So what should you do when you see an acquaintance or fellow coworker at the clu

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• goldmongerATL

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  5 years ago

  I woild avoid if they were a customer. Buy a dance if they were dancing.
• Clubber

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  5 years ago

  I was in a club near a Fedex office I often used. In walked a young LADY that worked there. She saw me as she walked past and we acknowledged each other. Never was a mention of this encounter all the many times we saw each other at Fedex after that.
• Clubber

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  5 years ago

  Also saw the wife of a fellow that worked for me dancing. We all knew of this before I saw her in the club. She even bought me a drink. A couple of years later after the two split up, I saw her in a restaurant and she was just a shell of her former self. Had to be drugs.
• AnonymousJim

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  5 years ago

  Leave. That simple. Make a quiet beeline to the door and leave. There's one club I visit pretty rarely now because a real-life acquaintance is a dancer there now. Another, an acquaintance somehow became a semi-regular. Both know my SO. No need for them to see me or know I do this. Put your drink down and head for the door. Just get out of there.
• Muddy

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  5 years ago

  What is there to hide. I don’t have this secret life or anything. Here is a little secret about me I LOVE PUSSY! And so do you! Now let’s get a fucking beer 🍻!!!! Here’s to men being men! Unless it’s grandma 👵 then oh god I’m in trouble! Hide she’s gonna pull me out by the ear! Run!
• Jascoi

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  5 years ago

  muddy... 'ckink'!!!
• Jascoi

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  5 years ago

  seri strikes again... 'clink!'
• gSteph

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  5 years ago

  Hasn't happened yet. Once I was leaving a porn store and saw an older brother of a friend of mine. I thought, hmm, are all us (ex) Catholics perverts? Never mentioned it.
• rh48hr

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  5 years ago

  Hadn't happened to me in a club. I like gsteph ran into a coworker at an adult boutique. She was already there when I walked in. I was coming in to buy porn for my then wife and I to watch but I just told her I was buying a gag gift for my brother in law. We talked for a few minutes then went our separate ways. It wasn't brought up again, but even though I don't work with her anymore, we are still friends.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  It depends on context and the nature of how I know that person. But it has happened to me a handful of times. I usually leave the club and avoid having them see me. I don't need the drama or even the potential for drama. I can always return to the club at another time. But there was one time where the context was such that I sat down at his table with my drink and said "So... I guess this is something we have in common." And it was fine. But usually, I just leave.
• Papi_Chulo

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  5 years ago

  Extort them "You better buy me a VIP or else"
• Warrior15

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  5 years ago

  Depends on the co-worker. Back when I worked in big corporations and the co-worker was a peer, I'd probably go up and shake their hand. If it's a subordinate , then I'm gonna hide. If it's one of my employees, then I'm leaving immediately. I have a bunch of women working for me and none of them are good looking enough to work in a club, so that's not an issue. I purposely hire women that I don't find attractive. Makes it easier not to fraternize.
• chessmaster

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  5 years ago

  I'm with papi chulo. I have no wife or office co workers to hide my extra curricular activities from. They better buy me a VIP or else...
• MissBoddy

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  5 years ago

  It would depend on who it was or if I was working there that night. Unfortunately timing always plays a role and it would depend on what they have "SEEN" yet or not. 😲👀
• Nidan111

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  5 years ago

  I have no coworkers that would recognize me in most of the clubs I frequent. I’m not sure I even have friends that would recognize me in these places.
• prevert

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  5 years ago

  I’m no longer married and my job is such that I wouldn’t be worried about meeting them. I don’t think it’s likely though. My office is small, less than a half dozen of us.
• Mate27

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  5 years ago

  Leave. You can always come back when things settle down.
• AtAboy

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  5 years ago

  LDK, I remember that thread. I think you made the right choice there and dodged a bullet. Once many years ago in my early 20s went into a local club and I’m at the tip rail and the girl that spread eagle with her vag in my face ended up being a former coworker from a teenager job of ours. Surprisingly it wasn’t awkward and she and I chatted for a bit. One time through brief conversation a patron and I realized we knew someone in common that neither one of us wanted to know this was a thing we do. So I knew he wouldn’t be telling where he saw me. It would depend on who I ran into. A coworker? I’d probably say hi, since they’re there too, so we’re both guilty of being pervs. But say it were someone from my past that I know had no kind of reputation to worry about and who I have purposely not talked to in 10+ years, I’d book for the door.
• Book Guy

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  5 years ago

  If they see me, and I see them, like, if we make eye-contact or whatever, then I try not to completely freak out. I will not depart, but then, I don't have anything to hide. I don't have a wife or a set of co-workers who need to be kept in the dark about any strip-clubbing that I might do, so, I am free to simply live the way I intend to live and, if other people hear about it and disapprove, well, I just don't give a shit and it doesn't impact me. But I do realize that other people aren't in that situation -- maybe you've got a wife or girlfriend whom you don't want to inform of your clubbing, or if your job position would be threatened, either legitimately because you are in some kind of "moral bind" (like, if you're the principal of a middle school, f.e.) or illegitimately simply because you work with Puritanical assholes. If I see the other person but I am totally SURE that the other person hasn't seen me, I think it's kind of fun to lurk for a while and see what they like to do. Sort of disappear into the dark shadows of the club, and watch which girls they like, whether they appear furtive and secretive, or whether they're able to be up-front and out-and-about like I am. I would never bust anybody, or out anybody to any of their co-workers or partners, so, I'm not looking to get "dirt" when I'm watching. I don't want info that I could use against them. I just find it REALLY fascinating to observe. Another point is, it partly depends on what sort of group I'm in, and what sort of group the other person is in. If I arrive with a huge bachelor party whooping it up and we're all wasted and wearing Elmer Fudd outfits, and the bachelor is strapped to a rubber chicken, then, I don't mind being seen by anybody and no-one else would probably mind, either, even if they did have an otherwise risky situation. If the other dude at the club, whom I recognize, arrives alone, half-drunk, groping for girlie ass, trying to get his willie to pop in the back room for $18 and some Binaca mints, then he is likely to be less proud of his behavior, and less happy about being recognized, than if he arrives in aforementioned bachelor party group context.
• lopaw

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  5 years ago

  Grunt, look at the floor, and quickly head towards the exit. Well, that's what I do.
• samiel

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  5 years ago

  I went up and said hello. I saw two people I knew. I don't think they had spotted me, but if they had, I didn't want to make like I was hiding. I saw them talking amongst themselves, but what could I do but face it head on? I left it up to the bro code. If I know they haven't seen me, I might make a timely exit.
• DandyDan

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  5 years ago

  Usually, I don't do anything and hope they go away. There were a couple of guys I would run into at my previous job I would talk with if I saw them, but that was after we all established what perverts we were. At my current job, still haven't run into anyone from work at a club, but since it takes forever to even get to one, I doubt it will happen. I wonder how a conversation about strip clubs would even go for most of them.
• goldmongerATL

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  5 years ago

  Only hiring fuglies at work does not always work. We had a couple of hot admins that would veto hiring women hotter than themselves. We managed to hire a decent looking girl that really did not have skills. Found out after she was gone that the sleazeball hiring manager was her regular at a strip club. He was pressured into getting rid of her because of her skills, not because of her "skills". Right after she left a few of us went to that club. There she was. She is the one that told us that guy hired her and was fucking her at lunch and after work in his office. He was soon fired because HR found out he was fucking his next new hire in his office during work. Not sure if she was also a stripper.
• Estafador

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  5 years ago

  I'd say hi. Nothing says bonding like a deep dark secret.
• Stephanie4life

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  5 years ago

  Buy them a beer and talk shit about our boss.