Egyptian.
Ugh go troll someone else
^
Follow your advice on another forum.
Stop trolling me bitch
Sirlapdancealot. Youre right i feel like a fucking loser. On paper my life looks so good and no one believes I have problems with women.
Today when I was at the gas station this 5ft curvy exotic mixed black latina looking girl was all over me gave me her number first. At the checkout line at Ralph's a hot mesixan girl asked me how to check out and gave me her number and ig.
But the one woman.ive loved in my life leaves me for a piece of shit like that.
When im at the club dancers lift my shirt up kiss my stomach and chest grab my dick....its real thick. At regular clubs and bars I get attention.
But the one I love left me for that. Thats my fuvked up life
^ And then you woke up still in east LA!
Sirlapdancealot if you have real advice for me tell me please
Theosu not from East la. I was born and raised in South Central
Everything i accomplished jn life. I spend to take care of my mom and people I love. Im not selfish or greedy.
I cant blame 8t all on her habit. Life js fucjed up
5 years isn't a great. Girls leaving the club to fuck coz I paid their $40 house fee to leave isn't tricking.
If I were worse than hom so many women wouldn't want me.
And I'm cheap with women. She was the only one I ever spent much on. But its 5 years.
Girls are happy with king taco and me giving them my tshirts
Like when I was with a girl who had a rich sugar daddy who took her on all these trips. She was so happy 2ith me getting her the best tacos and my vintage batman t-shirt.
We live in different worlds my nigga
It would depend more on their personality than the things you list like ethnicity, what they drive and which drugs they do considering they both do drugs.
Have you ever considered that she knows how you talk about women on here and that is why she left? Or worse, do you talk the same way in real life?
Whodey. I just say it how it is. But I treat her like a treasure. She talks worse about bitches. Most women aren't pc
I've been unconditionally supportive and have never let her down.
Just because you treat her like a treasure personally doesn't mean she wouldn't leave based on how you treat others.
She left you so she obviously had a reason. It could be your personality, your actions or just that she didn't love you.
Regardless of the reason its time to move on, if you can't do that in a healthy way seek professional help.
She left coz he does coke with her.
Life isn't pc. Relationships are about emotion.
Sirlapdancealot but I actually bdo have a nice body. They enjoy it. I work out everybday lift weights. Have done so for years. I always get asked if im a pro athlete
When I was in the hospital for alcohol poisoning the nurses actually thought i was a pro athlete
Desertscrub you're gbe most ignored person on here. Fuck off
"Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns. 6ft muscular. 50k in discretionary spending a year. Treats you like a Disney princess."
You of all guys should know girls like this love guys that treat them like shit. They don't know any different so when they get treated with respect it makes them cautious.
Automatically blaming a man for everything is the ultimate pc simp shit.
She quit 2 clubs coz all the girls and even management took my side. She won't dance in Vegas coz of me. So fuck off.
Shailynn bad boy and complete loser are 2 different things
Sirlapdancealot a girl leaving a club to smoke $60of weed after paying her $40 house fee isn't tricking
Its a fucking mindfuck women wanting you and the only one you want fucking you over. Living the perfect life on paper but shit in real life not making any sense.
"Relationships are about emotion."
You are right about this. Clearly her emotions told her she doesn't love you and she would rather be with him. Even if she has no logical reason to want him more than you it is clear she does. The heart wants what the heart wants and her heart wants him.
Man up and respect her choice.
She can make a lot more staying in the club. $40 is nothing and weed isn't a drug. You can get it on every other street
Whodey thats a pc simp view.
Now you ran out of shit to say so you're just trolling
Icee if you think respecting a woman's right to choose who she loves is a "a pc simp view" then clearly your attitude and personality are why she left you.
Even if you are as rich and good looking and women who don't know you well throw themselves at you that doesn't mean they will stay with you once they get to know the real you. Obviously even a drugged out stripper couldn't stand to be around an asshole like you anymore. That should tell you everything you need to know.
Maybe the world would be better off if you hadn't failed in your attempt to kill yourself. Since you couldn't do that right and you are obviously emotionally disturbed seek professional help before you end up loosing control and end up killing the woman you are obsessed with or her new man.
Does the puertorican Greek mix only live 2 blocks from the beach?
All I have to say is if any of Icee's delusions were real he'd have been meeting other PL's and showing off, but this is such delusional shit, it's hard to take it seriously. My advice to you Icee is still the same get some professional help, this is batshit crazy.
Icee said "Here's an obviously biased 'hypothetical' question about two people who don't exist, who would you pi--
OH HOLY MOTHER OF GOD! PLEASE FEED MY ADDICTION TO ATTENTION! FEED ME RIGHT NOW!"
Fun fact ... founder offered, perhaps a few times, to meet Icee in person. This was back when Icee was bitching about the new-at-that-time "verified" account status. I seem to remember that Icee begged off because of "privacy" or some such thing. Which is weird for a guy who, based on his own posts, is all over social media and a big player in clubs (strip or otherwise).
I mean, if everything that Icee has to say about himself were true, then he'd be the one guy on here who should have no problem showing his actual face in his profile avatar, let alone meeting up with a website administrator for a beer.
Except back when Icee was "Iceyloco" he did post a profile avatar that he purported to be him, but another user knew how to do an image lookup on Google, and revealed that the avatar Icee posted was actually some obscure, low-grade rapper. I think that this happened before he posted images of his "main bitch" that also turned out to be false under the barest of scrutiny.
If you want to treat him or this latest life "crisis" of his as if it's true, have at it. But, all you're doing is indulging a role-playing fantasy created to garner attention and create turmoil. What Icee knows about strippers and strip clubs could come from a number of sources, but it's not via him being a muscular Mexican with $50K in discretionary income.
But for those who want to play along, I guess that's fun for you.
"Treats you like a Disney princess."
If you locked her in a tower, made her clean your house while dressed in rags, slipped her sleeping pills, or fed her poison apples, I guess we know why she left.
You missed it Ishmael, phatty isn't behind door letter B, he's door letter A...
"A- puertorican Greek mix. Broke. Works part time at a dispensary. Steels and sells weed. Illegally drives a dirtbike in the city. Lives with 8 roommates in an apt in the hood. Has 8 ig profiles he stalks people you know with. Cheats on you. 6 ft 4 and skinny"
He left out the little bitch, attention whore, crybaby, fentanyl dealing, free legal advice parts. I still can't believe that some of the guys here actually believe the BS he spins but it is the internet.
Debating the depths of Icee's fantasy world feels like a debate we all lose, ultimately.
Icee’s got white Knight syndrome trying to save bitches who make $$ off tricks, except he ain’t white. That’s the epitome of insanity!
If I was a bad bitch I’d be telling the silly feuding bois “it’s not gay, when it’s in a three way…”
I asked a simple question. A or B.
No need to troll. But then I could post anything and you'd still troll me.
If you don't want to participate in the thread block me or don't reply. Its easy. But don't troll.
And calling me an asshole coz I reply to your attacks makes you delusional.
Youre out if touch with reality. Get out more
You got precisely the response you were expecting and hoped for.
Cim i asked for a or b not you and the geriatric trick clique trolling my thread
Sircumsinhispantsalot you described yourself and the geriatric trick clique
Meta-question: Why would one want to be a dancer or a bad bitch? Or be in a long-term relationship with one?
The old saw applies, you can't make a hoe into a housewife.
Tetradon. Nothing wrong with strippers or bad bitches. If that's your circle why not date them. Dating strippers doesn't revolve around them being strippers. Their job isn't a big deal.
Get a fucking life. You troll me here 24 7. Fucking stalker.
A is the classic stripper boyfriend
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
“Mexican. Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns.”
Pics and Vids of the Plum Crazy Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isn’t so.
:D
You should know, by now, that your “romantic feelings” have nothing to do with loving the "real" other person. It is a mixture of lust and idealizing your ex-“girlfriend” fooling yourself into thinking she is 'the one'...that is not “real love”
It is almost a matter of “life and death” for you to understand this reality; so that you won’t let fairy tales and “passion” over-rule your natural survival instinct and judgement.
You, like many other raised and indoctrinated in our selfish, materialistic society often call “love” what in reality is obsession, idealization, possessiveness, lust...
You have unrealistic expectations about how your “beloved” is going to meet YOUR “needs and desires” to make YOU happy.
Your deep insecurities and needs make you seek in her what you think you want in your life.
You think you “need/want” her to be in charge of your happiness.
And she probably wanted you to be in charge of her happiness too, you both are foolishly thinking you are “incomplete” looking to be completed by the other.
The two of you are now, not only still “incomplete”, but terrible disappointed because of the unrealistic expectations.
You both are/were in a relationship with power struggle issues and mutual manipulation, trying to get the other to meet YOUR “needs”
So a half Boricua/Greek, Taller, pusher/drug dealer “biker” was able to get the attention of the woman you are in “love” with and you are “broken hearted”...
You should know that what you call “love” is in part biologically programmed (a desire to have sex to procreate) but mostly you learned it from culturally indoctrination.
You thought your girlfriend was in a “committed” relationship with You, but her sexual desire for you was waning.
She found herself feeling restless and dissatisfied with the relationship.
Then she meet a tall dark Boricua/Greek, drug dealer, biker bad boy, and she experiences instant feelings of attraction and longing.
Instead of working to improve her current disappointing relationship with you, she was overcome by lust for the possibility of someone new, maybe better...
The reality is that best relationships are between people who really, sincerely care for each other but are can be happy remaining single.
However we have been indoctrinated into believing that “drama” is necessary in the fairytale that should be our love history.
“A boy proposed to a girl, She rejected him. He was not sad. His friends asked him why he didn’t feel sad? The boy responded: Why should I be sad? I lost someone who didn’t love me. She lost someone who loved her.”
Be a man, grow up, get yourself a Harley and become a 1% biker, so you can “patch”-brand your woman as your property, and no one would dare to try to steal your property.
Be careful out there.
Cjkent I agree with a lot of what you say. But it was real love and it wasn't a struggle. Our relationship was great. She still has feelings. When a woman has strong emotions when dealing with you or tries to avoid you in a situation like this its guilt and feelings.
The problem is her habit and he indulges it while I approached it with harm reduction and wanted her to get real help. She met him through her junkie hoe friends. He.feeds their habits.
Im not a control freak And we lived together for 4 years so youre just trolling as usual.
You actually go through threads to pick up quotes and repost them out of context in unrelated threads. She said it was controlling and obsessive to find out she cheated and who she cheated with. Yeah its different jn context
===> "Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns. 6ft muscular. 50k in discretionary spending a year. Treats you like a Disney princess."
LOL. You're posting like you own a mansion with a Bentley and a Ferrari parked out in the front. 😉
Look dude, attraction isn't a checklist and we don't know your bad qualities, but I'm sure that she does. Some girls don't want to be treated like Disney princesses. Heck if you had kids and watched that Disney stuff, you'd know that Disney princesses themselves often chafe at how they are coddled, growing increasingly bored and frustrated with their situations until they break free.
Maybe you were too controlling and he makes her feel free. Maybe he fucks her like a porn star or just rocks her world in the sack by treating her like the bad girl that she is. Maybe he's better looking than you and makes her panties wet. Maybe any combination of the three, along with her drugs of course. Maybe there are other things she prefers about him too.
You can't turn an alley cat into a house cat any more than you can turn an emotionally challenged drug addict into Betty Crocker. I'm guessing that you're somewhere on the autism spectrum, which is why you struggle to understand why your "check the box" situation is not appealing to her and also why you're struggling so much to let her go.
"Owns a townhouse 3 blocks from the beach. Drives a 2018 dodge demon challenger that he owns. 6ft muscular. 50k in discretionary spending a year. Treats you like a Disney princess."
... or ...
I wasn't controlling she claimed I was for finding out she cheated and with who. Everything was good. The drugs were the one huge problem. Our sex life was great. I encouraged her to spend time with friends go out...I wasn't controlling. She had everything she could want or need.
He controls her. Doesn't want her around friends or any men. Stalks her friends and family on social media. Stalks me. Is verbally and emotionally abusive.
My townhouse is worth more than a mansion in Texas or Atlanta lulz
Cim. 20fag is the millionaire on this forum.
You think it's controlling and obsessive to notice something is off so you lurk on instagram and ask a mutual friend and find out she's cheating?
Stop trolling me. Thats all you do on here. Youre obsessed with me
And telling someone to give up on a 5 year n relationship and acting like the woman is always right is pure simp shit.
Thats not how it happened and she obviously has feelings. It's really complicated . Youre talking out of your ass
Im ignoring your obsessed autistic troll ass
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
“Cjkent I agree with a lot of what you say. But it was real love and it wasn't a struggle.”
You are still in denial, obsessed, and refuse to accept the reality of your situation.
“My brother once told me that nothing someone says before the word “but” really counts” ~ Benjen Stark
I insist:
Pics and Vids of the Plum Crazy in color, Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isn’t so.
:D
What can be identified as “real love” requires patience, understanding and being prepared to let him/her go if that is what is best for him/her.
This is because you sincerely care for each other but are/can be happy remaining single.
O top of all these issues you need to accept that, when you are “in love” with an addict, her addiction takes precedence over everything else, including you.
And there is nothing you can do to change that.
You need to remember the common sense phrase: “You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink”
It It means that there are some things that you cannot force someone to do, in your case, you can’t force her to quit her drug addiction and you can’t make her “love you” and be faithful.
Remember that in this life, inner peace brings fulfillment, and if you attain it, life works for you and happiness is unavoidable.
“The lifestyle of one who follows the Tao must be thought of as a form of intelligence.
That is, knowing the patterns, structures, and trends of human and natural affairs so well that one uses the least amount of energy dealing with them.”
And you should always remember:
“In this country, you gotta make the money first.
Then when you get the money, you get the power.
Then when you get the power, then you get the women.
That’s why you got to make your own moves.”
— Tony Montana — Movies: “Scarface” ~ Released: December 9, 1983 (USA)
C. None of the above.
I'd rather be lesbian than A or B.
Cjkent we lived together for 4 years been together for 5. I don't question our love. People fuck over those they love all the time. There was pressure from her best friends. One of her best friends was fucking his brother. He encouraged the drug use...they all did together. I didn't do anything wrong.
...and the point of this thread is?!?!
If you don't like it don't participate in it
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
“Cjkent we lived together for 4 years been together for 5. I don't question our love. People fuck over those they love all the time. There was pressure from her best friends. One of her best friends was fucking his brother. He encouraged the drug use...they all did together. I didn't do anything wrong.”
Good people don’t “fuck over those they love all the time”, that is what you believe because of the cultural indoctrination you have been exposed to in this materialistic selfish contradictory society.
You need to understand that there are things you have control over, mainly yourself, what you do and how you react to the world around you.
And there are things you have no control over, the people and the world around you.
Focus on yourself having a good safe healthy life, physically, mentally, spiritually, and don’t allow anything you can’t control create disruption in your life.
What you did wrong was getting involved with a unstable drug addict for five years. You need to walk away from this type of person, no matter how sexually attracted you are to her.
All healthy relationships are based on this fact:
You are responsible for your own happiness.
No one can make you happy or sad and no one can break your heart without you letting them.
Of course your girlfriend did things you didn’t like, said unkind things when angry, and didn’t respected you and acted in ways you didn’t expected.
All of that may have really happened but none of that should have affected your happiness.
The way how you choose to react to those situations is what affected/affects your happiness.
Our happiness depends on how we react to what happens around us, YOU CAN choose to be happy even in the most difficult situations you experience in your life.
Again I must insist:
Pics and Vids of the Plum Crazy in color, Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isn’t so.
:D
Be careful out there and remember:
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen
Happiness is a reaction to external stimuli.
We've been talking. Okay arguing. She won't block me. She watches my ig. There are feelings.
You don't give up on someone just coz they're fucked up but you put up more boundaries.
My car is black. It was either that or silver
===> "And telling someone to give up on a 5 year n relationship and acting like the woman is always right is pure simp shit."
This right here is your problem. A relationship is over when one of the two people says it is. She's made her choice clear - there is no "right" or "wrong" about it. Failing to grasp this makes you seem both stupid and obsessed.
She won't block me. Checks my social media. Texts me everyday to tell me she's not going to talk to me ever again. She replies on my social media but claims she's not watching that it just popped up.and he's butthurt snd stalking me more than sirlapdancealot.
Its not over that easily and saying its over just coz the woman says it is simp shit
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
“Its not over that easily and saying its over just coz the woman says it is simp shit”
I guess you haven’t received the memo about the @MeeToo movement regarding sexual abuse and sexual harassment..
No means no, it doesn’t matter how women say it.
I know that you are now experiencing unrequited love and that is painful and demoralizing to you.
“True Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart...” ~ Washington Irving
Because of the pain you are feeling, you are stalking, punishing, or intruding in your ex-girlfriend new life without you, unable to stop pursuing that broken relationship...
You should realize that you are degrading and humiliating yourself by acting this way trying to reverse your fate...
Sadly, you cannot give up your ex-girlfriend, no matter how clearly you know that the relationship is over....
Even when she tries to avoid you, or even humiliates you, you won’t, or can’t, give up...it is sad...
I have to insist on:
Pics and Vids of the Pitch Black Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isn’t so.
:D
That's not how relationships work. It's not what someone says its their actions that matter. Shes still all over me.
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
“That's not how relationships work. It's not what someone says its their actions that matter. Shes still all over me.”
You should know that the ability to form healthy relationships is learned.
The ability to form a good healthy relationship is developed in childhood, when a baby has caregivers/mother and father whom lovingly attend the infant needs for food and shelter along with stimulating his/her development and social contact.
This initial relationship established the patterns of relating to others.
This foundation of how healthy relationships work is very important, to learn how to transition from the beginning to the end o of a relationship in a healthy way.
However if the relationship is not healthy, the end of such relationship is a source of great anguish and emotional pain.
The end of a unhealthy relationship triggers emotional trauma that sometimes lingers for years.
The breakup can have an effect on your ego and your self-esteem and you really need to work on yourself before you can move on.
Be careful out there.
Relationships are about emotions. Its how you make a woman feel. You don't convince her to feel.
And of course positive Relationships are the best and that's the goal.
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
“Relationships are about emotions. Its how you make a woman feel. You don't convince her to feel.”
So how do you think you are making her feel with you stalking her?
And what are you trying to do at the end of the day if not to “convince her” to have pity on you and to come back to you?
You realize that you are a perfect example of what the field of psychology calls cognitive dissonance, right?
Your perception of contradictory information is unrealistic, and YOU are in denial of the reality of your break up, because it is not what YOU want, and don’t care about what she wants and needs.
“If you love something, let it go.
If it comes back to you, its yours forever.
If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.”
Again I must insist;
Pics and Vids of the Pitch Black Dodge Demon Challenger doings burnouts or it isn’t so.
:D
Im not stalking her. Were both watching each other. And she's starting to act nice. Im trying to remind her what we have and making her remember feelings and jts working
Burnouts will ruin your car.
If you're always a little bitch around her like you are here, I can see where she'd consider the loser weed guy a step up...
===> "Relationships are about emotions. Its how you make a woman feel. You don't convince her to feel."
You're bouncing all over the place.
On one hand you start the thread by framing it like it's some check the box exercise, but then you post the part about emotions being the key factor.
Then on one hand you post about not accepting that she is "right" but then concede that you can't convince her feel.
You're a fucking mess dude. No wonder she's letting that loser fuck her brains out. You're 50 shades fucked in the head, lol.
I replied to different tangents. Thats not being all over the place.
I'm kinda ignoring her now and she's the one chasing me. Saying its all a misunderstanding and I'm just tripping. Which I don't know how to respond to.
And so what if im getting my feelings out here. At least I'm man enough. And I'm seeing my strategy with her work.
I wonder long it’ll take Icee to figure out she is going to pay him the most attention around the 15th and the 1st...
@2ICEE
You wrote and I quote:
“And so what if im getting my feelings out here”
You should know that;
“Loving someone who doesn’t love you back is like hugging a cactus. The tighter you hold on, the more it’s going to hurt.”
You need to understand and accept that YOU can’t force HER to love you back. Maybe she did needed you at some point, but she now likes the Boricua/Greek biker drug pusher more...
YOU have been using your relationship with your EX to define your self-worth.
And now that she is gone your self-worth has plummeted beyond belief.
Like I said you should man up and become a 1% biker, the Mongols are the Mexican club of choice, and then you will be able to brand your girlfriend as your property, the way you seem to want the relationship to be...
Again I must insist;
Pics and Vids of the Pitch Black Dodge Demon Challenger at The Drag Strip or it isn’t so.
:D
He's not a biker. He rides a dirt bike illegally coz he can't afford a car.
And she does love me. She's just fucked up. If she didn't she wouldn't be chasing me now. Now I'm ignoring her.
^That and with 8 roommates with the other guy she probably does miss the bathroom sitch back at Iceys hovel.
I got 2 bathrooms lulz
^ Who really cares both options A & B. Are figments of OPs imagination same as his ho GF.
We cant all be debonair millionaires like you
^ I’d never have any interest in any broad that would be seen dead or alive with that loser
It seems Lapdancealot has found his new Nicole...lol
Lap! Lap! Lap!
Juice! Juice! Juice!
@2ICEE
You wrote, on July 1, 2021, and I quote:
”I was in the hospital for alcohol poisoning”
I would recommend to you to do the following:
Don’t Drink and Post
Don’t Drink and Drive
Admit to yourself that YOU have a Problem with Drugs and Alcohol and find a Solution to the problem.
Be careful out there.
I don't have a substance abuse problem.
@2ICEE
You wrote, on July 1, 2021, and I quote: ”I was in the hospital for alcohol poisoning”
And on July 8, 2021, you wrote: “I don't have a substance abuse problem.”
I believe you are, like most people, in denial of the situation.
“People keep using the substance(s), even when they know it is causing or will cause problems.
The most severe SUDs (Substance Use Disorders)are sometimes called addictions.
People with substance use and behavioral addictions may be aware of their problem but not be able to stop even if they want and try to.”
See the complete article here:
“What Is a Substance Use Disorder?”
The first step is to Admit to yourself that YOU have a Problem with Drugs and Alcohol and find a Solution to the problem.
Only you can choose to get help and recover from the addictions.
Take care and be careful out there.
A creepy troll attempting to psychoanalyze a lying troll is the flattest punchline to the least humorous joke.
is being mexican supposed to be the caveat of B because otherwise he sounds like a solid dude. In which case, this comes off as a bit discriminatory.
ICEE wrote 52 replies to his own post. That’s got to be a record, right ?
^ Some people don’t seem to understand that he’s just looking for attention he doesn’t care if it’s good or bad as long as it’s all about him.
I haven't a clue between A) typical stripper boyfriend and B) butt hurt RIL, but IME, the dancer is going to pick C.
C. Nationality doesn't matter. Employment doesn't matter. Took an Uber to the club. Willing to buy her drinks. Has $300 or more in his pocket. Is willing to spend it like it's no big deal. No drama.
yep, I think C wins every time. I pretty much count on it.
ES JAY GEE
Lulz
Bacon!!
Icey and his boyfriend Bubby ask for thweesome, Bubby put bananer in Icey tailpipe and ask me to call Bubby Mr Twump. They freak on leash. I blow chunky Icey ass stink like dry blood and poppy. H not a clean n1gga.
A also gas an only fans where he puts videos of you after he gets youbfucked up and fucks you. Without your knowledge at first and now without your consent. Is also a lightweight coke head and pops pills