Defending her honor?

If he really was a stalker, then there's a perception that she's his property. He thinks he's free to snap her bra, bitch to her about you onstage, and so on. That's dangerous, for her. Seriously, I'd recommend she file a restraining order. Keep him out of the club and away from her.

Who the fuck snaps a bra?

There are a lot of obnoxious losers in clubs that think b/c they spend a few bucks in the club and dancers or staff kiss their ass that they can be as much of an asshole as they want

Did you make a toast? It would go something like this.

Here's to your honor! If you can't cum in her, Then cum on her!

Similar shit happened to me at Follies about a year back - I was on a low-chair and a dancer was on me FCG topless and we were waiting for a song to start when some young skinny broke black-guy decides it's ok fo him to just reach over and start fondling her breast right in front of me - I asked her if she knew him and she said no, I just stared at the guy and he stopped doing it - it was disrespectful to her but more disrespectful to me I felt - wtf are you doing groping a dancer that I am paying for - what a fucking ghetto-loser.

interestingly enough, in all my club visits, i haven't seen much ruckus go down.

there's been like 2 times when a fight almost happened. and i say almost because it got broken up before anything ever happened.

i've also seen a customer try to take a picture of a dancer on stage with his cell phone but the club staff caught him and made him delete it LOL. but they didn't kick him out or anything

besides that, i don't think i've seen anything too crazy

In every strip club crowd there's a percentage of man children who behave like its their first time seeing a boobie.

It's amazing, but somehow rickdugan can take a story where he did something that nice and still sound like a d-bag.

I mean really, if somebody did what the non-rickdugan d-bag did to a girl with me I'd consider it a case where my interests align with the dancer's.

Truth is that I probably wouldn't notice something like that unless the girl was with me, but if I did and I was sure the guy was harassing the girl I would point it out to the bouncer or bartender. Out of basic empathy. Chances of that are essentially zero because I'd be focused elsewhere and uncertain about what happened.

Regardless, this is another "not brilliant" for rickdugan. :(

A guy displaying some self-respect is pretty brilliant to me. Chicks seem to dig it, too. If the dancer benefited from it, so much the better.

No. It wasn't defending her honor. Interesting story though...

^ LOL - I think it was more of "hey I'm Rick Fucking Dugan"

Ouch Papi. The disrespect pissed me off for sure. But more important was that he was fucking around with my good time. This girl has that beautiful hot young wife next door look, the one that you hope like hell will walk past a window naked or in the back yard with a tiny bikini. She's my CF even though she's the most inconsistent girl in my OTC rotation - she's just that sexy. I was having a great time, with OTC lining up nicely after 2 weeks of having to settle for the B option, and this guy almost completely fucked the vibe up in one stupid act.

You gotta be extra careful in strip clubs. You don't know what kind of nuts you could be dealing with. And then also the girls play games to manipulate you. So like when waiting for the music to start, a girl will come near you and start talking about a guy nearby and how she doesn't like him. The guy will sense this and say, "Are you talking about me?"

And then the girl will say, "No."

But you can see how this is risking problems.

Alcohol + Women + Guys Who May Have Little To Lose + You Having Nothing Really To Gain.

The main rule in strip clubs is that the girls must be free to move about and engage freely, and guys just have to accept this. If the girls become like property, then the situation will disintegrate quickly.

SJG

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At least he didn't grab her by the pussy.

SJG that has got to be the most sensible post you've ever delivered. I like the part about the guy sensing she was talking about him, yet denies to his face.

I would never ask a dancer if she was talking about me, because I don't give a shit. Only someone with brains made out of shit would ask a dancer if she was talking about him.

Dancers can set up dangerous situations, for their own stupid reasons.

SJG

Wait a minute... so, there's actually honor in a strip club?

The same place where if you give a girl enough money to get on her knees and suck your cock or let you fuck her every which way you can in a small cubicle with curtains that have the DNA from a thousand other PLs... there is actually still some honor?

Huh. Who'd have thunk it?

LDK, I suppose if I was just there to blow a load in my pants then I might have stayed out of it, though I somehow doubt it. But this guy was becoming a distraction in my efforts to lock down OTC with a girl who is somewhat elusive, so my decision was made much simpler. The fact that she's a sweet girl who didn't need the headache didn't hurt either.

rickdugan is gay!

ppwh, I disagree that this is a sign of self-respect. Let's leave aside the fact that I don't believe a word of it.

It was clearly a story built to give rickdugan the opportunity to stress that he would never actually do anything nice for a dancer. Only things that benefit himself.

This is extremely similar to rickdugan's non-brilliant "I know this girl that used to be a heroin addict and I hope she backslides so I can get cheaper sex" post. A story designed to show that rickdugan is like honey badger. rickdugan just "don't care!" :(

But I've come to the overall conclusion that at least 90% of what rickdugan is fiction. All of his stories have this shit going on. He never tells the story of a fun visit that goes off without a hitch. He is either the unluckiest SOB on the planet, a moron that attracts chaos to his life, or a he is embellishing.

In my club, if a drunk is messing with a dancer, the DANCER gets a bouncer and the man is shown the door. This is a rare event, but the last thing the manager wants is a PL 'standing up' for a dancer and starting a fight.

I think I'd've been tempted to do the same thing as Rick. Assuming the guy didn't look like he was going to get violent about it.