Just a few paragraphs here to say that I've learned a bit about myself over the past few weeks.
After not having been to a strip club or any other erotic entertainment venue in a few years, I hopped back into the game by visiting a few Asian Massage parlors. I got what you'd expect each time, but came out somehow hating the experience. The whole vibe was off. I know some people look to these places for extras, but I felt unfulfilled and just kinda blah. I was anxious the whole time I was in there.
Went to a strip club tonight, spent a little money, and feel much better. The whole vibe is different. I just enjoy the intangibles much better: having a drink or two; having some conversations with the girls before/after dances; and just kinda hanging out. And I actually forgot how much fun it can be to just get a few "grindy" dances from the girl of your choice.
Anyway, I know some guys do both--but I'll stick to strip clubs going forward.
I gave AMPs a try again after several years away. Same game with same old faces, but higher prices. I really miss the 90s when the girls were hot and young, high-mileage table showers were included, and the girls really encouraged extras.
As it is, I agree with you - it's more fun hanging with cute, English-speaking girls in a grindy night-club environment.