How much would you be willing to pay?
larryfisherman
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Say you're negotiating with a stripper for a hour of OTC sex. You know the sex will be incredible, but she's not gonna come cheap. She's not a golden pussy syndrome girl (GPS), but she values her pussy more than your average stripper.
How much would you be willing to pay for a girl that's a 10 in your eyes, for a girl that's a 9 in your eyes, and for a girl that's a 8 in your eyes?
Remember that the sex is gonna be incredible.
The most I would be willing to pay for a 10 is $700, the most for a 9 would be $500, the most for a 8 would be $400.
How much would you be willing to pay for a girl that's a 10 in your eyes, for a girl that's a 9 in your eyes, and for a girl that's a 8 in your eyes?
Remember that the sex is gonna be incredible.
The most I would be willing to pay for a 10 is $700, the most for a 9 would be $500, the most for a 8 would be $400.
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9: the cost of dinner/drinks
8: the cost of dinner/drinks
I also have the general philosophy of: the sex gets BETTER AND BETTER the first 5+ times I'm with a girl, as trust relaxes her limits, she learns more and more what I like, and fantasizing about previous encounters makes the next encounter even hotter. For me it may take 10 times easily before the new-girl excitement starts to peak. So, in other words, I am completely uninterested in paying a huge amount to have sex with a girl once, since the payoff comes down the line. So, again, this sets an upper limit on what I'll pay: it has to be a number that's sustainable for multiple visits. For me, even $500 is not sustainable.
I suppose, with a truly spectacular woman who is also willing to do occasional overnights, and more routinely do longer OTCs including dinner/drinking/etc, I could drift up to $450... although I actually have never paid that much and not entirely sure I'd put my wallet where my keyboard is. Seeing her twice a month would mean $900 to her, plus drinks, dinners, hotel rooms takes that easily to $1500 total, which is approaching as much as I want to spend on P4P on a monthly basis, so she'd have to be pretty spectacular, because I'd be dropping all my other activities for her.
Here in SF, the most expensive area in the country, I routinely offer $250-$300, and up until a couple of years ago, was getting LOTS of takers at that $250 price (in fact, I often offered $200 and got takers on that). But these days that's just too low, even FBSM girls (that is, just a 60 minute massage & handjob) are getting $220-$240 here, so $200 for a stripper OTC is just not sustainable. But prices have NOT drifted up to where you'd think they'd be ... like I said, $250-$300 for an attractive stripper is often just fine; $350 for a spectacular one is sometimes okay
10 $300
9 $300
8 $300
7 $200
6 $50
5 $0
4 $(300)
3 (she gives me the title to a big house)
2 (she gives me the title to a beach mansion in Malibu)
1 (she gives me 10% share of AAPL stock)
Fuck it, a full night with a 10 that provides GFE sex would be worth 1k to me at least once. That's as high as I would go though. Trouble is, I've never met a ten willing to do OTC and if I ever did I doubt it would be a full night of GFE sex. Thus, I would never offer 1k.
@sinclair- you've never done OTC? Nothing wrong with that, some people on here are strictly ITC
@subra- let's just say multiple people that had sex with her tell you it was the best sex of their life. So you go into it knowing and expecting the sex will be remarkable.
I think for me in general $500 would be my max, but if I see that perfect 10 I would probably pay up to $700 if she was a hard bargainer.
I am currently negotiating with another 6 for a 5-hour afternoon date: she wants $600+ whereas I'm offering $350. I suspect we will *not* come to an agreement because she truly has GPS.
I'm also negotiating with an 8 for a 5-hour afternoon date: she wants $450 and I'm offering, again, $350. In this case I think it's only a matter of time, as we are not that far apart.
I agree with Subraman (as I so often do) that whatever I pay for OTC, it has to be sustainable because I will want to see her many times. If you start too high with an OTC girl, you're stuck at that level forever with her. At this point I'm most comfortable with $300-350 for an afternoon or evening and $500-600 for an overnight date (which is my preference).
You're gonna tell me in the moment you wouldn't pony up the extra $200 to make it happen?
As for what i'd be willing to pay, I've had some very hot dancers or escorts for $150.00 or less and often without the limited hour time frame. I suppose I would be willing to pay up to $300.00 for one that I found captivating in looks and also clicked with on a personal level but I would expect to get more than an hour out of her. If it was strictly limited to an hour I don't think i'd want to go over $200.00. That's just how i'm wired I love pussy but I set a limit and walk away if it's not agreeable. If more guys were willing to do the same prices would come down but IMO some guys have more money than brains, their game is lacking, or both.
But right now, I am all about getting my action ITC. If I find a suitable candidate, I will switch to OTC, and it would be exclusively with her and I would not be visiting clubs again until the relationship with the OTC stripper runs its course.
Generally I'm comfortable paying $300 to $400, but in the moment if I'm really horny and she's really hot I wouldn't be surprised if I shelled out 200 or 300 extra bucks if that was required.
Most dancers don't make $800 in a 24-hour period so we hold the negotiating power if we let the big brain be the boss.
Brilliant! I love that there is a bargain hunter on the board!
Just remember, fun > money. It's only money after all! ;)
If I made My-name-is-Elmer-J-Fudd-I-own-a-mansion-and-a-yacht money, then I'd perhaps part with more. But right now, that's what the budget will allow.
s275: That kind of begs the question -- do you have have one-hour OTC experiences with strippers? For me, in the past 5 years, I think the answer is no. Once I negotiate the sex, I'll invite her to go drinking beforehand, offer to buy dinner, whatever; even a short OTC tends to last a couple of hours counting the sex, and often many more. If I have a hotel room rather than the hot tubs (where everything is timed to the minute), the girls rarely time things there either. By the time we get back to the hotel room, we're buzzed, I have some more drinks ready, and everything there lasts however long it lasts, including after-sex cuddling and socializing.
In short: for a question like this, I just assume we're talking about multi-hour OTC for this price.
For me, unless I were swimming in money, spending over that would be insane.. to reiterate some of the many reasons:
1. AGain, there's no such thing as "know the sex will be truly great". I presume Larry's additional statement of "multiple people that had sex with her tell you it was the best sex of their life" is borne, perhaps, out of lack of experience with other areas of the sex industry, where it's quite common to have a girl with amazing reviews, but for whatever reason she's just not that great to you. The part of the exercise where you "know" it'll be amazing sex, without having had sex with her yourself, is so contrived that it makes it ridiculous... what I'm willing to pretend is that she got amazing reviews, which is a great sign, but most of us know from experience that that guarantees nothing. In the end, for me, it'd be foolish to spend more than what I'd be willing to lose if the experience turns out to be just ok.
2. It's not like there's nothing else around, there's an opportunity cost here. Right now I am seeing a girl OTC who is an 8, but with a 10 ass, and who is in that wonderful time where we've been together a few times, there's still some new-girl excitement left, but we also know each others' kinks and preferences, and she loves to party with me beforehand and she flirts me up until I'm about to explode, for $350 (which is high to me). The sex is un-fucking-believable, which in this case I KNOW for a fact since I've had it with her, and can afford to have it again :) Pay double that for a 10 who I really don't know whether I'll love or not, who may or may not be as fun to party with beforehand, who doesn't know my sexual preferences at all... for one time, then never again because I can't afford it, so don't even get her at her peak? In what universe does this make sense?
In short, too many other options out there, and a girl I can't see multiple times is of limited interest to me ... for me, at least, if I paid a one-time unaffordable amount to a chick just because she's hot, it'd be because for some reason I was mentally weak and just let the little overrule everything I know about p4p sex. It would be different if I was rolling in money and it didn't matter to me, then I might pay a premium for marginal increases in beauty, and be willing to take bigger risks that I wouldn't get my money's worth
What I fuck is 6 and 7 range
I don't even fuck 5 and under because although it's a bargain I'm not attracted
So 6-7 is the sweet spot and that comes at a great price of $100-$200
"Remember that the sex is gonna be incredible."
If that is the case why would anyone pay more for a 10 than for even a 2? Incredible sex is incredible sex.
This thread further convinces me that fishsticks' only motivation to have sexual relations with a woman is to maximize how much he can impress other guys.
He would probably rather pay $1K to fuck an uninspired, bored "10" than have a free, sensual, meaningful mindblowing romp with a "6".
2. Paying a woman for sex is just for the first time. After that you find other ways to make it work out. You can still be giving her money, but not as a fee. Money is just a show of care and concern, never a way to try and persuade her to do something she doesn't otherwise want to do.
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"You know the sex will be incredible, but she's not gonna come cheap."
"Remember that the sex is gonna be incredible."
Not you think it will be incredible or that it may be incredible.
I do not thus I wouldn't have found out in my cenerio.
Also a big sticker price doesn't mean good sex
A one and done just like a one night stand isn't going to be no wear as good as two people having past sexual history together
Thus the great sex...the mouth dropping , eye rolling nuts are going to be from frequent sexual events that will lead to the best sex of your life
In my past I was foolish to pay the sticker price a few times and let me tell you that was somehow the worst sex of my life even though they were hot
The best sex in my life has come from strippers that I spent time with and got to know over time. Then I spent multiple $100, $200 and $300 romps in the sack with her and each time the sex got better.
As for me, other people's opinions about sex quality are guidelines only, and not particularly good ones most of the time, apparently because my tastes are different enough that experiences aren't not directly relatable.
Two examples from our local USASG boards.
One is a hot as hell tattooed redhead with the sweetest meaty pussy I've ever seen. Virtually everyone else describes her as a dead fish lay. Only one other guy and I disagree, she's a very enthusiastic partner if you warm her up properly. Top 10 of the last two decades.
The other is a woman who called herself "the head doctor." Allegedly gave the best head ever. Guys were falling all over themselves talking about how excellent she was. I went to see her, and it was mediocre. And that was being generous.
So when other guys start talking in superlatives, I take it with a grain of salt.
That's just taking advantage of the peso vs dollar. Not sure that would fly in reverse(a Mexican saying he would only pay that or less over here).
Regardless, I would pay
Dinner at a 5 star restaurant for a 9 or 10
Dinner at a 4 star restaurant and a movie for an 8
Red lobster and a movie for a 7
Taco bell or McD's for a 6 and below
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I can't recall ever paying over 200 and usually get what I want for 100 . . . maybe 150 max. Until I confront someone that is able to motivate me beyond by current upper limit, that's it.
Why are you posting on this forum instead of banging her?
SJG
In my view, most of the stuff in a review like that is unimportant. What is important, and what is not there, is a description of the front room friendliness, the GFE auditions. That is what tells us how good the back room action will be. It tells us how softened up you can get your girl before committing to the back room, or to the motel.
And then also, can dancers come and go as they please, can you just walk one out the door with you, and she won't have to change her shoes or clothes? Do they have robes? Do the girls have their stuff in gym bags, so they can just walk out with you.
Can the girls come back later, so that they don't loose money if someone just wants them for a few hours instead of overnight?
And of course how about waitresses and other female staff, can you engage with them in the same ways?
Telling us that no bouncers are getting greased was important.
But you didn't tell us how far to the nearest motel, and if they are cool about all this, and if it might even be just across a parking lot, so you can walk your girl there.
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"Larry, you have explained that there was an awesome Latina who came to you home at 2am, and she was mind blowing, and when you saw her outside the club, she refused to accept money.
Why are you posting on this forum instead of banging her?"
Because he can't keep his lies straight.
SJG