That guy owned her all night
Darkblue999
Somewhere in the club
I posted about a guy spending time with a dancer for 4 hours.
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5306…
Today I asked the dancer about it . She told me that guy wants her company all night. He pays just to sit and talk with her. Even in champagne room and couch room they sit and talk. Sounds like sugar daddy thing.
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5306…
Today I asked the dancer about it . She told me that guy wants her company all night. He pays just to sit and talk with her. Even in champagne room and couch room they sit and talk. Sounds like sugar daddy thing.
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I directly asked her how much he pays for spending time like that one night.She smiled and said i should not ask those things.
The problem is he is blocking other people from getting dances from her.
When I told her about this issue she said it's ok we will have time for dances.
Oh..her name just announced to come on stage.But she just left into champagne room with that guy. Haha..That guy spending all his salary on that girl.
I told this girl how much is it I will take you for one night. She just laughed.She is damn beautiful and hot.
Some dancers only do appointments. It sounds like you're putting yourself in the middle of something that's reliable income for her. Unless you're volunteering to replace that cash, you're probably not getting anywhere until that guy is done. And maybe not even then.
The dude who takes all her time - enjoys hanging with her. He probably doesn’t care about the cost - but he enjoys hanging with a beautiful dancer. He might also enjoy knowing that she’s his for the night -
She is the only one dancer I liked in the club.if she is not there I don't even like to go to that club. I don't know how many have seen 34DD naturals on a beautiful face with a phat ass.She is the first one I saw.Not even in movies I didn't see 34DD.
You either need to spend more money than him or find another dancer. End of story.
It is not just one night, they have an agreement kind of thing.
Every week he does the same thing.
So she told me she can come earlier for me or some other day if I will let her know.
It's up to her if she wants to dance with me or not.
During a talk with manager I mentioned about her saying she works only a day a week, He told she is the no.1 favorite at the club and top earner. Guys make requests all the time for dances but she don't have time. She also has main job OTC.
I don't have interest in other girls to just get lap dances.She stands out different , that's y I would like to go to this club.
I don't need to take a loan or sell car title for 30 min champagne room exp with gorgeous girl.
Yeah, You may be right. I should stop going there.
First off, I travel to many different clubs and what you explain is not uncommon at all. Guys paying just to chat all night and pass on the lapdances. I've had odd offers over the year (which most I have accepted) where, say a dancer says "If you pay me $300 I'll stay with you the entire time you're in the club and you can get as many lapdances as you want." Usually when that happens it's a slow night, a girl has a number she wants to achieve and just goes for it for it with one guy.
I too had a dancer I was once obsessed with, but she was ALWAYS tied up. Not just one guy but multiple guys. I remember one night waiting almost 90 minutes for my turn and still couldn't see her. Just like you, it was almost always some sap that was just sitting there chatting with her, and not getting lapdances. There was nobody else in the club I was even remotely interested in, so eventually I just stopped going to the club.
Lol!
First - in clubs the customer with the most cash (if he’s a decent guy) is the one who gets the dancer. It’s not like Disney stories - where the handsome prince gets the beauty. Based on your obsessive desire for this dancer - you bring more cash - and outspend the other guys. You spend time with her - and you decide if it was worth it.
Or - you cut bait - and move to another club. Don’t think about this dancer again. Don’t compare other dancers to her either. Your fantasized depiction of her is going to be impossible to compete with. Move on - enjoy a change of scenery - and appreciate the beautiful and sexy dancers.
I’ll be honest - when a customer obsesses over a single dancer - that’s when the money can get out of hand. She’s basically hooked you without any effort! You are drawn to her body - and she’s been with another customer - so your interaction has been minimal.
When I see a dancer who's really popular, I'll tip her $20 on stage and that always gets her attention. Patience is a virtue but with the hottest (most popular) girls you have to be at least a little proactive.
I love the variety in clubs - and some dancers think I’ll wait around - but I keep moving. There is such great variety in the clubs I hit - so if one dancer is busy - another beauty is ready to go.
No.She is not racist.She is lovely to all races.She danced for me before. She dances for all whites,blacks,Latin people and others
The guy does not look like rich whale. He may be good regular. Everytime i was there,he was there though it's Thursday. Yesterday I asked her why the guy didn't come today.She said he is here. She made time to spend time with me yesterday though the good regular was still there.
Even if it's good regular, he should be spending good amount to have her 4 to 5 hours that means he might be rich.
First time was in Philly tried o see how it will be.From then thought it was waste of time and money.
I could not control going to champagne with this dancer.
I always use part of my poker winnings or stock winnings for strip club visits.
She already replying to my texts
If you're getting a dance and she knows 2-3 guys who are richer than you are have been waiting, you're NOT going to get the same quality of time as you will when they know no one is in the wings. I probably get more free time and extra songs with my regulars than anyone else because of this.
I don't know why this continues to elude some guys here, who come on here and whine because they can't spend the $40 burning a hole in their pockets on the specific girls that they want. They also use the notion that she isn't getting paid by the other guy to justify their outrage, when in truth they don't have a clue about when or how she is getting paid by the guy.
Law of the jungle dudes. Big animals eat first and the smaller animals pick over the remains. Simple.
My current favorite will often sit with me for a long time, but not always. If I am visiting the club on Sunday or Tuesday, I will have her attention ITC and OTC is a definite option. But later in the week she has a couple of regulars who come in and spend a lot of money on her ITC, so if I happen to visit the club on those nights I'm SOL. This is the downside of chasing the hottest girl in the club and an illustration of the law of the jungle. There is nothing to be done but to spend more or accept it.
Good points...
It's not about spending money..its about how much other person is spending.
It is not $40 as you think and it's not a dancer from dive club who allows sucking tits in couch room for $20 per song.
I spent more than $100 each trip 3 times and more than $300 4th time and we r texting each other.
If TUSCL has copy paste pic functionality I can post here
Why that guy didn't continue songs if its $10 per song..i would have taken 10 songs if she is really pretty.
Manager at the club told me last night he used to earn 85k and now he earns 35k .Club used to be packed 4 to 5 years back.Now only 4 to 5 customers on week night's after 10 pm.
Dancers wait wait and leave if customers not coming. They don't have patience. When customers come no dancers in the club.
This group of customers are getting a bit more sophisticated and know which clubs in the area give them what they want. If there are none in the area they will travel (if not to far) to an area that has it. If those clubs are still too far away, like in your case you might see what you're seeing now. Just slow clubs in general, as the average strip club customer isn't willing to spend money on that type of experience. Basically, only two types of clubs will do well (lot of customers spending money and a lot of dancers and hot dancers working and making money). Ones that get a lot of casual business and repeat casual business, and the clubs that give the average PL what he's looking for.
You get over or around $4,000 a month from one customer (and i remember in one discussion you mentioning at the club you work that all the money from dances goes to the dancer so almost all if not all of that $4,000 is going to you)? And i think you also said you don't work that much (and you're here quite a bit even on weekends, unless you do this at work like a lot of people here i imagine). I don't know how long that has been going on, but i imagine you take pretty good care of this guy or at least i hope he feels spoiled. I'm sure he spoils you (definitely compared to other customers)...
I think guys who don’t want extras or high mileage - may gravitate towards some online porn.
Other guys will bite the bullet - if they are major extras types - and go the escort route.
It’s possible the demand will also decrease as new generations become of age. More cyber porn might be the trend. If things move in that direction - it’s possible things might die out.
I will go to Philly where topless dances are norm.
Some dancers dont even allow sucking tits in 30 min champagne room and some do.
They get some percentage from champagne room .
I take dances only from this girl from now on since she is exceptional.
Since they are bikini only not many customers taking dances.
It depends on dancers how much I pay per song. If she is hot and pretty don't min paying $40 per song .If she is hot but not pretty $30 per song..It varies..but I never go with flat chested or who shows bad attitude. I tip $10 to $20 for lap dances if i like it even if its only one song.if I don't like it I will cut it off in the middle of the song
I wouldn't tip anything for a bikini dance that cost $30 (and she kept everything). I still can't wrap my head around that. She can clear $300 in about half an hour for bikini dances, smh and the club gets nothing. I don't know how the club survives either as i imagine the CR is a hard sell.
I go to nude full contact clubs (not trying to rub it in, but trying to make a reference or comparison) where the girls keep about 2/3 to 3/4 of the dance price ($30) and i still only tip for excellent, exceptional or EXTRAordinary service. The girls at your club should not be honestly expecting tips. I don't tip just for looking good; that's what the stage is for (all of one dollar, just for looking good), and i don't tip for anything (services or activity) that the average or typical girl there will do. I really don't know what to tell you in this case; it won't be to keep doing what you're doing...
I would go with one of these options. Which option I would go for would depend on how much money I was going to drop. For a hundred or so have her come in earlier, win-win situation for both, you get your dances and some hangout time, and she has a decent start to her night. If for another night you would need to make it worth her while. Keep in mind dancers have to pay fees to work and she might not even be able to leave once your time with her is done.
The tip I mentioned about topless dances at philly or Hustler(used to be) not bikini dances.
In the current club where I go, each girl has to sell 3 drinks per shift and they will pay $45 to club for each shift they work.
If you get 3 regular customers like that you are set ..You will make $12000 a month.
I'll give you context from the other end of your spectrum – that being the guy who monopolizes one dancer's time, the guy you'd like to punch.
I am going to see my favorite tonight. She is sizzling hot, a blonde Russian (I prefer brunettes, actually, but for some reason she does it for me). She is super cool, unpretentious, and good fun to talk with.
I'll be in the club tonite about 4 hours. I don't send out the floor guy search party for her. She will find me, or I will casually find her. I don't text her saying hey I'm almost there, be ready for me. If she's up to something else when I arrive, no prob, I'll drink and enjoy the scenery until she emerges.
From the time she joins me til the time I depart, I estimate there's a less than 1% chance she will seek or accept a dance from another PL. Why? She's not stupid. I spend a lot of $ on her. It helps that I amuse her (at least I think I do. I'm not the most or least young, handsome, or fit guy in the club. When I see her (once, maybe twice a month), we do a VIP room, ranging from a half hour to 1.5 hours depending on how much money I have and how buzzed I am. I tip her very well, well enough that if I were to say how much every PL on this site may call me a fucking idiot. Perhaps (no, probably) I am but hey, it's my money and I like her. I've never asked or suggested that she not do dances with others while I'm there. If she did, I'd probably be annoyed, but hey she's at work, I should be able to comprehend that.
My counsel is that if you've got a major boner for this dancer then change your hours of appearance at the club when the other guy's not there. If you're unable to do that, consider doing yourself a favor and focus on a different girl.
And thank God there's plenty threads on this site with dozens of PLs urging to not get emotionally involved - gives me a much needed, post-clubbing dose of reality because for a few days after I see her I can't get her out of my mind. I should probably get tattooed on my forearm the definition of PL from the TUSCL glossary: "Pathetic Loser - get a grip, she's not in love with you, she just wants your money. All of it." With my fave, I wish the definition weren't true but if I'm being real with myself, of course it's true. Damnit!! Reality Bites Ass!!
Happy Clubbing to you, Dark Blue.
Well documented about SF MBOT, early days of lap dancing, which meant lap sitting.
The guy is not going to move on the girl, as he does not want to complicate the relationship. It often goes on for a long calendar time, but then usually he will move on. Often to the same thing with another girl.
People under estimate how men get hurt in relationships. Like here on this locker room type forum, guys are really bravado. But that does not mean that that is really the truth.
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I am lost now.How much should i spend now? What is the right approach?
I don't really want to give suggestions on how to be more pathetic (i.e. how much to potentially spend on her). She expects a lot just because of her whale (who pays just to talk to her?). If she can make $4k a month just from that, she might not be willing to do all that much ITC with you for anything less than what she gets from the other guy, if she can even do it (i don't know how hard it is to anything in that club).
Of course she has to have the hot looks guys desire unless she's doing more then just looking good.