While getting a dance, I refer to a club that the dancer used to work at as a “black club.” She says that I shouldn’t use that term. So I say what do I call it. She says it’s an urban club. So from then on I call that category of clubs urban and it’s all good. For context, this was an urban dancer.
Later in the evening I’m getting dances from a white dancer and the subject of black clubs comes up again. I refer to them as urban clubs and she says what the duck is an urban club. I say a black club, and she says that I shouldn't use that term. WTF!
So what do I call what used to be called black clubs. Or can I keep using that term. How about “giant ass clubs?”


Sounds like a question that should be handled by Mr Chulo 😉