After having a week to think it over and assess where i'm at in my life common sense finally kicked back in and i've decided that i'm going leave strip clubs alone and stick to escorts. You guys were right all it would lead to is deep frustration and wasted money. Thanks again guys.
...peace
@Papi_Chulo
I appreciate your comments especially the last one. In all honesty i don't really care about your racial background, i just felt I was being attacked(and on a personal note i've had some bad dating experiences that i'm trying to move on from) and my ego took over. In retrospect I shouldn't have done that, especially being that i'm an AA male myself. With that being said I apologize.
You're right though, having the right mindset is important and knowing what you want is most important. For me i'm interested basically in the sexual experiences paid for or "free" doesn't really to me though pulling an attractive stripper would be quite an accomplishment for someone like me. Anyway as i research this site and read many of these past discussions i'm realizing there is so much about this world i know nothing about so it would be wise for me to listen to those with more experience. With that being said i appreciate you for giving it to me straight. I'll take everything you have shared with me and keep that in mind when I start going in a few months.
No malice or "war of words" will be had going forward. We're good.
@Big Teezy
Understood bro i get where you coming from.
@TFB
Thanks for the well wishes. Yeah i like certain type of women so i'm just trying to go too as many places where they are to try and pull on.
@Cashman1234
My intention is not go in there and empty my bank account, i'm fully aware i'm not financially in the place that many of you older guys are to be spending money like that. Thank you for the well wishes though.
Well honestly guys i wasn't saying anything about going in there and spending my whole check, i just wanted to check out the scene and see what it's about. Yes the direction of the answers kinda took me back so that did offend me somewhat, but i do appreciate the honest advice though. My friend i was referring to even gave it to me straight saying that no matter how good looking, charismatic or whatever you are, there is always someone in there with more of those qualities than you so don't go in there thinking you going be special because those girls are all about money at the end of the day. Nonetheless date a stripper that was probably me talking out of my neck, but i would like to sleep with one, actually many of them....
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